FabSwingers.com forum: you have a meet and this happens....

By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago

somerset

you have a meet and this happens.... from chatting with a friend she arranged a meet took about 6 weeks to happen she was excited he was pronising her all ...

10 mins into the meet hes shot his nuts gets dress and buggers off ...

she messaged him after to say she felt let down a little as he cum and ran leaving her high n dry...

his reply was i had a great time i got what i wanted good time not longtime and even then had the cheek to ask if he coupld be regular lol we were laughing about it then today i though wait id me massively pissed off ... would you or are you ok with balls empty and run meets ??

keep it to the thread please ...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Selfish sex ain't for me, so no I'd not meet them again.

Cumming quick isn't an issue but just walking out is.

Mrs

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

I'd never do that I'd always make sure the lady comes first and go out of my way to make sure she has the same amount of fun as me it takes two to tango

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By *oupleforfun202169Couple
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

He wouldn't be welcome at ours....I mean at least hang around for 20 mins after .

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

That's gross behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet yesterday and I was very turned on, and had not cum for 2 weeks. So I cum in like 20 mins, but I spent the next half hour using my tongue, toys and fingers until I got second wind. Us blokes Always go for longer the second time round..

I mean, at the end of the day, I want to be invited back and I’m not going to get that invite if I’m being selfish!

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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago

somerset

"He wouldn't be welcome at ours....I mean at least hang around for 20 mins after . "

iif i meet a guy and hes quick to leave afyer having fun hes blocked simple as

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd block him to be honest, shows he wasn't interested in her and it was all about him.

I had a meet years ago who was all about him.When he asked about meeting again I said no and told him I'd felt he'd just made sure he was satisfied.

It's so disappointing when you chat and get to know someone a while and then they do that.

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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago

somerset

"Had a meet yesterday and I was very turned on, and had not cum for 2 weeks. So I cum in like 20 mins, but I spent the next half hour using my tongue, toys and fingers until I got second wind. Us blokes Always go for longer the second time round..

I mean, at the end of the day, I want to be invited back and I’m not going to get that invite if I’m being selfish!"

i think alot of women myself included dont really care if you cum quick what matters is what you do after

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

May anyone who does this have 10 years of bad fashion taste

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

This is a simular story to a freind of mine I recommend Fab to. We were both fairly newly single at the time and looking for new adventures. I told her about fab and the adventures I was having. She signed up, naturally had loads of intrest and arranged a meet with a guy who sounded great. I was excited for her. But he basically came round, pumped his load and fucked off. Left her feeling a bit used and crap. As the person who suggested she gave fab a try I felt really guilty and crap too. I wanted her to have such a good time and some adventures (with 300 miles between us it's not something I could see to myself often). She came straight off site afterwards and never on again. May have been a different story had her first experience been a positive one.

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

"you have a meet and this happens.... from chatting with a friend she arranged a meet took about 6 weeks to happen she was excited he was pronising her all ...

10 mins into the meet hes shot his nuts gets dress and buggers off ...

she messaged him after to say she felt let down a little as he cum and ran leaving her high n dry...

keep it to the thread please ..."

No that seems disrespectful a bit shit

Especially as it was hyped up if you haven't got the stamina don't bullshit people

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By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

It’s not that I could go all night, or even hours, but I wouldn’t be able to do what that person done, I would have to try and satisfy her someway

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Unbelievable some people I sorry hear that happened to you op.

I just hope others don't get caught in his " charm"

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

This happened to Mrs M once.

Arranged the meet, guy pulled up in his flash car.

Mrs M got into the car with him, had a snog and a bit of clothes on play, then he announced that he was sorry but had just cum in his pants.

His next words left her flabbergasted, he said don't worry, I recover quickly and will be ready to go again in a few minutes

Strangely, she just got out of the car and left.

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By *evergiveupMan
over a year ago

derbyshire

It should be pleasure shared - sounds very very selfish

Even if he couldn't last long there is plenty he could have offered to make it a good experience

Not on the friends list I take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do selfish.

The cut and run is just wanky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more enjoyment out of the other person getting what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean, at the end of the day, I want to be invited back and I’m not going to get that invite if I’m being selfish!

i think alot of women myself included dont really care if you cum quick what matters is what you do after "

This is what’s always held me back, I usually cum quick the first time though I’ll get straight in with my hands and tongue I’ve always felt like that’d be such a disappointment so I don’t really talk a lot on here! But the one thing I wouldn’t do is leave straight after that’s downright rude

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

No that was rude and selfish imho

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"you have a meet and this happens.... from chatting with a friend she arranged a meet took about 6 weeks to happen she was excited he was pronising her all ...

10 mins into the meet hes shot his nuts gets dress and buggers off ...

she messaged him after to say she felt let down a little as he cum and ran leaving her high n dry...

keep it to the thread please ..."

