FabSwingers.com forum: Instant delete

By *ink vixen OP Couple
over a year ago

Medway

When someone messages or winks at us and their profile has just friends only pictures.

What are you thinking guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone friend requests & they've no friends only pics

Thought the idea was show me yours & I'll show you mine

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Been on for years and still no pic up, please excuse the door on the way out

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Depends on the profile, but no pictures doesn’t help. If the text is poor as well there’s no point in engaging.

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Poorly written bio, been active over a year with no verifications, mentions of drugs in profile or status. Or message describing their fantasies which are not on our interests.

All instant delete x

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By *rivatecouple30sCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle and Edinburgh

Men posing as a female. It’s so obvious, and pointless when you’re happy to talk to a couple anyway!

Harry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think some think it’s makes a couple more intrigued to find out more, but to me looks like your hiding things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely- what is the point of having no public pics anyway, let alone trying to get attention of others when they can’t see you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm asked a load of questions like an interrogation

It's Terrible....The only way he could converse was by asking questions

Even when I said Too Many questions he continued to ask more....I seriously felt like saying Would You Ever Fk Off....He's at it again this morning lol

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By *ink vixen OP Couple
over a year ago

Medway

"When I'm asked a load of questions like an interrogation

It's Terrible....The only way he could converse was by asking questions

Even when I said Too Many questions he continued to ask more....I seriously felt like saying Would You Ever Fk Off....He's at it again this morning lol"

Wot u in2?

When our profile clearly states what we’re ?? for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very dubious when all photos are hidden.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

I think it depends on what they've written in their profile. If they sound nice, fun and normal i'd probably be intrigued......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have pictures will take pictures but not all in public or friends but are there ..

Honest in bio for what its worth.

And everyone situation different.

Happy deleting

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By *randMrsB2000Couple
over a year ago

Sittingbourne

When it’s abundantly clear that they haven’t read our profile.

Addressing just one half of the couple.

No pics on profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very dubious when all photos are hidden. "

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Last night, I was messaged by a guy, criticising the colour of the ladies bum in my profile pic, saying it should be redder, and spanked properly.

Their own profile pic?

A shadow, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single man now, so not looking for men so when I get a couples profile look at me but only pictures of a man and no women or no pictures at all instant block.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Same, I delete any winks or messages if I can't see a public pic.

Also same when they wink or worse friend invite and they've hidden their profile.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

When they want to know in specific detail what I'd do to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get alot of msgs asking....

"Where abouts are you in Dublin"

"Where exactly are you in Dublin" just got that dm right now from a total stranger....

That's just asking too much info.... & From a total total stranger

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

We are utterly clear on our position.. Ahem!

Our profile is there to read and it's evident when someone hasn't.

We have pictures which clearly show our whole physiques (bar faces) on public album, multiple face shots and naughtier pictures (again bar faces) in friends only. We don't bother engaging with those who show nothing to give us a gauge or won't send..

Add into that the undiscernible pics where you're rotating your phone to try and work out what your looking at..

The "how are you/what you into" messages get a proportionate effort in our response..

Don't have time for back and forth drivel..

#sorrynotsorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red flags

Openly announcing they are cheating

Couples account continually posting that "only male is available tonight"

(Getting the jist here?)

Being a member for a year with no veris

Being a member for a year and no pics (public or private)

They message you and it becomes clear they havn't read our profile, just browsed the photos.

Statuses whinging about lack of meets or being ignored (typically by accounts with at least one of the other red flags)

Asking for pics, but have none

Sending Friend Request without any communication

Messages that contains less than a coherant paragraph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone having no public pics has never bothered me . I just ask them if they have a face pic they can send.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on for months, not verified , no pics…

And my latest bug bare, those that ask for a supporters pass …..

really I know we are in a cost of living crisis but if you can’t afford a fiver doesn’t really create a good impression let alone the fact you are begging for 1 !

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"When someone friend requests & they've no friends only pics

Thought the idea was show me yours & I'll show you mine

Now there's an idea.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

Single male saying they’ve read our profile and then asking if they can:

1) change our minds and they have a fwb they can bring along

2) come over so M can feel their belt

Welcome messages from single guys that don’t get a sarcastic reply or instant delete would normally compliment our pics, ask for more information about getting into the scene etc.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Message stars with 'mmmmm' and only contains 'hi'

Messages asking what I'm doing now & on top of that they're not even looking for TV/TS (get in the bin)

Had an account for 20 minutes & already viewed your profile (immediately blocked)

No public pictures.

