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By *long2023 OP   Man
29 weeks ago

Woking

Which do you prefer either giving or receiving?

For me much prefer an HJ, get to see the action and all the facial expressions much better and prefer that type of stimulation

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By *hil most chillMan
29 weeks ago

South East

Depends on their technique. A mixture of both often leaves me sticky all over.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
29 weeks ago

Harrow

A nylon foot job and I’m all there! If not a BJ if the technique is good. Had some awful hand jobs by women so defo a no no lol

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By *ilverfox for youMan
29 weeks ago

Hull

Bj for me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
29 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Giving head is my favourite thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I like to do a mixture of both

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By *he ass man 666Man
29 weeks ago

between your legs

Bj for me over hand job

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
29 weeks ago

Coventry

It really depends on the individual. Therefore it's completely important to sample both from each new individual so you can make an informed decision

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By *itygamesMan
29 weeks ago

UK

Either or , but it must be slow and gentle.........

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By *irwanksalot69Man
29 weeks ago

Birmingham

In a way, I prefer a hj. Because there can be all sorts of teasing talk at the same time. (It's generally hard to talk with a mouth full lol)

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By *ycanNightsMan
29 weeks ago

Workington

I honestly don't know why anyone would have a HJ over a BJ...

But each to there own and all that

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By *ornucopiaMan
29 weeks ago

Bexley

Guess there are plenty of unemployed cocks happy to take any job offer!

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By *ogan WillowCouple
29 weeks ago

Leeds

For Logan he loves a blow job but with plenty of attention to his balls with my hands and tongue first I love pleasuring him this way

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Bloody love a BJ

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By *ingerSpiceBombCouple
29 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

I love sucking cock

Hj is just complimentary

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By *he KinkysCouple
29 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Usually both at the same time but definitely love giving blowjobs if I had to choose, love making his eyes pop out his head x

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By *he KinkysCouple
29 weeks ago

Edinburgh

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I love sucking a big cock

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow

Obviously blowjobs are better, but shoutout to those moments when you’re just starting out together and you’re so desperate to touch each other that it’s all rushed encounters and breathless kisses and hands everywhere and she just outright *grabs* for my cock and can’t believe how hard it feels in her hand and … yeah that can be good too. So shoutout for handjobs sometimes.

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By *londebiguyMan
29 weeks ago

Southport

It seems that despite what they think or say, many women are not great at either.

I've only experienced a few that have any skills.

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By *hil most chillMan
29 weeks ago

South East


"Giving head is my favourite thing to do "

I could be the one you've been looking for, as getting head is my favourite thing to do

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
29 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Giving head is my favourite thing to do

I could be the one you've been looking for, as getting head is my favourite thing to do "

I'm not looking for any one

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By *otleyMan
29 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

BJ both giving and taking for me

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By *ornucopiaMan
29 weeks ago

Bexley


"Giving head is my favourite thing to do

I could be the one you've been looking for, as getting head is my favourite thing to do

I'm not looking for any one "

God loves a trier. Especially on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I prefer giving a bj

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By *ill12369Man
29 weeks ago

knutsford chesh

Both and receiving

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By *ennyleeeWoman
29 weeks ago

birmingham

I love giving bjs especially to guys who say they have never cum from one.

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By *oppleWangerMan
29 weeks ago

Gods Country


"It really depends on the individual. Therefore it's completely important to sample both from each new individual so you can make an informed decision "

This! Some have no idea and its like putting your dick in a fucking cheese grater!

Similar applies for handies - why always 700MPH FFS, its all about the tip, slow the fuck down!

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By *ave1976XXXMan
29 weeks ago

newmarket

Love giving both but if I had to choose I prefer being given a hj

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By *ustin666666Man
29 weeks ago

Nottingham

I'd rather cum with a hard fast hj any day. Watching it spray everywhere.......wollop

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By *iredhandMan
29 weeks ago

Manchester


"I love giving bjs especially to guys who say they have never cum from one. "

You’ll now be inundated with messages from guys claiming exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

If they are doing it wrong just say. Communication is key. Hand job with lots of kissing and breast play at the same time! Nothing finer and as a climber I am always looking for three points of contact!!

