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Question what is bi?

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

What is it you’d call bi? Would you say any type of male contact, a double bj maybe, DVP hubby and wife sucking together. If you say ‘ah fuck it, I’m doing it’ are you then bi? Or is it just in the mind lol

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I wouldn't say DVP/DAP is bi, just close proximity.

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I wouldn't say DVP/DAP is bi, just close proximity.

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Dito, some do tho

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By *itnakedladMan
over a year ago

London Bridge

Surely it’s being attractive to the same sex. Simples

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"I wouldn't say DVP/DAP is bi, just close proximity.

Dito, some do tho"

I don't understand why people would think that as long as you are DVP/DAP a woman.

Does it make a woman bi, if two women suck a man's cock/balls at the same time.

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I wouldn't say DVP/DAP is bi, just close proximity.

Dito, some do tho

I don't understand why people would think that as long as you are DVP/DAP a woman.

Does it make a woman bi, if two women suck a man's cock/balls at the same time.

"

Hey I’m with you, just something I read here.

So where is the definite line? At what stage is an act Bi? An answer above is if you’re attracted to males and females. Not sure that fits at all, I know a couple where the male love to plz his wife doing things that some would consider bi, yet he isn’t attracted to men in the slightest, well so he says

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Surely it’s being attractive to the same sex. Simples "

Not sure about that, many aren’t but will still play a certain way for the sake of a partner.

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

Who cares

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Most bi guys I meet are not attracted to men and don't meet man on their own.

I would say there are levels of bi, some are just oral while others it's full sex. Then the question is top or bottom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most bi guys I meet are not attracted to men and don't meet man on their own.

I would say there are levels of bi, some are just oral while others it's full sex. Then the question is top or bottom.

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Bottom x

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Who cares "
clearly you, why comment? Odd

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By *aturefunswTV/TS
over a year ago

bristol

It’s a good question .

I fancy ladies and Tgirls .

But only few men . I do love obvious parts of men ha .

I guess it’s the whole vibe for me x

So I think I’m bi more than straight but tv gay more than bi ? X

Or confused ha ha

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By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

To me, my own opinion, there should be no labels on sexual pleasure itself, it’s okay if your sexuality is gay, bisexual, straight et cetera that’s who you are but why should a person be labelled something for enjoying sex, whether it’s with a man, or a woman, people get sexual pleasure using vibrators in their ass, what are they labelled, someone who masturbates themselves, does that come under bisexual or gay or straight?

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Most bi guys I meet are not attracted to men and don't meet man on their own.

I would say there are levels of bi, some are just oral while others it's full sex. Then the question is top or bottom.

"

Again yes, I agree. Different levels completely. There are those that have zero interest in males but will entertain a female with them say letting hubby blow if wife tells him to do so. Is that a level? Or just Bi? I’ll guarantee some will say bi, others not.

All this just comes from reading something on this here and talking to cpls etc

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"It’s a good question .

I fancy ladies and Tgirls .

But only few men . I do love obvious parts of men ha .

I guess it’s the whole vibe for me x

So I think I’m bi more than straight but tv gay more than bi ? X

Or confused ha ha "

I get that too, sometimes a pic comes up of a t-girl and they look absolutely nothing like a male at all!! Until you scroll down the it’s obvious lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I wouldn't say DVP/DAP is bi, just close proximity.

Dito, some do tho

I don't understand why people would think that as long as you are DVP/DAP a woman.

Does it make a woman bi, if two women suck a man's cock/balls at the same time.

Hey I’m with you, just something I read here.

So where is the definite line? At what stage is an act Bi? An answer above is if you’re attracted to males and females. Not sure that fits at all, I know a couple where the male love to plz his wife doing things that some would consider bi, yet he isn’t attracted to men in the slightest, well so he says "

I think it's about attraction too, bnot about an action. Many people engage in behaviour but have zero attraction to a gender

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"To me, my own opinion, there should be no labels on sexual pleasure itself, it’s okay if your sexuality is gay, bisexual, straight et cetera that’s who you are but why should a person be labelled something for enjoying sex, whether it’s with a man, or a woman, people get sexual pleasure using vibrators in their ass, what are they labelled, someone who masturbates themselves, does that come under bisexual or gay or straight? "

Agree to an extent, many on here demand a label tho, others don’t

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Who really cares about whether we are bi or not if you are attracted to someone who really gives a fuck anymore

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
over a year ago

Cap d'Agde

To quote Lewis Carrol:


"When I use the word "bi", it means just what I choose it to mean — neither more nor less."

