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By *ornyrugbylad_2024 OP   Man
over a year ago

Limerick

Can anybody tell me how I go about getting more meets? not sure what I’m doing wrong…

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Maybe improve your profile. As it stands it would probably be an instant delete for most women.

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

Profile profile and maybe your profile needs work because it’s the window into your sexual soul.

Best of luck op.

T

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By *overs4loversCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Definitely improve the profile, you need more and better quality pictures and more information about yourself. Maybe include some shots of your face (if you can of course) and some in smart clothes etc. also don’t be a “hey” or bc a “how are you” guy, try to engage people in actual conversation. So many men on here think a dick pic and a crap one liner are interesting, they’re not. At least you seem eager to improve your chances, so good luck to you!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Working on your profile in the ways already outlined above is really worth the effort

All I can say is that working on the text o the profile has worked well for me…..and I’m much older than you!

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

Majority of pics appear to be in a bathroom. Not the most sexy place.

I realise some use because of the mirror but in reality we all have a phone with a timer set it up on a side in a better location.

Also the wording is short and you are young (yes swinging is the one place where being young doesn’t necessarily make you stand out). So currently it just looks like you are a bit of a chancer out to get experience.

NSA and discretion are assumed values for most in a swinger site.

If it’s one of the three lines you have written it could suggest you are doing this behind someone’s back and be a red flag.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I second all that was said above, plus one thing. Are you straight? As you met a TV/TS (from your verification summary). As the veri is not shown, some may assume you're not truthful about your sexual orientation.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
over a year ago

Stoke

You can simply message someone 'hi' if they like the look of you they'll reply, if they don't they won't in majority of cases.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Can anybody tell me how I go about getting more meets? not sure what I’m doing wrong…"

Search for some local group socials. There a great place to meet others.

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By *oshboyevertongirlMan
over a year ago

Manchester

What's the white thing in your mouth in the third pic?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

you cant make people attracted to yourself

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"you cant make people attracted to yourself "

You could hide their glasses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can simply message someone 'hi' if they like the look of you they'll reply, if they don't they won't in majority of cases. "

Hahaha yeah no no no no no. Maybe that works for you but I bet your inbox is flooded with guys saying hi or how are you.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You've written nothing that would make people want to meet you op.

You can't accom and need to be discreet, plus the stuff on the sink looks like women's perfume/wash (I've got that ckin2u) so it sounds like you're maybe in a relationship?.

I'd get rid of the pic that looks like you have a fag in too.

Write about you, what you offer, what you like etc so people have some thing to go on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be the CK aftershave!

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
over a year ago

Stoke


"You can simply message someone 'hi' if they like the look of you they'll reply, if they don't they won't in majority of cases.

Hahaha yeah no no no no no. Maybe that works for you but I bet your inbox is flooded with guys saying hi or how are you. "

Hardly, we don't get many messages at all, maybe 5 a day on average!

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

The best way is clubs and socials

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By *ros40Man
over a year ago

Bedford

More cock pics while on the toilet

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By *og-ManMan
42 weeks ago

somewhere

Maybe write the same

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