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By *eandmrsjones69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

I think there's an advert about getting your monies worth...

We were at a club and a guy wanted to have sex with Mrs. She was face down on a bench; all good so far. For a split second I was distracted as other guys started to show an interest and entering the room.

In a flash he was there and was about to have sex. I had a look and the condom looked 'used' and then thinking about it I didn't see him open a packet, he must have put it on in half a second etc and so we declined the opportunity. Was that an over reaction on my part?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he was walking about with it already on to save time..

I'd have told him to get another one. He might have pulled it off the wall..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No it was an overreaction

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

you did the right thing, a used condom only protects the guy.

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By *xkritTV/TS
over a year ago

High Wycombe (ish)

Overreaction or not.... You did the right thing........

... It your boundaries when someone is having sex with you. You do you and if they don't like it, jog on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there's an advert about getting your monies worth...

We were at a club and a guy wanted to have sex with Mrs. She was face down on a bench; all good so far. For a split second I was distracted as other guys started to show an interest and entering the room.

In a flash he was there and was about to have sex. I had a look and the condom looked 'used' and then thinking about it I didn't see him open a packet, he must have put it on in half a second etc and so we declined the opportunity. Was that an over reaction on my part?"

How did it look used??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"No it was an overreaction"

That should say it *wasn't*

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By *ood Time RMan
over a year ago

London / Hertfordshire


"No it was an overreaction

That should say it *wasn't* "

Thought you was being sarcastic lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"No it was an overreaction

That should say it *wasn't*

Thought you was being sarcastic lol"

No lol. I'm just rubbish at proof reading

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By *eandmrsjones69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Middle England


"How did it look used?? "

The lighting wasn't brilliant but it appeared like there was excessive fluid in it. I did try to ask him but he acted as if he didn't understand.

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell


"Overreaction or not.... You did the right thing........

... It your boundaries when someone is having sex with you. You do you and if they don't like it, jog on"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have reacted the same. Good call!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Overreaction or not.... You did the right thing........

... It your boundaries when someone is having sex with you. You do you and if they don't like it, jog on"

^ this. Better to be safe than sorry

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

Good job you noticed.

I don't think you over-reacted at all. I would have been completely put off, even if he had put on a new on in front of me.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

This is so grim.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Jesus. I know we are all feeling the pinch financially but c'mon... That's gross. Different woman, different condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did it look used??

The lighting wasn't brilliant but it appeared like there was excessive fluid in it. I did try to ask him but he acted as if he didn't understand. "

Could he speak English?

His reaction would put me right off doing anything with him at all. Playing dumb is not an excuse, neither is actually being dumb.

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