FabSwingers.com forum: Face Pic Nerves…

By *ittle_Secrets OP Woman
over a year ago

worthing

I don’t mind sharing body pictures, but am absolutely terrified of sharing face pics!

I’ve even resorted to hinting at where there are tagged pictures on FB for people to maybe find me lol

Anyone else feel the same?!?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

your not alone,,

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

Then perhaps don’t.

With so many single guys per woman on Fab I’m sure plenty will be willing to take a chance on a social without a face pic.

Once it’s sent to the internet it’s out there forever.

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

What’s the reason for the face pic hibbie jibbies?

Fear of being recognised?

Fear of rejection?

To hell with either. If your recognised, well they’re here too and if no likey of your face, move on to the next dish.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Why are you so worried op?

We all take a chance when sending a face pic and hope people won't share it etc.

It's just my experience, but it makes me think people have something to hide, if they won't share a face pic with me. In that case I'd move on.

As a woman you have more chance of a meet without sharing your face than a man would,if you don't want to send a face pic dont, but it will reduce your chances.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Also I'd never give my socials out for someone to find my pics.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't see the logic in what you do

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I wouldn't want anyone here on my social media with real name etc.

I'd much rather show them here & still keep some anonymity.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd rather send a face picture on here than direct someone to Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP please don’t give anyone access to your social media.

I had a nightmare on a previous joint account when I wasn’t Fab savvy enough.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I only send face pic privately or they are on my friends only pics for people I trust to see.

Can I just say, as many others have, for your own safety, don't give out your socials to anyone.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I don't really care, either they like how I look or they don't.

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By *ittle_Secrets OP Woman
over a year ago

worthing

Just to be clear, I’m not giving out my social media details. Just places where I might be in a group photo untagged. Thank you for the advice people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to be clear, I’m not giving out my social media details. Just places where I might be in a group photo untagged. Thank you for the advice people x"

Tbf you stated “tagged photos” in your OP.

If you do this you are also showing pictures of people who are not on Fab which is surely a breach of their privacy.

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By *ittle_Secrets OP Woman
over a year ago

worthing

I’ve not been tagged apologies. These are pictures open to anyone on social media?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I’ve not been tagged apologies. These are pictures open to anyone on social media? "

Yeah, but if you're directing horny fab men there to see your face, can you not see how it's a bit off?

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By *ittle_Secrets OP Woman
over a year ago

worthing

Yes. Apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then perhaps don’t.

With so many single guys per woman on Fab I’m sure plenty will be willing to take a chance on a social without a face pic.

Once it’s sent to the internet it’s out there forever. "

This exactly!!

Especially a comprising face pic e.g where your naked or topless.

could pixilate or block out dace a bit but if your not happy then don't

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I hate it, especially when someone asks to see it. What I found easier to take the pressure off is to post one every now and again so people will see it. If someone doesn’t like it they don’t have to message me

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

"I don’t mind sharing body pictures, but am absolutely terrified of sharing face pics!

I’ve even resorted to hinting at where there are tagged pictures on FB for people to maybe find me lol

Anyone else feel the same?!?"

Yes, I think we all have some insecurities about how we look fuelling by unrealistic societal norms and standards. But it’s a risk/reward scenario sometimes it’s worth taking that risk whist recognising that no matter what we look like we won’t be everyone’s cup of tea.

Believe in yourself OP we’re all in the same boat just trying to be our best selves and get the best out of life

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Love showing the wife off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind- they either like it or don’t, if not, you never hear from them again

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Sorry I'm confused.

Do this mean my Book of Face could get mixed up with my fab pics?

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

"I don’t mind sharing body pictures, but am absolutely terrified of sharing face pics!

I’ve even resorted to hinting at where there are tagged pictures on FB for people to maybe find me lol

Anyone else feel the same?!?"

Something I don't really get. While I don't have any public pics I have absolutely no qualms about sending them. It's a necessity and something of nothing.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't have any insecurities about sharing my facepic but I choose not to because they have been shared by people I trusted at the time.

I don't have any on the site and will only ever share once I've already agreed to meet someone so we will recognise each other in the coffee shop.

It's not as some make out, a case of being happy or grateful to shag anyone so I'll go without a facepic.

I'm very fussy about everything I do on here, including who I share a pic with.

I certainly wouldn't be directing anyone to social media especially pics with other people in them.

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