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By *odus86 OP   Man
over a year ago

ashford

How is it best to try and hint to a partner that you want to try swinging?

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish


"How is it best to try and hint to a partner that you want to try swinging? "

Tell her you’ve joined this site and she what she says

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

Better still as you have face pics she may already know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watch some swinger porn on a video upload site. If that doesn't get the message across subtlely, nothing will. It also leaves her the opportunity to say no, and you the opportunity to say that you didn't mean what she thought. Everyone's a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better still as you have face pics she may already know "

Yes he should do a search for her first

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Honestly? Just talk. Don't hint, don't beat about the bush or hope they come up with the idea themselves. Open up a conversation and find out what they think about the idea. If you can't do that because one or both of you can't communicate on the subject then you're not going to be able to move this forward ever.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Flicker through YouTube for past swinger programmes then outta shock announce to her never guess what I found then ask her what she thinks about swinging and does she fancy watching it if she does follow instructions if not get yourself comfortable for sleeping on the sofa

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Gents can I just say that many women appreciate emotional intimacy. You know that uncomfortable bit where she wants to talk about feelings but you don't want to. If you can overcome that barrier (and yes I know you're not all like it) you will find that the discussions on swinging and other sex related stuff becomes much easier because you will know her better and be able to judge what her reaction might be. Also if a woman feels 'heard' emotionally she often feels much more inclined to be more sexual because she's secure and feels loved.

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By *odus86 OP   Man
over a year ago

ashford

Thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is it best to try and hint to a partner that you want to try swinging? "

Send porn gifs with various scenarios playing out, wassap them as they are small ones on porn hub

Mr started with me like that and eventually I let it out I’m bi sexual

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Thanks for the advice. "

Talk with her get her opinion and she may have plenty of questions for you just talk calmly finding it amusing but intrigued and what is her take on it all

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for the advice. "

How are you planning to broach the subject?

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By *odus86 OP   Man
over a year ago

ashford

I’m going to find out what porn she’s into as she won’t say so I’m going to find out as it seems like she has a kink that’s the way I’ll approach it.

Hopefully it’s the same otherwise I’ll just tell her

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I’m going to find out what porn she’s into as she won’t say so I’m going to find out as it seems like she has a kink that’s the way I’ll approach it.

Hopefully it’s the same otherwise I’ll just tell her "

Id be asking other than the normal intimacy would their be anything that she would consider adding a twist to it all that shes always thought about trying making it less boring

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Don't hint, have the conversation.

Let's face it if you can't have an open conversation with your partner then swinging isn't going to work, you need to be open, honest and set your boundaries.

If your on here without her knowledge then don't bother with the conversation just do the decent thing and leave her, she deserves better.

Mrs

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By *odus86 OP   Man
over a year ago

ashford

I’ve had this account before meeting/ being with her. It’s a fairly new thing. But appreciate your thoughts.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I’ve had this account before meeting/ being with her. It’s a fairly new thing. But appreciate your thoughts. "

Don't worry about what others think

But definitely speak with her calmly understanding her views and her understanding yours

Good luck with it pal

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By *odus86 OP   Man
over a year ago

ashford

It’s not even the swapping I think I’d like being in the same room as others whilst having sex.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"It’s not even the swapping I think I’d like being in the same room as others whilst having sex."

That's a nice way to start being comfortable around others whilst both are enjoying themselves

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By *odus86 OP   Man
over a year ago

ashford

Appreciate it now I just think I’m being judged. Was only after advice how to best approach the subject. Wish I stayed quiet now


"I’ve had this account before meeting/ being with her. It’s a fairly new thing. But appreciate your thoughts.

Don't worry about what others think

But definitely speak with her calmly understanding her views and her understanding yours

Good luck with it pal "

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Appreciate it now I just think I’m being judged. Was only after advice how to best approach the subject. Wish I stayed quiet now

I’ve had this account before meeting/ being with her. It’s a fairly new thing. But appreciate your thoughts.

Don't worry about what others think

But definitely speak with her calmly understanding her views and her understanding yours

Good luck with it pal "

Op

Not everyone is as you've mentioned you were looking for guidance which I respect you've been open and honest which was enough for me I didn't need to know any history behind. You've received some great advice just go with it pal

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