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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm finding it difficult to arrange any meets,I am always polite when messaging but very rarely get a reply

I know I haven't got any verifications so that could possibly hold people back but I deleted my last account that did have a few verifications on it

Any help would be appreciated

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Erm, at the risk of being slated I do have to ask.

Are you really 38 years old, OP?

You haven’t asked for advice on your profile, so can’t comment on it.

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

Get some verifications from your next club visit?

Write some small slips of paper with your fab name and give them to people that you chat / connect with.

It’s nice to see a face pic in a profile but you have three all with the same rather stern expression.

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

I was going to ask your age aswell. (Sorry) Plus cannot accom. I just read that as married. N some people don’t like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding it difficult to arrange any meets,I am always polite when messaging but very rarely get a reply

I know I haven't got any verifications so that could possibly hold people back but I deleted my last account that did have a few verifications on it

Any help would be appreciated "

It's always going to be more difficult for us single guys on here, we are the least desirable and outnumbered everyone else bye miles, even with verifications it's not all that much easier, I'd say the way to be successful is to get yourself out and go to clubs let people meet you in person just use fab as a way to keep in contact after the fact rather then putting all your effort in trying to use it to meet with people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erm, at the risk of being slated I do have to ask.

Are you really 38 years old, OP?

You haven’t asked for advice on your profile, so can’t comment on it. "

I'm not no,I am actually 48

I didn't realise I had set my dat of birth wong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was going to ask your age aswell. (Sorry) Plus cannot accom. I just read that as married. N some people don’t like that. "

Not married or have a partner just looking after a family member with a serious illness atm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm finding it difficult to arrange any meets,I am always polite when messaging but very rarely get a reply

I know I haven't got any verifications so that could possibly hold people back but I deleted my last account that did have a few verifications on it

Any help would be appreciated

It's always going to be more difficult for us single guys on here, we are the least desirable and outnumbered everyone else bye miles, even with verifications it's not all that much easier, I'd say the way to be successful is to get yourself out and go to clubs let people meet you in person just use fab as a way to keep in contact after the fact rather then putting all your effort in trying to use it to meet with people "

Yes I'm definitely understanding that for sure, I'll certainly give the clubs in Manchester a visit

Hopefully over the Christmas period

Thanks for the advice

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

Patience Daniel son....said Mr miyagi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm, at the risk of being slated I do have to ask.

Are you really 38 years old, OP?

You haven’t asked for advice on your profile, so can’t comment on it.

I'm not no,I am actually 48

I didn't realise I had set my dat of birth wong "

20 years wrong? Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Patience Daniel son....said Mr miyagi"

Yes definitely, I'm trying to be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You now seem to be 28……. What’s your secret OP?

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"I was going to ask your age aswell. (Sorry) Plus cannot accom. I just read that as married. N some people don’t like that.

Not married or have a partner just looking after a family member with a serious illness atm "

Op don't feel ypu need to justify yourself

As long as ypur profile reflects you and what ypur wanting from fab. Don't justify yourself to keyboard warriors

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Blimey ws this account reported then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey ws this account reported then "

Yup that was quick

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Well that was quick

Mrs

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

That didn’t go the way he expected at All!!

I didn’t know you would be removed from Fab for false age.

There must be at least half the site hiding behind there sofas at this precise moment…

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"That didn’t go the way he expected at All!!

I didn’t know you would be removed from Fab for false age.

There must be at least half the site hiding behind there sofas at this precise moment… "

Who knows why.

Perhaps the mods read his admittance of age.

Really though who forgets how hold they are . Wonder what else he forgot

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Equally if he was removed my mods. Then good. Shows they are watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d imagine he deleted his account as you can only change your age once, he went from 38 to 28 when he was actually 48…… he’ll be back

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