Subs on a sub Dom dynamic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I unde what the Dom gets out of it but What emotional pleasure do subs get from a sub Dom relationship?

Just asking as I don't really get the sub Dom thing.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

Depends what kind of D/s relationship you are talking about.

For subs it’s mainly about the exchange of power. But there are other benefits, little internet search into spanking may help you understand.

Also you assume you know what the Dom gets from it, my bet is you have assumed wrong.

My pleasure as the Dom in our D/s play is from Ms pleasure not from being the one in control.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't do Ds as such. But playing with power dynamics is a lot of fun. And if people are strongly aligned with one or the other and find compatible people on the other side of the scale, that's great.

I know I fucking love seeing how my partners react to the things I do for them. It's just an extension of that feeling really I suppose.

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By *achelTheAnalSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

I've probably not done what would be considered a proper Ds thing, but I've been restrained etc. a few times and absolutely love it. I love the feeling of giving up control to someone else, to be theirs to play with as they see fit.

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