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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

When discreet is written in a profile, what does that mean.

Not gonna be shouting swinger from the rooftops

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I hope it means that the person genuinely understands discretion. Quite a lot of people don't seem to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope it means that the person genuinely understands discretion. Quite a lot of people don't seem to"

this .... im very discrete about whom i meet i dont talk to other swingers about my meets and i expect the same in return its about respect more than anything else ... quite often get ask about my meets my answer is mind your own business it one of the reason i dont display my veris or indeed need them..

the only way ill share details amongst my friends on the scence is if someone has been a compleate asshole/ dangerous then as we do in our friendship groups away from fab share names and face pics but for me to do that they need to be a total asshole others will share crap ,eets and no shows i refuse to go that far ..... would recomend any women and couples starting up a word of mouth group it really does help sort the messers

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

For me it means hiding something. So I prefer not to get involved

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"When discreet is written in a profile, what does that mean.

Not gonna be shouting swinger from the rooftops "

Usually applies to accomodating in their own home. No outrageously obvious clothing or loudness on the way in that wakes up the nosy and blissfully unaware neighbours

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"For me it means hiding something. So I prefer not to get involved "

This for me too.

Mrs

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Interesting responses amd very varied.

So for say a married cheating guy I guess it applies

In all honesty who really broadcasts their personal business in public

I don't and I would like to think that no-one else does . Obs I mean the swinging scene

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Interesting responses amd very varied.

So for say a married cheating guy I guess it applies

In all honesty who really broadcasts their personal business in public

I don't and I would like to think that no-one else does . Obs I mean the swinging scene

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Exactly.

So those who feel the need to state discretion are either actively hiding things or have no concept of how reasonable people behave in these situations.

Is how my brain interprets it anyway

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"Interesting responses amd very varied.

So for say a married cheating guy I guess it applies

In all honesty who really broadcasts their personal business in public

I don't and I would like to think that no-one else does . Obs I mean the swinging scene

Exactly.

So those who feel the need to state discretion are either actively hiding things or have no concept of how reasonable people behave in these situations.

Is how my brain interprets it anyway "

Yup me too

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Naturally I assume a common level of keeping people's private affairs as private as I assume they will ours.

Therefore in the world of FAB I generally read the use of the term digression as way of indicating their behaviour (or joint behaviour sometimes) is behind the back of a partner/s. Basically it's a softer way of indicating they're cheating (or at least one half of a couple is).

I know this isn't always the case. Some are in situations/employment/part of a community where a failure of digression is more a risky or dangerous to them than for most of us. But generally I read it as there is a partner out there somewhere that doesn't know what they are up to.

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

Gangsta talk for telling a friend where in Greece they holidayed

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London

I state in my profile that I am discreet. I am very much single. I want my privacy for various reasons. But NOT because I am cheating on anyone.

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Surely been discreet within the swing world goes with the territory. Then again reading above comments some people need to state the obvious

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