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By *eachcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

It never ceases to amaze me as a woman as to how desperate some men get for a meet, that all sense of credibility goes out of the window. I don't meet smokers (my choice for a number of reasons) and the profile clearly says this.

Had a guy message today where his profile says he smokes. I told him because he smokes it was never going to happen, at which point he got very indignant and said he didn't smoke, but only smoked "fags" occasionally.

What world are these people on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never ceases to amaze me as a woman as to how desperate some men get for a meet, that all sense of credibility goes out of the window. I don't meet smokers (my choice for a number of reasons) and the profile clearly says this.

Had a guy message today where his profile says he smokes. I told him because he smokes it was never going to happen, at which point he got very indignant and said he didn't smoke, but only smoked "fags" occasionally.

What world are these people on? "

Hardly the worse offence on here surely

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By *eachcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

Maybe not, but it matters when it comes to truth and trust

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It’s a stink thing.

Although I slept with a smoker and didn’t realise until she sparked up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know why you're entertaining a profile you have no intention of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know why you're entertaining a profile you have no intention of meeting "

Interesting point

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Don't know why you're entertaining a profile you have no intention of meeting "

Agreed, it's best to not reply to those you're not interested in. If you reply you're not interested you're much more likely to get such a message, many even get abusive massages.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Don't know why you're entertaining a profile you have no intention of meeting

Agreed, it's best to not reply to those you're not interested in. If you reply you're not interested you're much more likely to get such a message, many even get abusive massages. "

This, I just delete messages where it's clear they're not what I look for and haven't bothered reading my profile.

If you respond it just gives them chance to lie or be abusive etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never ceases to amaze me as a woman as to how desperate some men get for a meet, that all sense of credibility goes out of the window. I don't meet smokers (my choice for a number of reasons) and the profile clearly says this.

Had a guy message today where his profile says he smokes. I told him because he smokes it was never going to happen, at which point he got very indignant and said he didn't smoke, but only smoked "fags" occasionally.

What world are these people on? "

I met a fab swinger.. He had to outside for a smoke yet he said he didn't.. I feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know why you're entertaining a profile you have no intention of meeting

Agreed, it's best to not reply to those you're not interested in. If you reply you're not interested you're much more likely to get such a message, many even get abusive massages.

This, I just delete messages where it's clear they're not what I look for and haven't bothered reading my profile.

If you respond it just gives them chance to lie or be abusive etc. "

I never understand why it gives chances to be abusive.

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall/Devon

Fully with you on this one.

Our profile says we do not wish to engage with those that have an interest in dogging. The number of messages we get from doggers is unbelievable. They all invariably say that “oh I have never been dogging I don’t know how that got there”.

As you say it’s a truth and trust thing.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We have that as well regarding smokers.

We dont meet smokers but they still message us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men just can't understand why women on here aren't desperate to shag them. 'Little' things like smoking, being married, totally wrong age etc boggles their brain.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"Some men just can't understand why women on here aren't desperate to shag them. 'Little' things like smoking, being married, totally wrong age etc boggles their brain. "

lol being married the main culprit or in a relationship

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By *lmostInseparableCouple
over a year ago

Alfreton


"We have that as well regarding smokers.

We dont meet smokers but they still message us"

We have the same thing but the opposite way around. So many that say they don't meet smokers but will still message us, even though my partner smokes. We always point it out incase they haven't noticed but they normally have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men just can't understand why women on here aren't desperate to shag them. 'Little' things like smoking, being married, totally wrong age etc boggles their brain.

lol being married the main culprit or in a relationship "

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By *ackandJill1Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"We have that as well regarding smokers.

We dont meet smokers but they still message us

We have the same thing but the opposite way around. So many that say they don't meet smokers but will still message us, even though my partner smokes. We always point it out incase they haven't noticed but they normally have."

We have this too, we just ignore messages from those profiles. It does baffle me tho because if I was a no smoker it would be 1 of the 1st things I'd check.

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