FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging and sex workers

By *actilenorfolkgent OP Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Curious as to how most swingers feel about sex workers. I know there as percentage who cross over

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

We believe in " Live and let live"

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Sex work is work. I don't judge people for what they do to make money

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I can't see why it would be a problem for me personally. It's a fairly broad spectrum, from stripping to webcamming as well as the more obvious aspect, but so long as they were doing it through their own choice, and it wasn't having a negative impact on our sex life, I can't see why I'd object.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best is to do what you like and be well paid for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no feelings on the matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its work, nothing more to be said really

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

By definition, swingers are having sex with multiple partners. Maybe some have figured out how to get paid as well!

Those who are in the sex industry usually take their sexual health seriously, so that's another bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter what anyone thinks about sex workers? It's up to them what they do, if they're happy then crack on and enjoy

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Trying to grasp the question?

If your asking about people who swing and do sex work, then to us that's a none issue. For us it's just like asking about how we feel about people who swing and do accountancy or auto repair or waste disposal. Most of us have an occupation as well as enjoy swinging. So just because your occupation is adult work why should you not be treated the same as anyone else on the scene?

However if your question is about how'd you feel about swingers paying sex workers likewise don't see the problem at a private level. It's legitimate adult work and if people can enjoy a positive experience with an adult worker that's their business and their money. Personally we're way too tight for that

. However I think things can become more complicated when you have sex workers in a club/party environment especially when organised to be there/house hosts. This is made especially problematic if this is not clear to all potential guests before hand (which of course is difficult with regards legal implications of a few sex workers in one location). Simply because anyone visiting with the intention of swinging has a right to know the set up and activity in the venue/event. Which for some may not be a problem. I believe in such venues/events where adult workers are present there's a fear that single visitors will feel more entitled to sex with everyone (sex worker and swinger alike). However despite the logical assumption from what we have gathered often the behaviour is better in these club/events than regular swinger clubs/events. But personally its not for us and we do see it as problematic when a club with sex workers advertises its self as a swingers club even if it is a place where swingers also attend.

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By *ecret-64Couple
52 weeks ago

Wrexham

No problem here.

We have worked in the porn industry and its just work.

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By *eelsandsuitsCouple
52 weeks ago

stirling

Zero issues with us. Each to their own. Some people will be making serious money. Good on them.

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By *rpeggioCouple
52 weeks ago

Baughurst

"Sex work is work. I don't judge people for what they do to make money"

I do judge. Not fond of politicians. Sex workers are fine. They work. Politicians don't.

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By *iercedItMan
52 weeks ago

North West

Don't see why it's an issue.

I know people (m and f) who work in the adult sector.

Sex work as a whole is a massive sector, is there a specific part you have in mind ?

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By *iercedItMan
52 weeks ago

North West

Hahaha I nearly said in my reply "I'd have bigger issues with politicians, we get fucked enough by them without them coming into our leisure time" haha.

"Sex work is work. I don't judge people for what they do to make money

I do judge. Not fond of politicians. Sex workers are fine. They work. Politicians don't."

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By *wannafreakyouMan
52 weeks ago

london

Do what you gotta do

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

It’s the oldest profession in the world

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By *rpeggioCouple
52 weeks ago

Baughurst

"It’s the oldest profession in the world"

Can't be. Someone had to have another profession first to have the money or the means (or the beans) to pay to the sex worker.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

We are personal friends with a sex worker and never gave it a second thought honestly.

Always been supportive of sex work regardless.

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By *otty BikerMan
52 weeks ago

Warrington

"Curious as to how most swingers feel about sex workers. I know there as percentage who cross over"

A lot of sex workers are also in swinging too.

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By *avenjane7Couple
52 weeks ago

colne

First experience with swapping was with a sex worker, I rang her she told me how much, we both said let's go for it. She rang Jane to see if all OK and make a time and day.

The day came money waiting, knock at the door in she came and omg what a time we had. She stade longer than she said and she nearly went with out money lol.

So sex workers have a place I think as long as it not for drug money.

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By *ngelLordCouple
52 weeks ago

Newport

Just enjoy in multiple ways no issues from us

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By *permdonorMan
52 weeks ago

driffield

It's just work i did a couple of bukakke videos a few years ago

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By *oupleus30Couple
52 weeks ago

Minster

"Sex work is work. I don't judge people for what they do to make money"

I agree

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Chichester

All good

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By *heonlycunnilinguyMan
52 weeks ago

Yeovil

Does it really matter

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
52 weeks ago

Leeds

Each to their own, I don't think anything about it.

It's not for me personally but I've nothing against those that chose that line of work.

Mrs

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
52 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Its work, nothing more to be said really"
this.. as long as not using swing clubs or sites to get work then not an issue.

