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By *aughtycouple1008 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west london

Talking to a single lady who just joined today, was asked for face pics and we said can we see yours too please. We were blocked immediately. We reckon it was a dodgy profile. Opinions please

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

She may have wanted yours 1st, some do ask for this in their profiles, if you approached her then she probably did just want face pics.

Someone has to send them 1st, doesn't mean they are fake.

Mrs

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By *aughtycouple1008 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west london


"She may have wanted yours 1st, some do ask for this in their profiles, if you approached her then she probably did just want face pics.

Someone has to send them 1st, doesn't mean they are fake.

Mrs "
maybe we're being over cautious

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It may or may not be a Lady. It's best to think nothing of it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did yous message 1st? I think it the 1st messagers job to send a face pic 1st, if I message a guy 1st i send mine

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By *aughtycouple1008 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west london

Yes we messaged first

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"She may have wanted yours 1st, some do ask for this in their profiles, if you approached her then she probably did just want face pics.

Someone has to send them 1st, doesn't mean they are fake.

Mrs maybe we're being over cautious "

Probably, if you've messaged 1st I'd expect you to send the 1st face pic.

The woman is being cautious too, but both being cautious means zero face pics and zero interaction.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yes we messaged first "

Then yes she would request the face pic to see if there's any attraction before continuing a conversation that there maybe no point in having.

Mrs

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Yes we messaged first "

Why are you hitting on brand new female profiles?

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Yes we messaged first

Why are you hitting on brand new female profiles?"

Fresh blood?

Back to the OP- I only send my face pic to people I am planning on meeting, after a bit of chatting to establish connection and intent. But I do have a well-verified profile so I wouldn't expect anyone doubting I am a woman.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If I was single I'd be extremely cautious. There are two of you and she would need to look out for her safety. She's also the one with the upper hand being a single woman willing to meet couples. That or she wasn't who she claimed.

Either way she didn't want to send you a face picture

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I got involved in lots of discussions, including pics requests. The attrition rates, from 1st contact, to having all shares pics and likely each other is high, as is going on to meeting.

I expect this as a realistic expectation and don't think any deeper than that, as people bring their own preferences, tastes and issues along.

Could be lots of things but it's easier to move on

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By *ennyleeeWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Probably a guy like most female profiles on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some prefer being sent first and some dont exchange at all. It doesn't mean they're fake.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

If you message us first, 100% you will not get our face pics first. If we message you, you'll have our face pics first. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would imagine she was a he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our rule is who ever messages first should send first..

If we sent first and the other person/couple didn't find us attractive then we wouldn't expect them to reply with face pics..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably as if asked I show my face pics straight away good way of proving your genuine.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"Yes we messaged first

Why are you hitting on brand new female profiles?"

Are they off limits for a certain amount of time? lol.

To be fair, OP should have sent face images first as they did contact first. But yeh, is there some etiquette around timeline of “new” members?

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