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Rudeness and sand castles!

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By *orthernJay OP   Man
over a year ago

Bramhall

Maybe it’s just me, perhaps my expectations of other humans is fanciful given the general downbeat global vibe at present; that said, the abject rudeness of some Fabbers is beyond the pale and borderline narcissistic.

I do wonder how such folk exist in the real world, imagine blanking and walking away from someone in a club/bar simply because they didn’t give you an answer to your liking or disrespecting a random stranger you’ve never met; because they won’t pander to your whims or requests!

Amazes me such people have verifications, back when you had to ‘put a shift in’ and make an effort at house parties or members clubs, these cretins would have been left alone in the corner all night or rightly shown the door!

Anyways, back under my sandcastle, tide is coming in

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Maybe it’s just me, perhaps my expectations of other humans is fanciful given the general downbeat global vibe at present; that said, the abject rudeness of some Fabbers is beyond the pale and borderline narcissistic.

I do wonder how such folk exist in the real world, imagine blanking and walking away from someone in a club/bar simply because they didn’t give you an answer to your liking or disrespecting a random stranger you’ve never met; because they won’t pander to your whims or requests!

Amazes me such people have verifications, back when you had to ‘put a shift in’ and make an effort at house parties or members clubs, these cretins would have been left alone in the corner all night or rightly shown the door!

Anyways, back under my sandcastle, tide is coming in "

Isn't anyone answering your messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me about it, walking around with a bucket and spade thinking they are banksy.. madness.

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By *orthernJay OP   Man
over a year ago

Bramhall


"Maybe it’s just me, perhaps my expectations of other humans is fanciful given the general downbeat global vibe at present; that said, the abject rudeness of some Fabbers is beyond the pale and borderline narcissistic.

I do wonder how such folk exist in the real world, imagine blanking and walking away from someone in a club/bar simply because they didn’t give you an answer to your liking or disrespecting a random stranger you’ve never met; because they won’t pander to your whims or requests!

Amazes me such people have verifications, back when you had to ‘put a shift in’ and make an effort at house parties or members clubs, these cretins would have been left alone in the corner all night or rightly shown the door!

Anyways, back under my sandcastle, tide is coming in

Isn't anyone answering your messages? "

The opposite!

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

nobody owes you anything ... that its it in a nutshell ... its nothing to do with being rude..

do you answer to all your junk mail from your letter box and email accounts if not is that not you being rude ???

the worse thing anyone can do is join a swinging site feeling entitled and the number one thing people should learn is ''rejection'' as you will get it by the bucket load ...

so as i said nobody owes anybody anything ... read the site rules too it states clearly no reply means not interested ....

sorry but blunt is best sometimes rather than the ''you'll be fine'' ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you're getting abusive replies report them. Obviously I don't know the content of the messages you send but if they're standard polite and friendly ones there's no need for rudeness.

I think for your own sanity you need to accept that people will not respond or stop responding mid conversation as frustrating as it is. Also bear in mind that site FAQS say no reply is acceptable.

I think that some people find it easier to stop responding than to explain why and you never know what's going on in someone's life.

Hope your experience improves

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