FabSwingers.com forum: Getting a no thanks off peolpe or not replying

By *edonism44 OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

Hiya, now before I continue I was curious if anyone has had this problem .. Yes I know I am a male but I am complaining merely making an observation...

I do like a lady with a fuller figure, and when it says they like an athletic man on the profile and your half decent looking , not my perseption, and in the age range, you find that they don't reply or say not for me ...

Seriously I am not complaining but truly don't understand even when just offering a social .... Yes I KNOW men outnumber women to 129-1 and yes I understand not everybody canine everybody .... I just find it strange....

I get the impression that even if I approached a lady 28 stone per thigh I would still get knocked back lol.....

As I say it's not a complaint just an amusing observation that I am making ..

Have any stunning ladies ever been turned down out of curiosity?? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not stunning but I am a BBW and I'm turned down all the time & also really struggle to get meets. It's personal choice if someone replies to your message or not, I try and reply to most messages, even if it is a no thank you & on occasion I've got a lot of abuse for my trouble, so I can fully understand why some people don't reply. Some women & couples on here get hundreds of messages a day (I get 10-20 on a good day) so it's not practical to reply to all. If someone doesn't reply, take it as a thanks but no thanks, smile & move on

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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I get the impression that even if I approached a lady 28 stone per thigh I would still get knocked back lol.....

This says to me that you think the women should be grateful that you are mailing them....if you are coming across like this in mail then it might be why mails are not being answered.

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By *edonism44 OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

It was supposed to be a light hearted comment with no size comment intended, I am merely making light of the situationas it's just a fun post.

I am polite courteous and very respectful in all the my messages, and no form of bitterness or nastiness is ever protrayed in them.....

So no I don't come across this way as I have asked many ladies to comment, but thankyou for you insight once again,

Greatly appreciated xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a bbw lady and it makes me so mad that some men think that because you are a bigger lady that you are desperate and will go with anything thats on offer. Sorry thats not me. I do have a certain type i go for and if a man mails me and he isnt my type i will always politely say thankyou for your message but you are not what im looking for and wish them well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a bbw lady and it makes me so mad that some men think that because you are a bigger lady that you are desperate and will go with anything thats on offer. Sorry thats not me. I do have a certain type i go for and if a man mails me and he isnt my type i will always politely say thankyou for your message but you are not what im looking for and wish them well."

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By *edonism44 OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

My point exactly , a simple no thanks is all it takes.... I like bbw ladies .... Thankyou for somebody understanding what I was trying to say in a round about way xxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"It was supposed to be a light hearted comment with no size comment intended, I am merely making light of the situationas it's just a fun post.

I am polite courteous and very respectful in all the my messages, and no form of bitterness or nastiness is ever protrayed in them.....

So no I don't come across this way as I have asked many ladies to comment, but thankyou for you insight once again,

Greatly appreciated xxxx

I was just saying how your post was coming across.

To the rest of your post and the real subject of it.....you must know by now that not everyone replies after being sent a mail and it really doesn't matter if you fit their profile perfectly....there will be hundreds of others who do too.

You can either let it bother you or suck it up and move onto the next one.

I know which one I would choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do try and reply to all messages but the only ones i dont reply to are the ones that are very blunt and to the point which are mostly off young boys say "want a f@@k". They are not worthing off replying.

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By *edonism44 OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"It was supposed to be a light hearted comment with no size comment intended, I am merely making light of the situationas it's just a fun post.

I am polite courteous and very respectful in all the my messages, and no form of bitterness or nastiness is ever protrayed in them.....

So no I don't come across this way as I have asked many ladies to comment, but thankyou for you insight once again,

Greatly appreciated xxxx

I was just saying how your post was coming across.

You can either let it bother you or suck it up and move onto the next one.

I know which one I would choose.

Yeah I know your absolutely right. Again lol..... Just shrug it off and move on

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