FabSwingers.com forum: Talking about ex partners

By *aybail-238 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

Does anyone else talk to their current partner about the ex partner?

We don’t know why but knowing what we did sexually with our exs gets us going

We would never do anything with them again or go back but just talking about what we did

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Does anyone else talk to their current partner about the ex partner?

We don’t know why but knowing what we did sexually with our exs gets us going

We would never do anything with them again or go back but just talking about what we did

Yes, I do exactly that and I do find it turns me on too, especially talking about my first wife with whom I began exploring ENM, threesomes, etc. Somehow those first experiences are still very striking and colourful in my memory, despite much more exotic things happening later in life.

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Yes she talk about her ex boyfriends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to hear all its big turn on

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

yes me and my wife talked about past experiences. We were both filthy buggers and found it a turn on

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By *sj75Couple
over a year ago

castleford

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else talk to their current partner about the ex partner?

We don’t know why but knowing what we did sexually with our exs gets us going

We would never do anything with them again or go back but just talking about what we did

i enjoy hearing about my ladies previous encounters but her not as much,

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By *aturefunswTV/TS
over a year ago

bristol

I liked her talking her about her mmf ffm ffmm mmmff experiences x very horny x but I don’t have a new partner so don’t know how it would go down

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By *_and_ICouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Has she had many?

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By *aybail-238 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

Just 2 where they mattered if you get me

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By *exy BearsCouple
over a year ago

Halesowen

It’s my favourite thing to talk about! I love hearing S say their names and what they used to do to her, use her and fill her with cum ! X

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By *aybail-238 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

"It’s my favourite thing to talk about! I love hearing S say their names and what they used to do to her, use her and fill her with cum ! X"

That’s hot

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By *exy BearsCouple
over a year ago

Halesowen

It is. If I mention it S will normally squirt super hard ! I get her to tell me she misses his cock and what she would do if I wasn’t around etc. the thought of her running straight to get his big cock in her mouth again turns me on so bad !

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By *ath_ladMan
over a year ago

Bath

I like hearing what there ex has done to them n how it drove them wild so I can do exactly the same but push there limits even further

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By *K-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I love hearing about my wife's past experiences. It turns me on and makes me cum quicker. Love hearing what a slut she was.

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By *edseethruMan
over a year ago

douglas

It took her a while to talk about them but now she tells me everything

Absolutely love it ?

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

We’ve talked about this stuff and it can be incredibly hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done in the last

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By *woofakind2022Couple (MM)
over a year ago

London/East Anglia

I’ve done this with almost every ex, albeit the majority of the time it’s me asking her about past experiences - only really been with one cuckqueen before who enjoyed listening to me talk about previous partners.

Very hot though!

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By *woofakind2022Couple (MM)
over a year ago

London/East Anglia

This is me in a nutshell, basically haha!

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Slippery business if you ask me…

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

yes we do it lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely it turns me on so much

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By *aybail-238 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

"We’ve talked about this stuff and it can be incredibly hot "

We agree! It seems to hit a spot. Your profile is amazing too!

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By *onesthubMan
over a year ago

Ilkley

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

Yes loads

While we masterbating. Love hearing about cock she's had

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By *Kcouple292022Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I find it hot when K tells me about her past partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one ex that used to keep banging on about how small this one certain ex was, fun at first but she brought it up every night and it got tiresome after a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was seeing a woman who used to do this. It was ok to begin with up until she started constantly going on about one man in particular. How it was the best sex of her life and how she never felt that connection with anyone else.

I found it a bit disparaging in the end.

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By *hesubtlegentMan
over a year ago

surrey

I don’t talk about my exes. They an ex for a reason and I’d rather not. Although this site does bring out the filth side of people so I can understand why others love it

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By *eechyweechyMan
over a year ago

Saltburn-by-the-Sea

My ex's ex had a massive and i mean massive cock. I loved hearing about the sex they had

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By *race_cpl6665Couple
over a year ago

Solihull

Love hearing about who my wife fucked before me!

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By *heelz69Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm single unfortunately but I would probably like it

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By *ussyeater27Man
over a year ago

London/Murcia/ Bath/Glasgow/ Dublin All over for work

I am single bit still talk to my ex who is also on here and she tells.me.about all the cock and pussy she has...massive turn on

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By *edonism3Couple
over a year ago

Lytham

What you are all discussing is an established ENM kink known as Hotpast for which there's a popular Reddit community, along with a similar group called Did You Fuck My Wife.