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"Most bi guys I meet are not attracted to men and don't meet man on their own.

I would say there are levels of bi, some are just oral while others it's full sex. Then the question is top or bottom.

"

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Not that I'm any great expert but I would agree with you about the attraction bit, it's purely a sex thing for a lot of folks

Sexuality as a spectrum is probably the best way of viewing it I have come across

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Top, bottom or just plain old switch Wonder which is more popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I would say finding the same sex as yourself just as appealing as the opposite sex is the definition of bi.

I would and have dated men and women so I call myself bisexual. Not everyone would say the same though, does merely sexual contact make you bi. I think for a lot of people it is and can be situational. I am not one for labels as everyone will argue them anyway but that's not the definition that isn't what that is etc. I have never really cared how others identify their sexual orientation though as long as we like each other and there is mutual desire then I really am not bothered if they're bi, bicurous, straight whatever they want to label themselves as. It has no bearing on me.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd say being attracted to and wanting sex with the same gender.

People just like the sex but aren't interested in romantic relationships with the same gender and that's referred to as hetro flexible.

There's no black and white.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 straight men fucking each other.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

The clue is in the word "bisexual", the OED definition of which is "Characterized by sexual or romantic attraction to, or sexual activity with, people of both sexes". Note that attraction doesn't appear to be necessary, sexual activity is sufficient.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"I'd say being attracted to and wanting sex with the same gender.

People just like the sex but aren't interested in romantic relationships with the same gender and that's referred to as hetro flexible.

There's no black and white.

Mrs "

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We've had a few ladies of couples call themselves bi-playful which struck a chord with us

Women just have a way of making things sound more fun than guys do lol

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"The clue is in the word "bisexual", the OED definition of which is "Characterized by sexual or romantic attraction to, or sexual activity with, people of both sexes". Note that attraction doesn't appear to be necessary, sexual activity is sufficient. "

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Yes that would be my understanding of bisexual,

I get a bit lost with all the new terminology though, so maybe I'm just old fashioned that way lol

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Does everything have to be labelled then ?

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd say regularly playing with people of the same sex and enjoying it, is bi.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Does everything have to be labelled then ?"

Yes. It's what nouns are for. Imagine buying a tin of caviar and finding out it's dog food. Or arranging to meet a woman from Fab and it turns out to be a man - or vice versa.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Does everything have to be labelled then ?

Yes. It's what nouns are for. Imagine buying a tin of caviar and finding out it's dog food. Or arranging to meet a woman from Fab and it turns out to be a man - or vice versa. "

Labels are useful,when they're used in the right way and not against someone or in a more judgy way.

As a straight women when I meet with my partner they're helpful in ruling out people we wouldn't be compatible with ie couples looking mostly for fem play.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Does everything have to be labelled then ?

Yes. It's what nouns are for. Imagine buying a tin of caviar and finding out it's dog food. Or arranging to meet a woman from Fab and it turns out to be a man - or vice versa. "

Oh I agree with some of what your saying but To be fair a man pretending to be a woman is a bit different to someone not knowing if they are classed as bi or straight

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'd say being attracted to and wanting sex with the same gender.

People just like the sex but aren't interested in romantic relationships with the same gender and that's referred to as hetro flexible.

There's no black and white.

Mrs

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We've had a few ladies of couples call themselves bi-playful which struck a chord with us

Women just have a way of making things sound more fun than guys do lol "

I like that term too, probably includes me, I can't say I've ever looked to date a women or would even consider it but I enjoy having sex with them.

Mrs

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
over a year ago

Cap d'Agde


"Does everything have to be labelled then ?

Yes. It's what nouns are for."

Sorry, but that's a bit of a daft argument. It's like saying that guns are for shooting, so everyone must be shot.

A lot of nouns are pretty vague in their meaning, and even the dictionary definitions will vary between dictionaries or be just down right wrong.

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