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Does playing with a guy within a couple or him playing with you make you bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s sometimes wouldn’t hesitate to do but wouldn’t say as I’m bi as don’t fancy men

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

So many posts on this subject. If you play with both sexes your bi, whether you call it that or not but its all good if you enjoy it.

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yep you're Bi LOL.

Embrace it and learn to live with it and have a happy, fulfilled sexual life.

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By *ne.eyed.willyMan
over a year ago

Ammanford

I guess it depends if it was the first time. Then put it down to playful fun. If it was say the 10th encounter with guy on guy play then I think you would fall under the Bi spectrum. But who cares if you enjoy it right??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Even though my preference is women? I fancy women not men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to ask why this is such an issue for you? It's mutual enjoyment, labels are not part of the experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just don’t know if it’s right or wrong I think it opens the doors to more fun but know some are repulsed by the idea of it

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By *ayzDreamingMan
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

Personally, I just enjoy sex! I'm sexually attracted to ladies as in, walking down the street its always the ladies I notice and don't look at men in that way. But with regards to sex, I enjoy playing with men just as much as women.

I'm sure there's a term for that which is separate from Bi, but as it's the one that is most common, that's what i roll with

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By *ertcamembertMan
over a year ago

Reading area


"Personally, I just enjoy sex! I'm sexually attracted to ladies as in, walking down the street its always the ladies I notice and don't look at men in that way. But with regards to sex, I enjoy playing with men just as much as women.

I'm sure there's a term for that which is separate from Bi, but as it's the one that is most common, that's what i roll with "
"Swinger bi" perhaps?

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By *ayzDreamingMan
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger


""Swinger bi" perhaps?"

Interesting thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally I couldn’t see myself been with a man without a woman

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By *nmibiCouple
over a year ago

Resident in lanzarote canary Island..

We are bi and looking always bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is that an offer

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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham West Midlands

you would have to be Bi, but who gives a fuck as long as your enjoying the pleasure does it matter a fuck who you play with, its only a lable and lables drop off

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"It’s sometimes wouldn’t hesitate to do but wouldn’t say as I’m bi as don’t fancy men"

You don't have to fancy them to be bi. Bisexual implies having sex with the same gender, no more no less.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Will you be sookin on his boaby?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is all in theory as no offers as yet

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By *ackdd72Man
over a year ago

the valleys


"Personally, I just enjoy sex! I'm sexually attracted to ladies as in, walking down the street its always the ladies I notice and don't look at men in that way. But with regards to sex, I enjoy playing with men just as much as women.

I'm sure there's a term for that which is separate from Bi, but as it's the one that is most common, that's what i roll with "

Fab straight?

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By *apybarasCouple
over a year ago

High Lighthouse!


"Personally, I just enjoy sex! I'm sexually attracted to ladies as in, walking down the street its always the ladies I notice and don't look at men in that way. But with regards to sex, I enjoy playing with men just as much as women.

I'm sure there's a term for that which is separate from Bi, but as it's the one that is most common, that's what i roll with

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As with most things about human kind, I think we are coming to recognise that just about nothing is an a/b thing.

Everything about us is a spectrum of some sort, and we'll all sit on these spectrums at slightly different places.

I'm not even convinced that what we see as "normal" heterosexual is actually the normal it's been made out to be. Possibly religion and law found it easier to simplify this stuff.

Many civilizations and societies around the world have (and do) take different views on this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow that was awfully deep and intelligent

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Perish the thought. Your life could be ruined if this ever leaked out.

Best to stay well away from swinging and sites like this!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"This is all in theory as no offers as yet"

You're unlikely to get offers of bi play with straight on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m debating wether I am bi hence the topic

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You're deffo bi curious at the least if you regularly play with other men op.

It's regularly said here that it puts couples off when men list themselves as straight, then message wanting to play with them both.

Even if you don't fancy the man, you like playing with men so you can't really say you're straight.

Be open, being bi isn't a bad thing and certainly nothing to be ashamed of.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve never played with a guy as yet

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

That's why it's bi-sexual, not bi-romantic.