Cum and go is not for me. Stick with my wand

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Self-centred in my opinion and not something that I would like kills the moment and can be a set back to the one left. Just keep faith not everyone acts this way

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Makes me glad I don't accommodate (I can but don't want to, at least for the first one).

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
over a year ago

Warwick and Coventry

I'd at least stick around for a cuppa afterwards

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Oof.

Block and move on on that one.

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’d tell him he was a shit shag then block my first words to myself when reading this was OMG! Men like that are not worth it

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

If it’s agreed it’s gonna be a quick fuck and go then all is good. I have had a few of those no problem.

I don’t talk to people for weeks on end about a meet , 6 weeks I’d be bored and it would in reality most likely not meet after that long. Though I guess if you was a person that engaged with long banter it would be frustrating if they pump and dump them run

If I had pussy I’d be making sure I was pleasured first or they would be fucked off out the door .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quickies are fun if everyone gets off, but people who are content with just pleasing themselves aren't worth knowing.

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By *BWmetalcouple666Couple
over a year ago

houghton

Sounds like a panda! Eats, shoots and leaves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose atleast he was honest about what he wanted. Better than hanging round if he didn't want to be there. Right?!

I usually like to spend some time either chatting and/or playing. Cum a few times and make sure she is well satisfied.

I did meet someone once. Decided to leave shortly after I came. She asked if I'd come round again and said, "probably not." Then left. Just wasn't a good meet.

I think being honest is the best policy if you value time over all else

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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago

somerset

"I suppose atleast he was honest about what he wanted. Better than hanging round if he didn't want to be there. Right?!

I usually like to spend some time either chatting and/or playing. Cum a few times and make sure she is well satisfied.

I did meet someone once. Decided to leave shortly after I came. She asked if I'd come round again and said, "probably not." Then left. Just wasn't a good meet.

I think being honest is the best policy if you value time over all else"

where was he honest ? he spent 6 weeks bigging up everything ?? hows that honest

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By *TaR105Man
over a year ago

Birkenhead

I mean, at the end of the day, I want to be invited back and I’m not going to get that invite if I’m being selfish!"

Always love the second time round, mmmmmmm

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

What a dick.

Reminds me of a meet I had where I drove like 25 miles for apparently 'guaranteed sex'.

I get changed, walk in, touch his cock and he cums and tells me I'll have to leave now.

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By *exy BearsCouple
over a year ago

Halesowen

My worst nightmare would be going to a meet and finishing too soon and being asked to leave because of it ! There’s plenty you can do whilst you warm up to get ready to go again! X

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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham West Midlands

I always make sure the female has at minimun 2-3 orgasm's first before i dive in and enjoy, seems only fair

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

Sex is about the 2 of you both enjoying the moment, so if I didnt get her off ? I'd get her toys out to make sure she had an orgasm

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By *oshy-JoshMan
over a year ago

Surrey

"you have a meet and this happens.... from chatting with a friend she arranged a meet took about 6 weeks to happen she was excited he was pronising her all ...

10 mins into the meet hes shot his nuts gets dress and buggers off ...

she messaged him after to say she felt let down a little as he cum and ran leaving her high n dry...

keep it to the thread please ..."

No bloody way, he should be making sure you are enjoying your time and feeling fulfilled. He's proper selfish and it sounds like he's immature.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Weve had this happen once and its not a nice feeling. Yes were all there to have fun but shooting your load and running isnt fun for the person thats left there high n dry. It doesnt matter if the guy doesn't last long as theres other play still to be had or at least a chat after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd propp cum dead quick but am there for the long hall ..wouldn't be getting off

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Selfish. Especially after a 6 week build up and promises.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Or perhaps he was embarrassed to of not lasted or fill out his promises

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

The post-nut clarity strikes again!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not something I'm interested in but over the years I've had a few requests from couples to do exactly this.

Turn up, fuck the wife and leave as quickly as possible.

I've refused every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've had it happen a few times, you lie there and think "what did I do wrong".

I had one meet, we'd met in a lay-by not far from where I was staying, it was for a social, thing's went really well we clicked, (or I thought we did) so I invited him back to my room, from the time we got to my room, 15 minutes later and he was gone, he messaged me 2 days later and said what an amazing meet can I see you again, I declined, it was all about him what he was getting, he deleted his account not long after.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

I mean, at the end of the day, I want to be invited back and I’m not going to get that invite if I’m being selfish!

i think alot of women myself included dont really care if you cum quick what matters is what you do after "

I think a lot of men feel the same about ladies

I do and certainly met a few who don't care as long as they get what they want, bit like that guy.

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

"Selfish. Especially after a 6 week build up and promises. "

This

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By *tacy.TWoman
over a year ago

luton

Totally selfish especially after giving the talk for 6 weeks, if that's all you're about then just be upfront n honest!! He'd certainly only be a one off with that attitude!

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Do folk actually do that. That’s so rude wouldn’t be able to look at myself if I did that you both have to be satisfied or there is no point in even meeting

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