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By *enk15 OP   Man
over a year ago

Evesham

I don't get any for 6 months and then 2 in one day!

My question is, if you use winks, what do you use them for?

Is it to elicit a message from the receiver? if so, why not just send a message in the first place?

Is it to just show appreciation to a nice profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to ignore winks

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By *achelTheAnalSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath


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Is it to elicit a message from the receiver? if so, why not just send a message in the first place?

"

'Cos I'm too shy and don't want to be presumptive (so even winking is something I rarely do)

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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

We don't even consider winks. Just delete immediately. Same with friend's request from someone who makes that the first contact

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I honestly thought winks were a thing of the past on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are like Marmite, some love using them, others will completely ignore them. Individual reasons which is absolutely fine. Does it give you more or less success in gaining attention I don’t know.

For me, if it stipulates in the profile, then no way would I send a wink. I do though like to send a wink to garage initial mutual attraction, a nod of appreciation too. If I get a wink back then I see it as my cue to then send that initial message. Will always be a hot topic of discussion

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't use them often, but we have had some great meets that started with a wink so I think they can work well.

Mrs

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

biggest waste of space are winks along with cam varies ...yes i mass delete winks

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If I get one from a lady or couple then I will send a message. See where it leads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a fan of winks, lazy man way of communicating. I’d rather get a nice message (or dirty lol)

I always reply even if it’s a ‘no Ty’ xx

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By *enk15 OP   Man
over a year ago

Evesham

Seems like winks mostly have a bad rep

I would never send one, seems a bit pointless.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

It's a little ice breaker. Some like them, some not. Leave you with the choice to respond or not. I just wish they wete full bright yellow like the messages rather than just yellow text as I miss them sometime and not notice like a day after, though not always

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m not a fan of winks, lazy man way of communicating. I’d rather get a nice message (or dirty lol)

I always reply even if it’s a ‘no Ty’ xx"

Dirty is always an option.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I usually don't reply to them with a message, but if I like them back or I just want to politely acknowledge them if meeting is not practical, I will wink back or fab some of their pics.

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