FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on lube in clubs

By *restonCouple555 OP Couple
over a year ago

preston

Hi fabbers, this is our first post here and it's quite specific!

L doesn't produce a lot of natural lubrication, so we are partial to the use of intimate lubricants. If it matters our favourite is the Durex strawberry flavour (except for anal where we favour the Pjur stuff).

Our question is, what's the etiquette for having and using these in a club setting? Is it's something that's generally encouraged, tolerated, or not allowed? If you use lube in clubs, how do you deal with it?

Of course we would be careful to avoid making a mess, and we would clean up after ourselves in any event, but we'd rather avoid turning up with our bottle of slip n' slide if it's not welcome.

Thanks!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I guess it depends on the club but I have never known it to be an issue if you don’t make a mess.

My main observation is don’t confuse your lube with the hand gel that is often left out. Doesn’t end well

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By *eordieJeansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

One of the clubs we go to has little packets of lube and condoms in the rooms and another sells lube behind the bar so I don’t think it’s a problem. They usually have cleaning products and blue roll in the rooms so I think you’ll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take it and use it if all the clubs I've been too there not bothered what you do

The only thing they do moan about is stilletoes on the beds ...lol

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Have a small bag with condoms and lube. You’ll not be the only ones - there are plenty of people around who are menopausal, breastfeeding, having a gangbang, getting fisted, etc and need a bit of extra lube, and they can make condoms better. Take a small bottle, though, just in case you forget it.

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By *randMrs9Couple
over a year ago

fareham

We have purchased a small bag (size of a purse) that contains condoms, as mrs9 is allergic to latex. You can also fit lube in there if necessary! Have seen lots of people doing this! Enjoy !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have used lube at clubs no problems

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Take whatever you’re comfortable with.

We use Liquid Silk and decant into a smaller bottle that fits in my playbag, along with condoms and other stuff.

If you do decide to use a lot of your chosen lube, just clear up after you with what’s provided.

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By *randMrsJones69Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We always take lube to clubs with us x

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By *hosetwo200Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We've had zero problems taking and using lube in a club, oh and We also have 'The Bag' which is handy for a small stash of lube/condoms/locker keys

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

As me tiined. Some clubs have lube on some tables etc.

I take my own never thought that clubs would even not allow ot

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"As me tiined. Some clubs have lube on some tables etc.

I take my own never thought that clubs would even not allow ot "

Fat fingers .. as its been said

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Why would clubs not allow lube? It is probably as standard as condoms nowadays. I would, however, avoid ones that are in glass bottles. Lube and glass very much don't mix.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I have a naughty box that I used to take to clubs with me. It’s got everything in I need. I used to get a few quizzical looks when I put it on the bar when ordering drinks. Some people have asked to look inside.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yeah Mrs carries a little 'sex club' kit during our club meets, for keys, condoms and normally a little buzzy toy or two that may come in handy

Like people say, the clubs do generally provide some provisions, but we prefer to take our own stuff and think everyone should, especially if they have specific needs (allergies etc).

No club will have an issue so long as you treat their stuff with respect and clean/dispose of it properly.

Just talk to the other people you are going to play with, they should be fine with it. If they aren't, you probably don't wanna play with them anyway

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