But if it's only in the context of a threesome, hetero-flexible might be a better phrase

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By *ggdrasil66Man
over a year ago

Saltdean

Fab straight? ??

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I’ve never played with a guy as yet"

Then I'd say you're bi curious till you try and see if it's for you.

Maybe pop on you're profile that it's something you're interested i trying if you are.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Yes same sex is bi play

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By *e13guyMan
over a year ago

Lewisham

Just enjoy it. mmf fun is great fun ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares. You'll still be the same person tomorrow, but now you've had a fun experience (hopefully).

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Does using your left hand ambidextrous, or just curious OP?

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Who cares. You'll still be the same person tomorrow, but now you've had a fun experience (hopefully)."

Came here to say this.

If you like what you see, it turns you on and there's mutual consent then just do it.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"So many posts on this subject. If you play with both sexes your bi, whether you call it that or not but its all good if you enjoy it."

To label yourself bi might suggest it is quite regular or wanted in meet.

I don't think that is dlways the way really with some people.

They can be quite fluid sexudlly in some meetx but not in every meet.

I don't see the need for broad labels really.

Just discuss individually and do what works well for all of you.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

I’ve never had this experience, yet! But if I do, I won’t even think of labels, I would be thinking of the sexual experience I’m in at that moment and whatever ever makes all of us happy

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By *lldaybreakfastMan
over a year ago

leeds

It's all good fun i love playing with couples

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By *ovecuckoldfunMan
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

who cares lol.met a sexy young cpl last year she was stunning.was licking out her shaven pussy.69.her on top.then felt 2mouths round my balls/cock.together.both sharing my cock.did not push her off.just let it happen.very horny.who could say NO to that.no idea whos mouth i came in.but couldn't.give a fuck.nice surprise. just go with the flow and ENJOY.thats what i say especially.when he fucking started rimming me too.did not stop him.was great fun..

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By *wantitall131313Man
over a year ago

close by

Totally agree

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington


"So many posts on this subject. If you play with both sexes your bi, whether you call it that or not but its all good if you enjoy it."

Agree and I love it

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By *ccasional_LoversCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"You need to ask why this is such an issue for you? It's mutual enjoyment, labels are not part of the experience"

Agree 100%

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Even though my preference is women? I fancy women not men?"

There is no such thing a true equality and everyone will always like one more than the other, even if it's 50.0000001%

If you sucked a dick and you thought it was hot and it gave you a boner too - then you are Bi.

Even if you get raging boners at the merest whiff of boob.

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By *reytopMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire Coast

I have never considered myself bi however a husband (dressed in his wife's undies) once wanked me off into his wife's mouth and I did find it enjoyable. I think we all did. Let's face it what's enjoyable can't harm you.

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
over a year ago

Nowhere

Couples meets are the best

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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

If you enjoy sex with guys then you're bi.... is the short answer.

The long answer is that labels and sexuality and human psychology are extrememly complicated and nuanced issues, and everybody sits along a spectrum, and has different cultural and social baggage that affects their perceptions and behaviours, and its all just really fucking complicated!!!

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By *woformorefunCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"Personally, I just enjoy sex! I'm sexually attracted to ladies as in, walking down the street its always the ladies I notice and don't look at men in that way. But with regards to sex, I enjoy playing with men just as much as women.

I'm sure there's a term for that which is separate from Bi, but as it's the one that is most common, that's what i roll with "

Think they call it bi-playful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you want to have an mmf you have to be comfortable around cock and contact with guys either just incidental to playing with the lady or more deliberate. I wouldn’t consider myself bi, I’d never play alone with a male, but, with the right couple (that’s the important bit) then as long as everyone agrees, anything goes.

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By *hetongue69Man
over a year ago

Birkenhead

Nothing wrong with being bi it's just sex

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

You do you. Do you worry why you like chocolate but not every day?

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By *heSchwingersCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Think of it like a colour spectrum rather than a yes or no x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Colour spectrum?

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