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By *aughtyguy777 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Does anyone else find the site has changed a lot over the years… like it used to be quite friendly and easy to chat to people and get to find out about them all the kinks and to see if you would be a good match. But now like you say hello no answer you out abit more effort into your introduction and still no answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab has always had issues but it was rather a niche site and not many knew about it.

Everyone seems to be on fab now. It's overrun so can be harder to navigate.

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By *aughtyguy777 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Definitely agree. It’s really hard to navigate sometimes near impossible…

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I find more faults with it now than positives … so only reply when I feel I want to and just keep in touch with friends I’ve made ages ago from here …. It’s got to big to be reliable

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By *inderellamanMan
over a year ago

London

I think the problem with fab now is the male to female ratio, any type of female on here will probably recieve 100s of messages a week out of say 100 a week only about 10% will be serious on meeting up and out of that 10% only about 5% will actually turn up once a meet has been arranged. From this it makes the average girl who might struggle to be noticed on a night out in town turn into the next best thing when they are on fab, giving them the freedom of picking and choosing who they want to sleep with.

For the men on here its like a lottery to receive a message back.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I think fab has always had issues but it was rather a niche site and not many knew about it.

Everyone seems to be on fab now. It's overrun so can be harder to navigate."

I agree with this

Lots seem to have joined who just quick sex and don't see the site as a swinging site.

They have expectations of being able to get quick sex with not much effort.

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Does anyone else find the site has changed a lot over the years… like it used to be quite friendly and easy to chat to people and get to find out about them all the kinks and to see if you would be a good match. But now like you say hello no answer you out abit more effort into your introduction and still no answer. "

If your message is read and they don't respond, you should take it that they are not interested in you. Yes it only takes a minute to write " not interested thanks,, but good luck" as a reply, unfortunately some can't handle rejection and become nasty if you do respond. So sometimes it's better not to reply at all .

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

there were loads of sites online before fab and one or two of them were very good until they all started to charge newbies to join and fab was born just at the right time louts jumped ship to fab and its still here to this day ..

fab has never been a under the radar site everyone was telling every one about it it was big right from the start ... at first it was say 25 men per woman couple and has grown to what it is now 200 men per woman/couple and nore in certain areas ...

so yes fab has changed but only in one way and that is men and the amount of men its so ridiculous now in numbers and they are increasing daily by the 1000s to the point we get these moany post everyday of why cant i get a meet / give me advice... since covid its really got bad .... but hears the thing its only got bad for men ... women and couples can do very well on here and indeed away from here with all the private stuff happening more and more sending it back underground where word of mouth is everything and only men who really swing get invited ...

the site wont die because it works all that will happen is men will eat eachother due to the site being 99% men ...

ive also notice alot more private groups like with us and cuckolding theirs a few invite only sites and by invite you must know other in the flesh ....

swinging will never die it will just continue to go else where ie underground

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"there were loads of sites online before fab and one or two of them were very good until they all started to charge newbies to join and fab was born just at the right time louts jumped ship to fab and its still here to this day ..

fab has never been a under the radar site everyone was telling every one about it it was big right from the start ... at first it was say 25 men per woman couple and has grown to what it is now 200 men per woman/couple and nore in certain areas ...

so yes fab has changed but only in one way and that is men and the amount of men its so ridiculous now in numbers and they are increasing daily by the 1000s to the point we get these moany post everyday of why cant i get a meet / give me advice... since covid its really got bad .... but hears the thing its only got bad for men ... women and couples can do very well on here and indeed away from here with all the private stuff happening more and more sending it back underground where word of mouth is everything and only men who really swing get invited ...

the site wont die because it works all that will happen is men will eat eachother due to the site being 99% men ...

ive also notice alot more private groups like with us and cuckolding theirs a few invite only sites and by invite you must know other in the flesh ....

swinging will never die it will just continue to go else where ie underground"

200 men per lady/couple? Are you sure? I've seen all these numbers thrown around - 100 to 1 is often mentioned - but when I've checked never found that. In my area it is something like 10-20 single men looking for a lady vs a lady or couple looking for a single man. I checked in other areas too and broadly similar. I guess it will vary a lot but still think the numbers are way lower than people think. Of course many ladies and couples are not meeting but then again most of the men won't meet either.

Usually these numbers just chucked out there as an excuse by people who make little effort with profile, little effort meeting in real life, crap at talking to people etc. (not you of course ) I do agree though that lots of fun is in private gatherings from networking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's such a shame to hear the way it used to be has changed (I wasn't on here when that part of fab was alive), because I think for the actual genuine people, all the other people that have messed with the social aspect within messaging on here have to some degree ruined it for everyone.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

Yes I find it the same !people have become more disrespectful .but it’s free !!can’t find another site that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think times are changing too since COVID situation my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site hasn't changed much but people think sex is a right not something to be earned with trustand friendship. I have been in here since the start and in two relationships .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site hasn't changed much but people think sex is a right not something to be earned with trustand friendship. I have been in here since the start and in two relationships .

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Oh wow, that's cool you've been here since the beginning. So you've got a somewhat more fuller picture of the way the site has shifted over the years?

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

The biggest problem is that now anyone with internet access or a smart device etc etc THINK they are swingers ?? and it's regarded as a purely a sex site ??

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By *ewbie09Man
over a year ago

alcester

I’m new to the site and have done ok from it. Thrown myself into the lifestyle and gone to clubs and introduced myself to people. Starting to get invites to parties etc now which is amazing.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset


"there were loads of sites online before fab and one or two of them were very good until they all started to charge newbies to join and fab was born just at the right time louts jumped ship to fab and its still here to this day ..

fab has never been a under the radar site everyone was telling every one about it it was big right from the start ... at first it was say 25 men per woman couple and has grown to what it is now 200 men per woman/couple and nore in certain areas ...

so yes fab has changed but only in one way and that is men and the amount of men its so ridiculous now in numbers and they are increasing daily by the 1000s to the point we get these moany post everyday of why cant i get a meet / give me advice... since covid its really got bad .... but hears the thing its only got bad for men ... women and couples can do very well on here and indeed away from here with all the private stuff happening more and more sending it back underground where word of mouth is everything and only men who really swing get invited ...

the site wont die because it works all that will happen is men will eat eachother due to the site being 99% men ...

ive also notice alot more private groups like with us and cuckolding theirs a few invite only sites and by invite you must know other in the flesh ....

swinging will never die it will just continue to go else where ie underground

200 men per lady/couple? Are you sure? I've seen all these numbers thrown around - 100 to 1 is often mentioned - but when I've checked never found that. In my area it is something like 10-20 single men looking for a lady vs a lady or couple looking for a single man. I checked in other areas too and broadly similar. I guess it will vary a lot but still think the numbers are way lower than people think. Of course many ladies and couples are not meeting but then again most of the men won't meet either.

Usually these numbers just chucked out there as an excuse by people who make little effort with profile, little effort meeting in real life, crap at talking to people etc. (not you of course ) I do agree though that lots of fun is in private gatherings from networking. "

yep pretty sure the male % is very hi ... when i started this journey with hubs 30++ years ago men where in the 10/20 for every couple/woman and its increased year by year it was 100 to 1 and then covid hit it shot thru the roof 200/1 easy and some areas a lot lot more .... and bearing in mind that there are not as many couples/women now as there were pre covid ...but its a fact men will ruin it for menby no real fault of their own they just continue to pour in..

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