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By *r_reus OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Something I can't help but wonder?

It's no secret, the phenomenon on here of woman asking for fabs, and they're often specific about it too, such as demanding 1000 or more and such like.

I can understand the ego thing, but what I find strange is that they presumably feel no attraction to the overwhelming majority of the males fabbing them, so what's the point in it, getting your ego stroked by 1000 guys you feel no attraction to?

How does it make you feel beautiful, when you yourself know that the guys paying you these compliments will give them to anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I can't help but wonder?

It's no secret, the phenomenon on here of woman asking for fabs, and they're often specific about it too, such as demanding 1000 or more and such like.

I can understand the ego thing, but what I find strange is that they presumably feel no attraction to the overwhelming majority of the males fabbing them, so what's the point in it, getting your ego stroked by 1000 guys you feel no attraction to?

How does it make you feel beautiful, when you yourself know that the guys paying you these compliments will give them to anyone?"

Life isn't all about sex believe it or not. Just having 1,000 desperate men do something nice is still a good feeling. No need to fuck or fancy any of them.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

how other use this site is of no concern of mine ... ill just look out for what i want ..

as someone else has said its not a sex site its a swingers site and some swingers like the attention online as well ... we are all different on this scene there no blueprint for swinging no rule book no right way or wrong way ... just your way and if others relate then who is anyone to tell them otherwise

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By *r_reus OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Something I can't help but wonder?

It's no secret, the phenomenon on here of woman asking for fabs, and they're often specific about it too, such as demanding 1000 or more and such like.

I can understand the ego thing, but what I find strange is that they presumably feel no attraction to the overwhelming majority of the males fabbing them, so what's the point in it, getting your ego stroked by 1000 guys you feel no attraction to?

How does it make you feel beautiful, when you yourself know that the guys paying you these compliments will give them to anyone?

Life isn't all about sex believe it or not. Just having 1,000 desperate men do something nice is still a good feeling. No need to fuck or fancy any of them. "

But if you don't even fancy these 'desperate' men, then where's the value in their approval, what have you achieved, other than their tacit admission that you're of higher value than them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't comment on it really. I don't even think about fabs, never done anything for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different folks, different strokes. If we all got turned on or excited by the same thing then the world would be a very boring place. Mr

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood


"Something I can't help but wonder?

It's no secret, the phenomenon on here of woman asking for fabs, and they're often specific about it too, such as demanding 1000 or more and such like.

I can understand the ego thing, but what I find strange is that they presumably feel no attraction to the overwhelming majority of the males fabbing them, so what's the point in it, getting your ego stroked by 1000 guys you feel no attraction to?

How does it make you feel beautiful, when you yourself know that the guys paying you these compliments will give them to anyone?"

Nah guys will do anything if they think they will get a shag - don't be a pussy and fall victim to us evil witches

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

If it makes woman happy why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I can't help but wonder?

It's no secret, the phenomenon on here of woman asking for fabs, and they're often specific about it too, such as demanding 1000 or more and such like.

I can understand the ego thing, but what I find strange is that they presumably feel no attraction to the overwhelming majority of the males fabbing them, so what's the point in it, getting your ego stroked by 1000 guys you feel no attraction to?

How does it make you feel beautiful, when you yourself know that the guys paying you these compliments will give them to anyone?

Life isn't all about sex believe it or not. Just having 1,000 desperate men do something nice is still a good feeling. No need to fuck or fancy any of them.

But if you don't even fancy these 'desperate' men, then where's the value in their approval, what have you achieved, other than their tacit admission that you're of higher value than them?"

Higher value is great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend a lot of time taking photos and it's nice to know that people appreciate them. It feels pretty straightforward and honest. I don't ask people specifically to fab but I do love it when I get a lot because it let's me know that other people like them and makes me feel that the time I put into it was worth it.

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By *evergiveupMan
over a year ago

derbyshire

Harmless fun isn't it ?

I love fabbing any pic I find sexy- people have taken it and uploaded it so why not appreciate it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just how social media is.

People enjoy it as a validation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something I can't help but wonder?

It's no secret, the phenomenon on here of woman asking for fabs, and they're often specific about it too, such as demanding 1000 or more and such like.

I can understand the ego thing, but what I find strange is that they presumably feel no attraction to the overwhelming majority of the males fabbing them, so what's the point in it, getting your ego stroked by 1000 guys you feel no attraction to?

How does it make you feel beautiful, when you yourself know that the guys paying you these compliments will give them to anyone?"

Desperado

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

People haven’t fabbed my chocoflan as much as I had hoped.

*still can’t do the crying emoji*

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

What's really the matter OP?

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I appreciate people who like my photos, I wouldn’t beg for fabs as it then means nothing. It obviously makes them feel good or gives them a rush to get to the top who knows and who cares if they don’t fancy Norman, Barry or Percy

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt

It's the same dopamine rush you get from likes on a Facebook selfie. We can spend so much time taking loads of photos to get the "perfect" one. It's just nice to feel attractive and appreciated.

I've only asked for Fabs once and it was for my football shirt pic. Honestly I was just looking for support and luck in the Euro qualifiers

Beth x

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"People haven’t fabbed my chocoflan as much as I had hoped.

*still can’t do the crying emoji*"

Looked delicious though!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm not so fussed about fabs. I do like to have an appreciative audience if I'm playing at the clubs though. It doesn't matter if I'd fuck them or not, I like knowing that they're getting off on the things I'm doing anyway

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I just like showing off

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

my fabs are turned off im not one for them but if others enjoy then i really dont see the problem

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