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By *aron_TentakuruMan
29 weeks ago

Exeter


"Giving head is my favourite thing to do "

Ooh, and you like tentacles too?

Perfect! Surely mine will grow in soon!

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By *ave1210000Man
29 weeks ago

manchesrer

Has to be a nice, sloppy BJ

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Why choose, mix the two together and make him squirm.

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By *moothdickMan
29 weeks ago

stoke

Put them both together and u av a perfect job

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Aren’t these done in conjunction?

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Giving and receiving oral

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By *rishVikingMan
29 weeks ago

Shankill

Why bit both

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By *sirapMan
29 weeks ago

magic land

All depends on the situation. For example, I prefer a handjob when an older man or woman is wanking me off as I look at pics of my gfs mum…

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By *udy3Man
29 weeks ago

Corby

Suck it fuck it or leave it alone

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By *ndiiiMan
29 weeks ago

Paisley Scotland


"Why choose, mix the two together and make him squirm."

That!!!!

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By *unlife2000Man
29 weeks ago

Western Bay

Both happen together but exclusively.

Both are amazing when done properly and the technique is the one you are in the mood for.

Saturday night savage sloppy deepthroat.

Sunday morning slow and loving blowjob.

But an oily massage handjob with ball play and teasing and edging. It's about sensations, not chasing orgasms people.

Diversify your portfolio

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
29 weeks ago

Norwich

Not had either (if you don’t count self-administered) for a long long time…

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By *epeatVisitorMan
29 weeks ago

Chichester

Both, really dependant on who I am with

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By *ancelotLovejoyMan
29 weeks ago

Rochdale

Definitely a combo both giving and receiving

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
29 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Neither but if I had to pick one, definitely blowjob. I don't trust my dick in the hands of anyone. Even men are crap at handjobs.

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By *orsche40Couple
29 weeks ago

northwich

I love giving a combination of both

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
29 weeks ago

Chatham

I love to give a receive both.

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By *rriseMan
1 week ago

liverpool

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By *rriseMan
1 week ago

liverpool


"Giving head is my favourite thing to do "

Funnily enough receiving is mine

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By *uncouple6677Couple
1 week ago

North West

Ideally a cock in each hand as I suck another

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By *ike_looking_forMan
1 week ago

Cumbria

nothing beats a great BJ and love to receive, but if your not up for cum in the mouth then finishing with hands is great especially if it ends with a facial

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
1 week ago

Inverness

Love giving both and Mr loves receiving both so win win

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By *ristol_nicolaTV/TS
1 week ago

Bristol

BJ

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
1 week ago

East Anglia

She combines both very well

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By *rafter69Man
1 week ago

upminster

BJ for me please

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By *ikeitdeepMan
1 week ago

swanage

Bj all day

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By * D 777Man
1 week ago

bathgate

love a BJ or a HJ [bj wins though }

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By *oiluvfunMan
1 week ago

Penrith

I rarely cum from a bj, so bj for the visual, hj for the end game

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By *hunky GentMan
1 week ago

Maldon and Peterborough

BJ for me.

Ladies - Apply within if you like giving them.

HJ is an acceptable substitute

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By *ittle_blondie_xWoman
1 week ago

Manchester

Love giving both

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

Why not mixture of both

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By *eeper ThanMan
7 days ago

Dartford


"Why not mixture of both "

Exactly this they should go hand in hand or hand in mouth I guess

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By *rKinksMan
7 days ago

Alton

Think most people agree a bj is great than hj. However I met a more domme women and her edging some what dismissive hj was incredibly hot. More of the dynamic around the action thou

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By *umagain58Man
7 days ago

London

Start with hand job and then lick balls up the shaft to tip. Then don’t need to decide what best lol

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By *eekingjoy777Woman
7 days ago

dorset

Giving combination

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By *reen as JadeCouple
7 days ago

Cheshire

Depends on the mood and where I am to what I give. I always start with a hand job xxxx

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By *andy PatinkinMan
7 days ago

Leeds

I can count on one hand the number of times I've reached orgasm through oral alone.

