FabSwingers.com forum: Fetish perspectives for Males and Females …?

By *ole.24601 OP Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Do Men and women experience fetishes in a similar way? For example a widespread fetish for men may be to like BBW body types. Is there a female equivelant to this? The same with feet, is a foot fetish including sucking the same from a female to a male ?

Any more examples, drop them below

Please can we try to keep this thread respectful everyone, it’s not supposed to enrage people

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

‘For example a widespread fetish for men may be to like BBW body types. Is there a female equivelant to this?’

There’s a term that’s used in a similar way for men as BBW is used for women and that term’s ‘Dad Bod’. Women will say ‘I love a Dad Bod’ in the same way men say ‘I love a BBW’. Dad Bod means a man’s body that’s overweight but still sexy.

I’m assuming OP, that you haven’t heard of the term Dad Bod then otherwise you wouldn’t have asked what the male equivalent to BBW is because if you’d heard of the term Dad Bod you wouldn’t have need to ask what the male equivalent to BBW is.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I don’t think the male equivalent to bbw is dad bod.

Dad bod to me means not ripped, not slim, a little chunky. But not big. More like a mid sized gal.

Bbw to me means large size 18+

It probably depends how you enjoy your fetish. If a man likes feet and big women, what’s the difference between a woman liking feet and big men?

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

I think there could be some comparable ones....

But I feel like more men fetishise things or do things in a different way than women.

For example....

-Foot fetishes

-stockings/nylons

- heels

-Cum tributes (I mean I haven't ever seen a woman offering to masturbate over a pic for someone as tribute)

It's got my mind thinking if I'm Honest... I'm sure women like things on men (being heterosexist)

Maybe the whole 'grey jogger' thing... ?! lol

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I think there could be some comparable ones....

But I feel like more men fetishise things or do things in a different way than women.

For example....

-Foot fetishes

-stockings/nylons

- heels

-Cum tributes (I mean I haven't ever seen a woman offering to masturbate over a pic for someone as tribute)

It's got my mind thinking if I'm Honest... I'm sure women like things on men (being heterosexist)

Maybe the whole 'grey jogger' thing... ?! lol

Maybe women like to receive cum tributes from men….maybe women like having their feet kissed and worshipped….maybe women like wearing stockings/nylons and heels.

For a man to do something he enjoys doing with a woman he needs to be with a woman who also enjoys doing it with a man….or do you think women take part in things that men enjoy doing without getting any pleasure from it themselves?

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

Oh...I'm sure the women enjoy it too. But I was just coming up with things I think men may fetishise that I don't *think* a woman would....

Like is said tho... I think there's some the other way round too

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Oh...I'm sure the women enjoy it too. But I was just coming up with things I think men may fetishise that I don't *think* a woman would....

Like is said tho... I think there's some the other way round too"

So if a man enjoys doing cum tributes it’s a fetish but if a woman enjoys receiving them it isn’t?

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

Who knows ... can't make assumptions can we?

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I don’t think the male equivalent to bbw is dad bod.

Dad bod to me means not ripped, not slim, a little chunky. But not big. More like a mid sized gal.

Bbw to me means large size 18+

It probably depends how you enjoy your fetish. If a man likes feet and big women, what’s the difference between a woman liking feet and big men? "

Agree on this re the dad bod. Just means not gym fit ripped n toned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a nylon fetish is mutually shared

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think men seem to make a fetish out of a preference or attraction.

Being attracted to a bbw person isn't a fetish, thats being attracted to that body type. You wouldn't say women had a fetish for tall guys for example.

Hence it appears men have more fetishes than women.

MrsAbz

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

"I think men seem to make a fetish out of a preference or attraction.

Being attracted to a bbw person isn't a fetish, thats being attracted to that body type. You wouldn't say women had a fetish for tall guys for example.

Hence it appears men have more fetishes than women.

MrsAbz "

Thought exactly the same when I read the thread. Fetish is often overused to describe preference or attraction.

And if anyone ventures to that site that caters for fetishists then they will know that women have just as many fetishes as men.

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By *istretchMan
over a year ago

leeds

You have porn sites for coining terms for men preferences

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I wrote this last night but could not be bothered to post. But I echo today's comments.

I suggest OP should define what he means by fetish. The dictionary definition closest to what he appears to imply is :

"an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression 2 : fixation 3 : a rite or cult of fetish worshippers"

A preference for curvy women is no more a fetish than those who prefer slimmer women, it is a preference not a psychological need for sexual gratification, and a preference is not a fixation.

If so would you describe football supporters having a fetish for football?

I suspect there may not be many fetishes but (I think "kink" may be the appropriate word) there may be a load of kinks.

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