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"What might seem like integrity could gone across as an attitude or drama in person. Consider how many awful messages they probably get and you catch them at the wrong moment online..it’s quite different than meeting people in person. Maybe next time leave the online dramas online and just focus on the real world in front of you. You’ll enjoy yourself more " Or just politely decline. Same outcome no atmosphere or drama. | |||
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"I find that some people in clubs come across very differently online, people are much more forgiving in person, things also don't get misconstrued as easily. I understand why you told them but if it happens again I wouldn't even bring it up. " I did think of this at the time , but if we swung and they found out later could that be a worse outcome? | |||
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"To be honest I'd not even recall everyone I'd blocked, or their username unless it had been something that really stood out for being very bad I think? I'd have probs not have mentioned it. It's just going off a few pics/msgs on here, nothing like actually chatting face-to-face. If they didn't understand what you'd said the first time, I'd have left it that as you'd already let them know they'd blocked you... Reinforcing them stating in a message they 'thought you had a bad attitude', to their faces. Probs made them think you might have a bad attitude? " Well I wasn't using a consecending tone or anything. Just said it in a casual tone getting them to recognise me. Perhaps I should have kept my big gob shut and just say I'd chat to be social but just not interested in them. I couldn't play with them and keep it from them | |||
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"You have an amazing memory OP if you can remember the name of a profile that blocked you 2 months ago and what they said before they blocked you. You said that you didn’t want to take advantage of them not recognising you so you told them but they didn’t understand so you told them that they blocked you and what they said when they blocked you. What did you initially tell them that they didn’t understand? " Under fab site rules, conversations are not allowed to be mentioned on here. Sorry | |||
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"To be honest I'd not even recall everyone I'd blocked, or their username unless it had been something that really stood out for being very bad I think? I'd have probs not have mentioned it. It's just going off a few pics/msgs on here, nothing like actually chatting face-to-face. If they didn't understand what you'd said the first time, I'd have left it that as you'd already let them know they'd blocked you... Reinforcing them stating in a message they 'thought you had a bad attitude', to their faces. Probs made them think you might have a bad attitude? Well I wasn't using a consecending tone or anything. Just said it in a casual tone getting them to recognise me. Perhaps I should have kept my big gob shut and just say I'd chat to be social but just not interested in them. I couldn't play with them and keep it from them " If it makes you feel any better I've been blocked after meeting someone in a club. So, I at least you clearly come across better in person | |||
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"You have an amazing memory OP if you can remember the name of a profile that blocked you 2 months ago and what they said before they blocked you. You said that you didn’t want to take advantage of them not recognising you so you told them but they didn’t understand so you told them that they blocked you and what they said when they blocked you. What did you initially tell them that they didn’t understand? Under fab site rules, conversations are not allowed to be mentioned on here. Sorry" I don’t think that is a rule actually, as long as you don’t say the name of the profile then it’s fine. You mentioned what you said to them in the conversation just after that when you told them that they’d blocked you and what they said when they blocked you and the post hasn’t been removed so I’m sure you can tell us what you said directly before that as well. | |||
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"Anyway, I think I did right with the best intentions.. is it normal for behaviour they displayed? " Most people nowadays would tell you to say whatever would give you the biggest chance of getting laid, but I think you showed integrity. Their reaction suggests it was a lucky escape for you, even if somewhat frustrating. | |||
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"Anyway, I think I did right with the best intentions.. is it normal for behaviour they displayed? Most people nowadays would tell you to say whatever would give you the biggest chance of getting laid, but I think you showed integrity. Their reaction suggests it was a lucky escape for you, even if somewhat frustrating." Thanks | |||
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