FabSwingers.com forum: why o why

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do some of you ladies have a problem getting naked in front of us men ? . It doesn't matter what shape or size you are. We are all what we are , so what's the problem ? .

Lets get to the bottom of this . My bodys not perfect but I have no hang Ups regarding it

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have no problem getting naked in front of the men of my choice. I did it last night in fact - lights on and everything!

Perhaps they just aren't that into you?

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By *hrobbinlogonMan
over a year ago

Diss

Ouch !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have no problem getting naked in front of the men of my choice. I did it last night in fact - lights on and everything!

Perhaps they just aren't that into you?"

Lol or you are just very confident

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

Aw Oliver that's a lovely thing to say. Just some of us aren't that confident, I only do fully naked with Daisy but always keep something on even if its just my sussies with other guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will if I'm lost in lust and passion BUT I do have a horrid C Section scar I try to hide lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Agree with the Bitch, will be getting naked in front of a very fit younger man later, we barely managed to keep our hands off each other earlier.

I have bits that droop, sag and wobble...he doesn't...no shrinking violet here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I will if I'm lost in lust and passion BUT I do have a horrid C Section scar I try to hide lol

Yeah that might be the case but surely that scar gave you great joy and its part of you and you can do nothing about it , so why hide it ?

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Taken from the lyrics of that all informing song...Sunscreen.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth, oh nevermind, you will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded.

But trust me, in 20 years you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked...

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I have no problem getting naked in front of the men of my choice. I did it last night in fact - lights on and everything!

Perhaps they just aren't that into you?

Lol or you are just very confident

Only when im confident about the man - which is recent. Prior to Christmas no problem, but i have a recent surgery scar and other issues at the mo but have been completely naked with two lovely men recently and no problems.

As with many things in swinging communication is key.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Agree with the Bitch, will be getting naked in front of a very fit younger man later, we barely managed to keep our hands off each other earlier.

I have bits that droop, sag and wobble...he doesn't...no shrinking violet here!

Another confident lady

but are you 100% ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will if I'm lost in lust and passion BUT I do have a horrid C Section scar I try to hide lol

Yeah that might be the case but surely that scar gave you great joy and its part of you and you can do nothing about it , so why hide it ? "

I said try

the knickers come off eventually

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lets be honest we could all type " yep I have no problem stripping off " that's easy but when you are doing it you must have something going round in your head unless you are very very confident and I don't believe that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Taken from the lyrics of that all informing song...Sunscreen.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth, oh nevermind, you will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded.

But trust me, in 20 years you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Agree with the Bitch, will be getting naked in front of a very fit younger man later, we barely managed to keep our hands off each other earlier.

I have bits that droop, sag and wobble...he doesn't...no shrinking violet here!

Another confident lady

but are you 100% ?

I don't get naked in front of people I don't like or who make me feel uncomfortable. I'm confident from the eyebrows down...I'm losing my hair and that affects me, but I have a damned good hairdresser!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Lets be honest we could all type " yep I have no problem stripping off " that's easy but when you are doing it you must have something going round in your head unless you are very very confident and I don't believe that

I have no problem being naked in front of others regardless of if I want to play with them or not. At chams I often walk around naked and can often be found in the Jacuzzi enjoying a jet or two.

Even in the changing rooms I am comfortablegetting naked . I have stretchmarks from weight gain and am on the large side of huge but no one bats an eyelid really.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I have no problem getting naked in front of men especially since Mr N started taking naked and semi clothed photos of me, I realised that I look similar to a lot of other women, better than some not as good as many but ok.... so far no one has recoiled in horror

But we see so much in the media now criticising womens bodies, too thin that it takes a strong mind to overcome the drip, drip of brain washing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wife is ok naked on the beach and clubs no probs in shower rooms jacuzzies, loves being watched too, she was shy but after reading/hearing comments from other guys she is now confident knowing guys find her attractive, she has no marks on her skin after 4kids but bits are goin south now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i understand ladys being shy but trust us guys pls we think u all look sexy naked and love seeing u so pls more ladys kit off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i understand ladys being shy but trust us guys pls we think u all look sexy naked and love seeing u so pls more ladys kit off"

I agree

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If you quoted a nasty post yours will have been removed too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you quoted a nasty post yours will have been removed too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its tough sometimes in this world where you are bombarded with airbrushed photoshopped pictures of supermodels...FAB is great for seeing pics of real people in all our variations and celebrating the body beautiful in all its different forms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its tough sometimes in this world where you are bombarded with airbrushed photoshopped pictures of supermodels...FAB is great for seeing pics of real people in all our variations and celebrating the body beautiful in all its different forms

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yes totally agree with that , no need to be shy enjoy being naked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes totally agree with that , no need to be shy enjoy being naked"

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By *ickiemintMan
over a year ago

Somewhere NW London

"i understand ladys being shy but trust us guys pls we think u all look sexy naked and love seeing u so pls more ladys kit off"

Rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i understand ladys being shy but trust us guys pls we think u all look sexy naked and love seeing u so pls more ladys kit off

I agree

I don't !

There are some people, men and women, who look better with clothes on rather than off.

There are also those who wear outfits that do nothing to flatter their build or body, again of both sexes.

My body could be better, much better and I do feel self conscious wandering round in nothing but a towel.

So I can understand totally why some women may not be comfortable getting undressed in front of a play mate.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Even though I am quite petite, I also have some issues 'now' being totally naked, my regular friend I'm not, but thinking about new meets, I suppose I am, my problem area is my stomach and I don't even have kids to blame it on, but then us women are hardly ever pleased with themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident with my body, having been a very slim lady pre child I much prefer my curvier figure now, in fact I love it now

and I would say that joining fab and having people compliment me has given me an enormous boost, so undressing in front of anyone is never a problem now, I may have the odd lump or bump but I have a wonderful son to show for it

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Bugger. Colour me a show-off then. Cue me walking from the Jacuzzi to the bar, naked, dripping wet because somebody had nicked me towel.

Gotta love those Chams jokers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do some of you ladies have a problem getting naked in front of us men ? . It doesn't matter what shape or size you are. We are all what we are , so what's the problem ? .

Lets get to the bottom of this . My bodys not perfect but I have no hang Ups regarding it"

it must be only women u have met!!

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

When we go to a club you generally have to dress down to underwear at some stage.

If I strip to lingerie I can't pick and choose who looks at me, so I have to accept if I do that I will be looked at at either enjoy it or don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problems at all being naked in front of anyone ( apart from family of course) but see trying to get me to dress sexy and I go to pieces.

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

My underwear is see through but it does make me feel as though I have some protection, if that makes sense ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My underwear is see through but it does make me feel as though I have some protection, if that makes sense ? "

It does

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By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

"I will if I'm lost in lust and passion BUT I do have a horrid C Section scar I try to hide lol

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. Be proud of that

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

as i got older lost my confidence and only go naked with hubby

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

Timing and mood often has something to do with it. If it isn't quite right women are not usually as keen to get nakes as the average bloke.

For example, if you are supposed to be giving the lady a job interview....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will if I'm lost in lust and passion BUT I do have a horrid C Section scar I try to hide lol

. Be proud of that

I am proud of it and my Beautiful Daughters I have x x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Timing and mood often has something to do with it. If it isn't quite right women are not usually as keen to get nakes as the average bloke.

For example, if you are supposed to be giving the lady a job interview...."

Lol yes it can get a tad awkward in an interview situation

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