FabSwingers.com forum: What age do you think is too old?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a random question intrigued to no peoples thoughts?

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By *elboy1957Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Age is just a number

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i really hope its just a number,,

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Old for what exactly lifting weights doing cartwheels climbing trees

wearing trainers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met people half my age who seemed old and people in their 70’s who were amazingly sexy and full of energy.

It’s a mindset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are in fully working order and experienced then I say if you connect go for it

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By *JandJJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Just a random question intrigued to no peoples thoughts?"

Too old for what?

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Totally just a number.

I fucked a 71 year old in the ass the other day and they felt just like someone in their 20's.

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By *ros40Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Age is a mindset

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By *eddfmyd11Man
over a year ago

Towcester

I don't care about age. Some people in their 60s are sexier than some people in their 20s. It's all about connection and attraction, age never comes into it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope it's a mindset

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Too old for what?

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By *onlisCouple
over a year ago

gateshead

As long as it still works crack on ... its just a number

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

mines still working so its defo just a number

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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham West Midlands

its not about age its more about attitude of mind, the mind set is more important than the age

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

In my opinion age isn't just a number. It signifies how long you've been alive. It's not something to be ashamed of and deny.

On the other hand never feel you're too old for something just because other people say you are or nobody else your age does it. I was amazed when a man if ninety made the news because he travelled to France alone. This man had fought in the war and lived a full life why on earth did people think he couldn't manage a trip across the channel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too old for what exactly?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Meeting and having sex and fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting and having sex and fun?"

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

As I've said on every age thread I've contributed to I don't accept that age is just a number. It's a fact.

As far as being too old, I didn't join fab until I was 52.

I had zero experience of swinging or hooking up or even of using a site such as this.

My age has never once been an issue or even a topic of conversation and it has never had any effect on my ability to arrange meets.

You are only too old if you tell yourself that you are or use it as an excuse.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

In 4 weeks I will reach the age of 84, sadly ongoing health issues prevent me from engaging in in sexual activity, when an opportunity does arise the Mind keeps telling me to go for it but the Body has other ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never too old!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Meeting and having sex and fun?"

What age do you think is too old?

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By *urious and open mindedMan
over a year ago

Burnley

I fucked a 70yo woman last year she still had plenty left in her

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Energy levels determine whether somebody is a suitable play partner. Based on my own high energy levels and experience, I would seek a person of my age or younger but that said, there are some exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no ‘too old’. It’s dependent on a lot of things, approach,attitude,maturity and health xx

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

All depends on the person not really about age for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too old for what?

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By *ayxWoman
over a year ago

brentwood

Age doesn't stop me from finding anyone attractive but maturity or lack of can do xx

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By *yeSureMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Age is just a number. If your limit is say 40, would you go with every 40 yr old? Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SEX DOES

NOT DO MATHS

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By *hippy 1Man
over a year ago

high Wycombe

"As I've said on every age thread I've contributed to I don't accept that age is just a number. It's a fact.

As far as being too old, I didn't join fab until I was 52.

I had zero experience of swinging or hooking up or even of using a site such as this.

My age has never once been an issue or even a topic of conversation and it has never had any effect on my ability to arrange meets.

You are only too old if you tell yourself that you are or use it as an excuse. "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you're a vampire age is an irrelevance

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By *wlmanMan
over a year ago

Rugby

"Age is just a number "

Very true

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By *ary 121Man
over a year ago

East Bergholt

Isn’t it just hun

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Too old for what though??

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By *ichelinstar1Man
over a year ago

Peterborough & North West

"Energy levels determine whether somebody is a suitable play partner. Based on my own high energy levels and experience, I would seek a person of my age or younger but that said, there are some exceptions. "

This. Exactly this. Some of us have various energy levels, depending on mood, who we’re with and what stage we’re at in life.

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"In 4 weeks I will reach the age of 84, sadly ongoing health issues prevent me from engaging in in sexual activity, when an opportunity does arise the Mind keeps telling me to go for it but the Body has other ideas

You really mean health prevents you from engaging in SOME activity. Certainly not all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what?

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

"Too old for what?"

The sex thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was sleeping with a lady of 75 when I was 45 and we had incredible amounts of fun. Ok she had some limitations in terms of flexibility but she was still very sexy and had a very active and young outlook. She loved me turning up in my suit and made me very welcome with a cup of tea and biscuits!