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By *edonism3Couple
over a year ago

Lytham

My wife had a ONS that was so huge that he couldn't fit a condom further than his bell end. It was her story about fucking him that got us into this lifestyle over 25 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love hearing about who my wife fucked before me!"

What’s your favourite experience that she recounts from her past?

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By *nlyessexCouple
over a year ago

Hornchurch

I like hearing about her past sex life but I now like hearing about the present after she has met a guy

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Not so much ex partners, but if we've just got home from a meet or a club we do, or we bring up previous meets when we are fucking each other.

The fact they are shared experiences make them more of a turn on I think, for us anyway

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By *aybail-238 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

"What you are all discussing is an established ENM kink known as Hotpast for which there's a popular Reddit community, along with a similar group called Did You Fuck My Wife."

Well I didn’t know that, I’ve learnt something today

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

Love this

Love her wanking me as she tells me about them

There dixk

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By *ale69Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Love her to share, she likes me to share too, and if I meet other people for sex without her she wants all the details afterwards

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Does anyone else talk to their current partner about the ex partner?

We don’t know why but knowing what we did sexually with our exs gets us going

We would never do anything with them again or go back but just talking about what we did

My current partner knows all about my ex.. I am trying not to bring him up to much but knowing all that I've Been up to is a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've not discussed a lot sexually about our ex partners, we have no issues with mentioning them

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I'm always happy to talk about ex partners with a new partner. It gives a good idea of what may and may not be on the cards! As long as they don't know them of course!

Anyway, talking about sex before sex is always good!

Gbat

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By *4funXXXMan
over a year ago

cheshire

It was my late wife asking about any girls I’d been with before we got together and me asking her about any lads and the details she told me that got me so turned on that months later we started to go to swingers clubs then a few months later we played and swapped. I use to love talking to her about her past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not so much ex partners, but if we've just got home from a meet or a club we do, or we bring up previous meets when we are fucking each other.

The fact they are shared experiences make them more of a turn on I think, for us anyway"

That’s hot I ageee

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By *aybail-238 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

"Does anyone else talk to their current partner about the ex partner?

We don’t know why but knowing what we did sexually with our exs gets us going

We would never do anything with them again or go back but just talking about what we did

My current partner knows all about my ex.. I am trying not to bring him up to much but knowing all that I've Been up to is a turn on "

You should tell him

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By *octor ProdMan
over a year ago

working Overseas

I get on well with my first and third ex-wives. I'm also friendly with some of my ex girlfiends from my teens an.d 20's

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By *ounghungandfullMan
over a year ago

north lincolnshire

This is such a turn on! My old fuckbuddy used to tell me all about her past, weather it was a year ago or a day ago

nothing more sexy then fucking a woman while she talks about fucking other guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has she had many?"

You both look amazing, We had to say it sorry lol, merry Christmas x

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By *oblogsCouple
over a year ago

east anglia

Funnily enough we have started doing this and knowing he was quite big and used to be a submissive to him was extremely hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this quite often, really turns me on.

Usually talk about stuff she’s done with her ex, where they fucked, how and where he came etc and also talking about one night stands too. Enjoy talking about how big they were, how long he fucked her for etc. makes me hard and cum straight away!

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes but not in a sexual way, more of a "please don't add to my PTSD" way.

Which in itself can be sexy. Realising you've got a fantastic partner!

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

"Funnily enough we have started doing this and knowing he was quite big and used to be a submissive to him was extremely hot!"

The same, one of my wife's exs was pretty huge and he used to use her badly, but in a good way, if that makes sense.

So hot to hear when she told me

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By *elsh.couple1Couple
over a year ago

Swansea/neath

Yes we've done it and she's gets so horny.

Cums so good!

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By *rankie bricksMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Wife used to talk about ex relationship (sex)

Found it a big turn on

Anyone interested in conversation

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By *arl traceyMan
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

Same here my wife has told me about her one night stands when she was single and how one took her in every hole and had a huge thick cock after he met her in a local nightclub in stoke ,on the way back to her house he even bent her over walking through a local park on the way and pulled her tits straight out the minute they got through the front door of her house ! So horny to hear!

