FabSwingers.com forum: Do people become a victim of their own hype?

By *eryBigGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I've lost count of the amount of guys I've said no thanks to for them to come back at me with 'but look at my veris I'm fabulous and I'm the best you'll ever have' and such like.

Now I know we all like a good veri but I look at my own and know full well that I'm not gorgeous nor will I give the best BJ in the world and I just take them as the guys had a good time with me and wanted to write something nice but I certainly don't take them as gospel!!

Just wondered what others thought!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general I don't think the men do although some of the couples seem to have a strange idea they are more than they really are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few like that!! That's funny, and so true!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

i get messages saying such things as my verifications say it all

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I think some have/can get a slightly more inflated ego because of what they perceive to be popularity online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't understand why anyone would have the front to big themselves up in such a way.

That's just asking to be shot down in flames and there's always someone who'd delight in doing it!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"I think some have/can get a slightly more inflated ego because of what they perceive to be popularity online."

I couldn't agree more.

Of course in my case I AM actually an awesome demi-god of swing and all round time-travelling action hero, but there are a lot on here who really do have monstrous egos and live in some kind of weird fantasy land

Funny old world!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just because the people they have met had a good time and thought they were good, doesnt mean to say i will though, same as not everyone i have met thought i was that good.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I do think some take it too seriously and others actually live by other personnas.

I had a bloke tell me how great he was only yesterday and when I asked him what made him think he was so great at sex he said cos people from here have said he was .......

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe

Don't see the point in hyping yourself up, everyone's different in what they enjoy

and anyway I put it on my profile that I might not make you see starts and fireworks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it quite off putting when men mail me saying things like, check my veri's, like i'm supposed to jump at meeting them because their last meet thought they was great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of women are like that as well as cpls a lot don't even reply think they are too good everyone's mostly just after sex so at least a reply saying not my type wed be cool and if you get too many msgs to reply to them all set filters

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"A lot of women are like that as well as cpls a lot don't even reply think they are too good everyone's mostly just after sex so at least a reply saying not my type wed be cool and if you get too many msgs to reply to them all set filters "

I'm not sure that you really appreciate - even WITH filters set - how many messages single girls get per day! For me, I don't think I'm better than anyone else, or full of myself - if I don't reply its coz the guy isn't for me, for one reason or another, and I simply don't have time to reply to all - I prefer to concentrate on the ones that DO spark my interest!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

You're all missing the point here!

I'M FECKING AWESOME!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well fuck it, if you are then so am I.

We're all awesome

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By *eryBigGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"You're all missing the point here!

I'M FECKING AWESOME!!!

No-ones taking the bait lol but ok if you think your awesome then awesome you can be

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Well fuck it, if you are then so am I.

We're all awesome

Mmmm, okay... but I was awesome first!!!

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We find it quite difficult writing veris as we like to be polite but not graphic. For us veris are a good way of seeing when someone last played. If there veri is a long time ago then perhaps they are no longer playing. This is not an exact science but we find it a good barometer.

Dave

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