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By *octor ProdMan
over a year ago

working Overseas

As we all get older, i would like to think we carry on as long as we can.

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By *ityguyMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

So many of you are saying age is just a number if that's true why do us older guys find it so hard to get a meet unless it's with an older person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"So many of you are saying age is just a number if that's true why do us older guys find it so hard to get a meet unless it's with an older person."

When I was younger I didn't want to have sex with much older people. I don't expect things have changed much.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Never too old!"

I think Biden is too old to be President

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 44 and I’m to old

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"So many of you are saying age is just a number if that's true why do us older guys find it so hard to get a meet unless it's with an older person."

That’s attraction ….

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Never too old!

I think Biden is too old to be President"

Oh my goodness, that man looks very frail doesn't he

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

You're all wrong it's.......

Well at least according to Fab's age filter thingy it is anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're all wrong it's.......

Well at least according to Fab's age filter thingy it is anyway

And lego.

If you can't play with lego as you're outside of the upper age range... you're too old

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

I joined earlier this year when I was 64,I'm 65 now,I'm open to meeting younger and older ladies,there are some very beautiful and sensual older ladies.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A year younger than my mum and dad. When you get to their age everything obviously stops

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

"I joined earlier this year when I was 64,I'm 65 now,I'm open to meeting younger and older ladies,there are some very beautiful and sensual older ladies."
what I'm was trying to say I love ladies at any age there is no barriers.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally older than my mum or as young as my kids is a no go.

Mrs

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

"Personally older than my mum or as young as my kids is a no go.

Mrs "
Age is just a number,people seem to think that you get to a certain age and then they are regarded as clapped out.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

I've been too old for 30 years...

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Lates 50s + is too old for me

Talking 58+

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By *ockonmeMan
over a year ago

lincolnshire

Mindset maturity mainly for me. But you’ve gotta be 23+

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"You're all wrong it's.......

Well at least according to Fab's age filter thingy it is anyway

And lego.

If you can't play with lego as you're outside of the upper age range... you're too old"

Well I'll be damned, are you not allowed any fun at all when you are 100

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"Never too old!

I think Biden is too old to be President"

lol was going to say never too old, but there are some cases where you wonder if they can continue to perform!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're all wrong it's.......

Well at least according to Fab's age filter thingy it is anyway

And lego.

If you can't play with lego as you're outside of the upper age range... you're too old

Well I'll be damned, are you not allowed any fun at all when you are 100

Its forbidden!

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

"Never too old!

I think Biden is too old to be President

lol was going to say never too old, but there are some cases where you wonder if they can continue to perform!"
Biden is a completely different story.The USA is the most powerful country in the World and you need a man that is young and mature enough to make the big decisions.

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By *evergiveupMan
over a year ago

derbyshire

"You're all wrong it's.......

Well at least according to Fab's age filter thingy it is anyway r

And lego.

If you can't play with lego as you're outside of the upper age range... you're too old"

Now that is a tricky one

Are you likely to be better at sex or making something decent out of Lego at 99?

( Providing you get to that age of course )

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

It's astonishing how many messages we get from guys that have max 50 on their profiles. I usually reply that we seem to be outside their age limit. Sometimes the sarcasm is missed when you get a crass like ' oh, I do make exceptions '

Wow, thanks for doing us a favour lol.

Age is irrelevant, it's attraction, mindset and connection

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By *hico42Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

No age doesn't matter.. As long as their not too young.. I can find an 80yr old as attractive as a 30 Yr old

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By *a1970Man
over a year ago

East cork

It's the leval of maturity that's inportant. I have no problem with going up in age....

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Everyone has a preference. I am way fitter and healthier than most people of any age. But past the age of 40 your gonna be too old for most.

I accept this it's part of life and I just Carey on enjoying mine

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By *illie fitMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

To be honest in Bournemouth it seems if your over 50, then your passed it

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Met a27 year old girl as well as a lovely 70 year old… older enough to know does it really matter

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

"Just a random question intrigued to no peoples thoughts?"

When you’re dead then you are too old for everything imho.

Until then enjoy whatever whenever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many of you are saying age is just a number if that's true why do us older guys find it so hard to get a meet unless it's with an older person."