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By *aybail-238 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

"We do this quite often, really turns me on.

Glad we’re not the only ones

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By *aybail-238 OP Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

"Yes but not in a sexual way, more of a "please don't add to my PTSD" way.

Which in itself can be sexy. Realising you've got a fantastic partner! "

I actually like this. It’s sometimes good to remind your self how lucky you are to have your current partner. Keep up the love!

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By *unkymale65Man
over a year ago

Worksop

Same here I used to love my ex girlfriend talking about her ex boyfriends. It took a while to get her to tell me but I found it a real turn on knowing how many guys had spunked up her tight little pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else talk to their current partner about the ex partner?

We don’t know why but knowing what we did sexually with our exs gets us going

We would never do anything with them again or go back but just talking about what we did

Sazz and I love doing this, it's a lot of fun and has opened different avenues of play for us. It's fun!

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By *iniskirtCouple
over a year ago

Paisley

Something we can’t do, met at school and are still together x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we love this, going into the intricate details, we both done it a huge turn on

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By *4funXXXMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Same here I used to love my ex girlfriend talking about her ex boyfriends. It took a while to get her to tell me but I found it a real turn on knowing how many guys had spunked up her tight little pussy.

Love what you just put. The only difference for me was knowing how much her boyfriend wanted to take her virginity and how she admitted to me that if he had had a condom on he would have been balls deep in her. I questioned her on wanting him balls deep and she said that she was so desperate to feel his cock inside her she very nearly let him. She admitted the feeling of the tip of his cock opening her outer lips did make her wish he had not listened to her and slid in. Just turns me on still to this day thinking about it. Funny thing is when we first fucked and I took her virginity I didn’t have any condoms and filled her with my spunk. After that she only ever had me bare. They where the days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this … so hot and always gives you something aim for if he was better

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By *sj75Couple
over a year ago

castleford

Better than that, I watch the videos of her and her ex. Massive turn on.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

I only had one partner before Ben, I think I’ve told him everything he wants to know about those times.

Personally I don’t want to know about Bens history!

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

My ex gf was a working girl for 20 years and had so mamy stories, my ex was a super slut who coukd get enough cock. Loved watching her take multiple guys

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Im in the minority i feel as this does nothing for me sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't think of anything worse to be honest. I'd be concentrating more on what I planned to do with my current partner and discussing that instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never done anything for me sexually.

I just don't like talking about people that I've had sex with. What we did etc.

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By *bfabMan
over a year ago

Burgess Hill

For me it’s a massive turn on.

She’s quiet and shy so hearing some of the things she did was quite an eye opener, and seeing her get excited telling me about it is amazing

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I love hearing about Mrs exes, or any of her sexual encounters, especially if she can remember some details. She doesn't like hearing about mine, although she likes hearing details after swapping partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex used to really get off on hearing about what I'd done with other women before. I can be quite shy so she used to like seeing me getting a bit embarrassed. After a few drinks though was really hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love hearing about her an ex

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By *inkyjijoMan
over a year ago

Angus

Very big turn on when she tells me about some of her escapades before we met....

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Im in the minority i feel as this does nothing for me sexually

I'm with you there. Does nothing for me either

MrsAbz

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By *RWoodyCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I'm in the camp of does nothing for me. My previous partner turned into a person I couldn't recognise. I would very much like to forget what I heard he got up to whilst we were married.

I can though, see why some might find it exciting!

J x

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By *ykinkyCouple
over a year ago

cleethorpes

We do to each other and really enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this and my hubby is always asking me if the opportunity ever comes would I have another session with him

I always say yes as it turns him on

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By *sh n kCouple
over a year ago

blackpool

Yes we love doing it it gets us so horny pm or add on kik if anyone wants to find out more lol

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By *aybail-238 OP Couple
49 weeks ago

hartlepool

"We do this and my hubby is always asking me if the opportunity ever comes would I have another session with him

I always say yes as it turns him on

That’s hot

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By *heelz69Man
49 weeks ago

Manchester

"We do this and my hubby is always asking me if the opportunity ever comes would I have another session with him

I always say yes as it turns him on

That’s hot

I would love to see my ex getting fucked, and I'm informed that she's into the swinging scene now!

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By *wistedTooCouple
49 weeks ago

Frimley

"Slippery business if you ask me…"

Only for jealous people

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