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By *andd_bicouple OP Couple
over a year ago

wilmslow

Guys and ladies and all have u been felt rushed on this site when u cant meet people at a certain time

Mrs here just so busy till after new year but feeling rushed into things when am swampped with everyting eles?

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

A lot of people want to meet almost immediately which is great if you can but we just can't and need time to get childcare etc. We quite often come across people who get inpatient with this and when we do that's the point we end talking to them. Everyone's situation is different and some need to consider that before they start getting frustrated

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

I find that when iam free no one else is free but like at this time of year I'm constantly busy with work and getting ready for Xmas, but this year coz a family member has taken very ill I'm having to help where I can with helping my family get ready for Xmas too, I just find it so frustrating n I get accused of not wanting to meet n then get blocked

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Yes, a lot of men message me asking to meet straight away and if I can’t they get annoyed.

Normally when I’m on here it means I’m free and available to meet straight away but not always.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No I've never felt rushed or pressurised into meeting.

I make it very clear on my profile that I don't meet quickly so anyone trying to bypass that preference will be disappointed.

It has happened though.

A couple wanted me to meet them at a club which was an 8-10 hour round trip.

It was also a Sunday night and the club had an invitation only policy so there was zero chance of me getting in even if I was stupid enough to go all the way there.

They got really annoyed when I said no and I was told I was a timewaster which was hilarious as they had contacted me.

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By *xstevenxxMan
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Real life always come first

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

People try to push or rush you to fit their agenda not yours.

The feeling of being rushed or pressurised is on you though and only happens if you allow it.

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By *odg123Man
over a year ago

southampton

It would be nice to get an offer

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Guys and ladies and all have u been felt rushed on this site when u cant meet people at a certain time

Mrs here just so busy till after new year but feeling rushed into things when am swampped with everyting eles?"

You are giving slightly mixed messages though because you're also asking in the forum if anyone wants to share your wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go with the flow happy to chat a little if all goes well the fun is a lot better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm free nobody else is

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By *andd_bicouple OP Couple
over a year ago

wilmslow

"Guys and ladies and all have u been felt rushed on this site when u cant meet people at a certain time

Mrs here just so busy till after new year but feeling rushed into things when am swampped with everyting eles?

You are giving slightly mixed messages though because you're also asking in the forum if anyone wants to share your wife. "

Any one can post things we are asking in new year as well please be kind as we r to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! Lots of moaning about how much i work and am always too busy to meet or wont meet and play on the same occasion. Its very annoying and puts me off ppl. I do my best to make time for ppl but sometimes its not good enough. Meh.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Guys and ladies and all have u been felt rushed on this site when u cant meet people at a certain time

Mrs here just so busy till after new year but feeling rushed into things when am swampped with everyting eles?

You are giving slightly mixed messages though because you're also asking in the forum if anyone wants to share your wife.

Any one can post things we are asking in new year as well please be kind as we r to "

I'm not being unkind. I was trying to help you understand why people might think you can meet sooner.

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By *andd_bicouple OP Couple
over a year ago

wilmslow

"Guys and ladies and all have u been felt rushed on this site when u cant meet people at a certain time

Mrs here just so busy till after new year but feeling rushed into things when am swampped with everyting eles?

You are giving slightly mixed messages though because you're also asking in the forum if anyone wants to share your wife.

Any one can post things we are asking in new year as well please be kind as we r to

I'm not being unkind. I was trying to help you understand why people might think you can meet sooner.

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no worries we have rephased it

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I've always found the majority of my meets have been spontaneous received messages from couples messaged for a little bit and have gone to theirs.. then I get messages asking if I'm free weeks away on a certain date never happens and profile tends to be unreliable

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