Age isn’t just a number.

A lot of people who say it is actually have age filters themselves.

As we get older the amount of people physically attracted to us gets smaller, that’s just life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally older than my mum or as young as my kids is a no go.

Mrs Age is just a number,people seem to think that you get to a certain age and then they are regarded as clapped out."

If it’s just a number why do you have age filters set?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's astonishing how many messages we get from guys that have max 50 on their profiles. I usually reply that we seem to be outside their age limit. Sometimes the sarcasm is missed when you get a crass like ' oh, I do make exceptions '

Wow, thanks for doing us a favour lol.

Age is irrelevant, it's attraction, mindset and connection "

I’ve had this the other way around, older men messaging me who have age filters set at 35+ and I remind them and the excuses start lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, thanks for doing us a favour lol.

I get this constantly.Its always part of their opening message, totally backhanded compliments. (I don’t normally fancy women as old as you….etc etc)

I used to get offended, now it’s water off a ducks back.

Age is irrelevant, it's attraction, mindset and connection "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of biggest turn ons is meeting couples/women that are older. Love the experience they have and the maturity.

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Age filters are a necessary evil at times. They will undoubtedly block some guys /gals that in person you'd be perfectly OK with . At a club everyone doesn't wall around with a date stamp on their foreheads ( now that's an idea )

Someone well inside your fixed max may be physically / attitude way older.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I would worry a 95 year old might break something if he were to bang me hard.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I would worry a 95 year old might break something if he were to bang me hard."

You'd have to ask them to be careful with you

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By *rigbyMan
over a year ago

Skelmersdale

Well I'm here to tell you happy jolly age is just a number people that it damn well does matter when trying to contact someone.. all the rejection, the actual revulsion in some messages, women in my age group looking for young lads, it's a myth that age doesn't matter.

Maybe its different for older ladies but for mature single straight men its brutal, and yes I deliberately say straight...men's orientation is none of my business but a profiles search shows just how many look for bisexual men only

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By *mpierdoleMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Don't think it can be done by number alone

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By *andy 1Couple
over a year ago

northeast

r lass is 70 and we had some lovely coments when we shaged in the cam rooms this afternoon

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By *p4fun60Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

If there's sexual chemistry between you,then age is irrelevant

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
over a year ago

Hinckley

The older the lady the better

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By *zeroMan
over a year ago

over there

Fab decides it's 99. After that no more nookie for you.

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By *mfao88Man
over a year ago

north yorkshire

No such thing

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Sometimes I feel at my age especially when you arrange something, they cancel just to go meet a younger model.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I feel at my age especially when you arrange something, they cancel just to go meet a younger model. "

You’re definitely not too old at all. Very much their loss for cancelling.

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

We're still going strong

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

One year older every year

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"Sometimes I feel at my age especially when you arrange something, they cancel just to go meet a younger model.

You’re definitely not too old at all. Very much their loss for cancelling. "

Thank you, but it does knock your confidence a little

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Sometimes I feel at my age especially when you arrange something, they cancel just to go meet a younger model. "
They would want to be absolutely nuts to cancel on you

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm not too old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you stop wanting it.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your fully able to do what it is that your wanting to do then your not too old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm here to tell you happy jolly age is just a number people that it damn well does matter when trying to contact someone.. all the rejection, the actual revulsion in some messages, women in my age group looking for young lads, it's a myth that age doesn't matter.

Read their profile and see if you match the age they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I feel at my age especially when you arrange something, they cancel just to go meet a younger model. "

Not a chance.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"38"

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"Age is just a number "

This...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a random question intrigued to no peoples thoughts?"

Told for what, sucking your thumb!

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By *affle84Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Jess likes older guys even older than me lol

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Must be 59 cuz ain’t had so much as a light this year …

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By *xonman53Man
over a year ago

Thame

"Sometimes I feel at my age especially when you arrange something, they cancel just to go meet a younger model.

You’re definitely not too old at all. Very much their loss for cancelling.

Thank you, but it does knock your confidence a little "

Don't... You look great in your pics... Just wish I was closer!!

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By *ob.42Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

For me, simply how they look and act. I have no fixed upper limit simply because an older person can look incredible, or a younger person look 40 years older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"38

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Not old enough to be our parents, so 60s is OK but 70s is unlikely to work for us.

Nita

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