My preference is hand job with a hawk tuah, and some dirty talk to get me off. Usually telling me about some sexual encounter she's had.

That does it for me.

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By *nkedguy777Man
7 days ago

Manchester

Handjob or blowjob I have no problem in cumming from either

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By *ieandteaseMan
7 days ago

Wiltshire

Give blow job, receive hand job

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By *elboy1978Man
7 days ago

Jarrow

Like both

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
7 days ago

Bristol

Combo of both. Prefer a bj but totally understand those giving it need a break

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By *emptme1993Man
7 days ago

manchester

I love both but cannot beat a good bj

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
7 days ago

Naughty Lane

I love giving both...

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
7 days ago

Naughty Lane

And good hj can be even better than bj

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
7 days ago

Farnborough

I love giving both …. And receiving both xxx

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By *cotsguyyMan
7 days ago

Belfast

Love a slow HJ while kissing

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By *arry monk40Man
7 days ago

Telford

Hj all-day long

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By *hil most chillMan
5 days ago

South East


"And good hj can be even better than bj "

Agree with this 100%

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By *tylebender03Man
5 days ago

Manchester

BJ. I can do a hand job myself

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
5 days ago

East Yorkshire

I start hubbies day with dry handjob stroking and scratching his cock . Then I go onto blowjob as I cover his balls in lube. Then oil handjob to finish so a combination of both xx

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By *orkshirepairoftitsCouple
5 days ago

knottingley

Quite happily take both

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By *illjoyCouple
5 days ago

NEWPORT

Both, but hand job would just win!

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By *an1978Man
5 days ago

Fareham

Bj all day long

But hj are nice too x

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By *enshun4Man
5 days ago

Local

A mix of both

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By *ty31Man
5 days ago

NW London

I'll take the HJ please. Plenty of lube

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By *esire in SheffieldMan
5 days ago

Sheffield

Footjob for me

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By *xmfrvnMan
5 days ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I've actually received very few hjs, maybe it's something about my cock

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By *onnyJohnMan
4 days ago

Doncaster

Never had a decent BJ, don't get me wrong but i prefer a HJ almost every time

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By *bboredguyMan
4 days ago

Dundee

HJ titwank mmmm

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By *idlandsdaveMan
4 days ago

Midlands

HJ for me also

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By *tag90Man
4 days ago

penrith

Cant believe how many hj answers there are. Give me a sloppy bj any day

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By *ambsfunMan
4 days ago

Cambridge


"Cant believe how many hj answers there are. Give me a sloppy bj any day"

Totally agree

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By *ady and the cockCouple
4 days ago

North East/Anywhere


"I start hubbies day with dry handjob stroking and scratching his cock . Then I go onto blowjob as I cover his balls in lube. Then oil handjob to finish so a combination of both xx "

Exactly that x

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By *iscreetSucker89Man
4 days ago

Visiting

I love giving a mixture of both to offer different sensations. Lots of oil for the HJ, then give a good deep BJ. If I had to choose, I couldn’t live without sucking

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By *irsttimers3338Couple
4 days ago

waterlooville

Both are good in their own way

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By *heelerMan
4 days ago

Northants

A BJ can be a bit of a let down but some women really know how to use her mouth on your cock but wouldn't mind a HJ.

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By *atgirlknobinCouple
4 days ago

ish

Both at the same time into a loose lipped mouth ,batgirl is very good at it

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By *ornucopiaMan
4 days ago

Bexley


"Cant believe how many hj answers there are. Give me a sloppy bj any day

Totally agree "

Give me a P.J. over either of them!

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By *ayden_82Man
4 days ago

corby

Both are good. Depending on the situation.. long as the ending is happy

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By *OVE-PORNMan
4 days ago

las vegas

Both

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By *aveJones76Man
4 days ago

Rotherham

BJ all the way, sometimes even more than sex in the past!

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By *ini1275Man
4 days ago

stoke on trent

Love both tbh depends on the situation..quick hj in risky place is horny

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By *endalshaggersCouple
4 days ago

Kendal

Receiving a BJ but I absolutely love giving her oral as well

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