Cali

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By *atcoupleCouple
52 weeks ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"We believe in " Live and let live"

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By *heFabtasticsCouple
52 weeks ago

brentwood

Ex girlfriend and one of my best friends is a sex worker and the way I see it is what somebody wants to do with their own body is their own business and as my friend is a single parent she has made a better life for her and her children

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

The only issue morally and legally is sex workers in clubs seeking business. Its risks the venue being seen as a brothel then. Aside from that we don't see any correlation between the two at all.

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
52 weeks ago

london

"Sex work is work. I don't judge people for what they do to make money"

What about drug dealers?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Also as any man should know, it doesn't matter if it's a sex worker, your girlfriend, or your wife. Be it money, gifts, holidays, or household chores, you're always paying for sex somehow.

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By *uri00620Woman
52 weeks ago

Croydon

"Sex work is work. I don't judge people for what they do to make money

What about drug dealers?"

This is an odd comment.

Sex work is legal (soliciting aside). Drug dealing isn't.

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
52 weeks ago

london

"Sex work is work. I don't judge people for what they do to make money

What about drug dealers?

This is an odd comment.

Sex work is legal (soliciting aside). Drug dealing isn't."

I was simply questioning the comment “I don’t judge people for what they don’t make money” Legality hadn’t come into it.

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By *actilenorfolkgent OP Man
52 weeks ago

Norwich

"Curious as to how most swingers feel about sex workers. I know there as percentage who cross over

A lot of sex workers are also in swinging too."

I've found that, but how do swingers view other swingers using sex workers,

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Why do girls hide it if it’s so accepted

So many on here that are on adult

Work

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
52 weeks ago

Sheffield

The way I’d see it is:

1 is for work

1 is for pleasure

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
52 weeks ago

Merseyside

Each to their own but I personally could never do it. It would change the power dynamic and I like to have the power

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By *ee1967Man
52 weeks ago

watford

Ex wife had a website between 2013 and 2018. Sold knickers, pics and vids, done webcams.

One woman who was on the same site ran an agency, long story short, wife went on about 15 meets, at least 6 were the same guy, but she also met a female cple.

She loved it at first, but then the novelty wore off

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By *atandasmileMan
52 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Why do girls hide it if it’s so accepted

So many on here that are on adult

Work"

It doesn't necessarily take many unpleasant interactions to spoil the experience. That goes for anything that is mostly accepted but a few are judgemental about. And so people get to not mentioning whatever it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Something we are considering in the city we live in.

There isn't really a swinging scene and we don't want to keep dipping into our pool of friends and associates, but there are easy accessible sex workers online and in certain bars.

Sex hotels (Motels) are quite cheap by the hour here too.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
52 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Why do girls hide it if it’s so accepted

So many on here that are on adult

Work"
because of how people judge.

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By *irtyKittenCouple
52 weeks ago

Southampton

"Why do girls hide it if it’s so accepted

So many on here that are on adult

Work because of how people judge. "

Exactly this, if people where not so judgemental the World would be a better place.

A lot woman who fall onto this is because they needed to find way to support themselves.

I know some get forced or are in it due to drugs but the ones that chose the profession are probably very happy and making a lot more money than they could in a normal job but what is a normal job these days.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Central

The job that someone has is nothing to do with me. They have every right to pursue their own objectives and to enjoy their life however they decide to. Similarly, they should be able to enjoy their recreational sex life to the max too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Central

"Why do girls hide it if it’s so accepted

So many on here that are on adult

Work"

Most of us don't need to or want to discuss our work, or much of our private lives, as a general rule. It doesn't need to relate to our own self-confidence or others' acceptance of aspects of our lives. Ultimately, it's nobody else's business.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

It tends to be kept quiet because of the stigmatism it's had in the past and judgemental people in the world who seem to be perfectly okay paying to view an OnlyF account, but as soon as a physical aspect is involved they change their mind.

Imo, OnlyF is sex work, without the physical aspect, and AdultW is the other side of that same coin.

I've no problems with whatever a person wants to do with their body/life, as long as it doesn't impact me in a way I am not okay with.

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By *otuseater11Man
52 weeks ago

kilwinning

As long as everyone is happy live and let live I say

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Maidstone

I once had a regular fuck buddy who drove mini cab for a living.

Of course when he's working, he expects to be paid but he also drives his wife and kids about for free. He drives family and friends to the airport for free but expects the favour returned.

No different to sex workers who swing for fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Each to their own but I personally could never do it. It would change the power dynamic and I like to have the power

It wouldn't because that would be the contract!

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
52 weeks ago

Merseyside

"Each to their own but I personally could never do it. It would change the power dynamic and I like to have the power

It wouldn't because that would be the contract!"

In an ideal world, yes. But in reality it can be very dangerous indeed with people with no respect for others, more so in this scenario

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By *agusMan
52 weeks ago

Near by

I don't judge, I just like to get my money's worth.

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By *ubicon MangoMan
52 weeks ago

willenhall

Good friends with a female friend who i work with on my reguler job. But does adult work as well. Some of the stories she tells me are eye openers. Must pay well she drives an RS5 audi

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