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By *ave_a_look OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the Midlands

Hello there everybody, I'm currently down in London on business, in my hotel room, in the chat rooms and it suddenly occurred to me that swinging is a very very much individual thing.

Sorry if I seem to be on a waffle but I thought I would give my opinion on the the joys and excitement of swinging and how much it can be different for every person involved.

Firstly, (my negative view on swinging) ... sorry to begin with the negative but I've always been brought up to end on a positive...

the people who say they are swingers and/or who are on this site for sex because they can't get it in the real world... (it may still work for them and I'm not one to judge but in my opinion, these are'nt real swingers (but I am by no means here to judge and say it's wrong because if they find fun with other willing people then fair play and I am happy that they found eachother) ...

but in my opinion, swinging is like an added joy of life and an added part of fun and sexual excitement... speaking on a personal level I find it an honour to be invited into a sexual experience with a couple and the fact that they have invited me to experience sexual times with them is so exciting my 100% aim is for them to get exactly what they want and help fulfil their fantasies..

this is totally different to using a swinging site to just get sex and see it as an easier or even lazy option (I'm not saying it is an easy option for everybody and I'm not saying it is in fact an easy option per se either but I just think some people see it as that and use it as an easy option)

What swinging is and means to me... Being a single man and helping fulfil fantasies of women and couples in whatever way we decide and see fit... for everybody to be happy sexually excited and satisfied then I think that right there is what real swinging is

Hopefully see you all soon ... naked and with a smile on your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All that and no one said a word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shush....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I joined here because I was horny and can't pull in the Real world but have been here 4 Yeats now and have made some great friends, been invited to people's weddings and second weddings at chams, met an amazing guy who I am looking forward to spending more and more time together.

We go to clubs, we would like others to join us but I guess I'm not a swinger because I can't get sex in the real world

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Hello there everybody, I'm currently down in London on business, in my hotel room, in the chat rooms and it suddenly occurred to me that swinging is a very very much individual thing.

Sorry if I seem to be on a waffle but I thought I would give my opinion on the the joys and excitement of swinging and how much it can be different for every person involved.

Firstly, (my negative view on swinging) ... sorry to begin with the negative but I've always been brought up to end on a positive...

the people who say they are swingers and/or who are on this site for sex because they can't get it in the real world... (it may still work for them and I'm not one to judge but in my opinion, these are'nt real swingers (but I am by no means here to judge and say it's wrong because if they find fun with other willing people then fair play and I am happy that they found eachother) ...

but in my opinion, swinging is like an added joy of life and an added part of fun and sexual excitement... speaking on a personal level I find it an honour to be invited into a sexual experience with a couple and the fact that they have invited me to experience sexual times with them is so exciting my 100% aim is for them to get exactly what they want and help fulfil their fantasies..

this is totally different to using a swinging site to just get sex and see it as an easier or even lazy option (I'm not saying it is an easy option for everybody and I'm not saying it is in fact an easy option per se either but I just think some people see it as that and use it as an easy option)

What swinging is and means to me... Being a single man and helping fulfil fantasies of women and couples in whatever way we decide and see fit... for everybody to be happy sexually excited and satisfied then I think that right there is what real swinging is

Hopefully see you all soon ... naked and with a smile on your face "
your perception of swinging isnt exactly swinging either , to swing properly u need to be a couple. (two couples swapping). also to say its easy to get sex, u obviously havnt been on the site long.

the women on here are far from easy, it would be easier to pull outside the lifestyle in a bar or pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the moment I cant pull.a,cracker...booo!

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

The decent ones are worth waiting for, and youre right - its hard to get a meet on here. Many have standards but i think thats a good.

I rarely meet, i need to have some rapport before i decide anything..

But thats my choice and the guys i choose have all been a goood choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello there everybody, I'm currently down in London on business, in my hotel room, in the chat rooms and it suddenly occurred to me that swinging is a very very much individual thing.

Sorry if I seem to be on a waffle but I thought I would give my opinion on the the joys and excitement of swinging and how much it can be different for every person involved.

Firstly, (my negative view on swinging) ... sorry to begin with the negative but I've always been brought up to end on a positive...

the people who say they are swingers and/or who are on this site for sex because they can't get it in the real world... (it may still work for them and I'm not one to judge but in my opinion, these are'nt real swingers (but I am by no means here to judge and say it's wrong because if they find fun with other willing people then fair play and I am happy that they found eachother) ...

but in my opinion, swinging is like an added joy of life and an added part of fun and sexual excitement... speaking on a personal level I find it an honour to be invited into a sexual experience with a couple and the fact that they have invited me to experience sexual times with them is so exciting my 100% aim is for them to get exactly what they want and help fulfil their fantasies..

this is totally different to using a swinging site to just get sex and see it as an easier or even lazy option (I'm not saying it is an easy option for everybody and I'm not saying it is in fact an easy option per se either but I just think some people see it as that and use it as an easy option)

What swinging is and means to me... Being a single man and helping fulfil fantasies of women and couples in whatever way we decide and see fit... for everybody to be happy sexually excited and satisfied then I think that right there is what real swinging is

Hopefully see you all soon ... naked and with a smile on your face "

You come over as if you feel you are doing couples a favour in 'helping fulfill their fantasies. That's NOT Swinging. Swinging was, and should be a SHARED experience of recreational, non-committed sex. It should be equitable - i.e. each 'party' gains from the experience. The view you have expressed really smacks of it being a one-way street to me. When I swing as a part of a couple, I certainly do NOT want to do it with a 2nd male who feels he is doing me and my partner a 'favour'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't a bloody clue what swinging is. We are just a long married couple who fancied involving other people in our bed just for shits and giggles. No harm done, no analysis required!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Swinging or (rarely) partner swapping is a non-monogamous behaviour, in which singles or partners engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity. All credits for this definition to Mr Wikipedia.

All dating sites attract people wanting just sex, generally looking for one single partner at the time; Everyone has there reasons for making the leap into the unknown world of 'swinging'' and one of them is probably because it is so difficult nowadays for the young and more mature people to find single/multiple partners in the usual social places; what some would call the Real world. Regardless of what they say in their profiles, everyone on dating sites want sex, some want a relationship, few will settle for friendship and only the rare ones will want all three.

I joined to savour all that the swinging world has to offer, wanting to experience loosing control, pushing my boundaries, discovering pleasures un-thought of, giving myself over to the there and now. Lucky me who has found on this site high quality partners that keep me in a constant state of arousal both mentally and physically, who are excited to receive and give pleasure, open minded and willing to explore and discover what MORE means for us. There are no expectations only a desire to be taken on a sensual, enticing and exciting journey of fulfilment of our fantasies.

Swinging is a preference for me, not a lifestyle and believe me, it is very Real.

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