1 public picture and it's a hairy torso in panties

1 public picture and it's a limp dick post-ejaculation with foamy residue trickling down his hand

1 public pic and it's a disembodied head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a straight guy messages me.

When a dude is over 28.

When they have no good pics.

If they're a sissy or a TV.

If they're a cheater...eww.

If they ask for snap or my number.

These are probably the only ones where it's an insta delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even worse when they message from a hidden profile

Seriously what is the point of that?

Instant delete and block.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

1 public picture and it's a limp dick post-ejaculation with foamy residue trickling down his hand

This made me Lol

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By *ros40Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Someone asking for a face pic

And has a blank profile

For starters

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I get alot of msgs asking....

"Where abouts are you in Dublin"

"Where exactly are you in Dublin" just got that dm right now from a total stranger....

That's just asking too much info.... & From a total total stranger

I've had similar asking where I am and also where I work, as if I'm telling so horny random stranger that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on for months, not verified , no pics…

And my latest bug bare, those that ask for a supporters pass …..

really I know we are in a cost of living crisis but if you can’t afford a fiver doesn’t really create a good impression let alone the fact you are begging for 1 !"

Asking for money on fab is a violation and will get u perma banned. I'd report anyone asking for payments

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By *randMrsJones69Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

No verifications

No Photo

Asks "how you finding fab"

Asks "what are you looking for"

That equates to about 90% of messages received

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Someone having no public pics has never bothered me . I just ask them if they have a face pic they can send. "

This

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

If I have over 64 public pictures & they don't have any, it really should be implied that I'm going want at least a vague idea of what they look like before I will ever respond.

I won't even waste time asking, it goes straight to the bin.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Also, if their newest pictures are from like 2017 or something then what's the point.

Low resolution pictures also implies you're just screenshotting a very old photo & it's pointless if I can't tell whether the thing sticking out of your torso is a penis or a pixel

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By *exleypeteMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

"Definitely- what is the point of having no public pics anyway, let alone trying to get attention of others when they can’t see you!! "

You've not wrong

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Messaged by a guy asking whether we wanted to meet. Had no profile pic, no friends pic, nothing attached to the message and his bio just said 'Fun'.

Right, yeah I am just waving in faceless profiles promising 'fun'

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By *ragonbaitCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Aberdare

Awwwwww. As a relative newbie that first verification is quite hard to get, give them a break.

The rest, god yes

Also

“Your wife has nice tits” - delete…..

Thanks I know - honestly!

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By *ileyandOhCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Men simply saying...."can I fuck your mrs" gets them a delete and block. Some people are new so I get the caution in not showing photos especially with some jobs but we ask for face pics after chatting a bit.

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

No profile pics

Illegible messages

Been here for over a year and not even photo verified.

Arrogant, ignorant messages

All an instant delete... there is more but I don't want to hog

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By *ink vixen OP Couple
52 weeks ago

Medway

Oh and ..

Hows yous?

Wes gud!

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"When it’s abundantly clear that they haven’t read our profile.

Addressing just one half of the couple.

No pics on profile "

Agree 100%

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
52 weeks ago

Leicester

"Red flags

Openly announcing they are cheating

Couples account continually posting that "only male is available tonight"

(Getting the jist here?)

Being a member for a year with no veris

Being a member for a year and no pics (public or private)

They message you and it becomes clear they havn't read our profile, just browsed the photos.

Statuses whinging about lack of meets or being ignored (typically by accounts with at least one of the other red flags)

Asking for pics, but have none

Sending Friend Request without any communication

Messages that contains less than a coherant paragraph

That just about sums it up for us too. Plus anyone who goes on about drugs or being 420 friendly

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By *irty-pairCouple
52 weeks ago

Essex

A consensus is forming!

Our instant delete flags are:

No public pics

No veris (especially if the profile is old)

One veri that links to a profile also with one veri

Barely coherent ramblings

Addressing only Stag and referring to Vixen in the third person - we REALLY hate that!

One liners

Cut/paste messages

Meet now requests

Clearly haven’t read our profile

Any reference to any kind of dr*g use

On the flip side, send us a nice message and have a nice profile and there’s a good chance we’ll reply!

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