FabSwingers.com forum: Do you cuddle?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you cuddle after sex with someone you meet on here? Or are you strictly here for sex without the "aftercare"?

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes, with the one I had a second meeting (because of that)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

gotta love a cuddle

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By *urganguyMan
over a year ago

around

I'm big into pre and post sex cuddles.

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By *hatbiatchWoman
over a year ago

craigavon

"I'm big into pre and post sex cuddles.

I do love me a cuddle

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By *hatbiatchWoman
over a year ago

craigavon

"I'm big into pre and post sex cuddles.

I do love me a cuddle

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By *hatbiatchWoman
over a year ago

craigavon

"I'm big into pre and post sex cuddles.

I do love me a cuddle

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By *immo555Man
over a year ago

Kirkwall

Is it even a proper meet if it doesn't come with cuddles?!

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I always cuddle and kiss if I can

Sex without it is not appealing what so ever

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

Bicester

"Do you cuddle after sex with someone you meet on here? Or are you strictly here for sex without the "aftercare"? "

Only natural, isn’t it?

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By *acktofab90Man
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Are there really people out there who will just up and leave after having sex? Seems a little odd to me.

Granted, i know some people like to keep things a bit more ‘clinical’ but surely a cuddle after and some conversation isnt too much to ask for?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Do you cuddle after sex with someone you meet on here? Or are you strictly here for sex without the "aftercare"? "
as a rule no... but that's because normally I'm here for gangbang sex.. but those I know more intimately know I cuddle with the right person

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

It's very rare I cuddle after a good fucking.

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By *evergiveupMan
over a year ago

derbyshire

I love to kiss and cuddle after sex

For me it is all part of it and makes it intimate x

I've not met yet where it hasn't seemed natural to do so

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By *oodvibrations68Couple
over a year ago

Lake Constance

... we tend to... with good friends...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes I do. Not because I need aftercare as such but more because I like that sensation of a gentle comedown from the intensity and that postcoital softness after a good fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the affection is there between us then yes, if its just a one off thing no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. It's really important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Nah I’ve phoned their taxi home before they arrive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. I can't get aroused without cuddles.

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By *ack201895Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I need cuddles to live

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

What's all this aftercare nonsense? Sounds like therapy

I like a cuddle but could happily go without.

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Hugs and cuddles are important. It's very clinical and cold without them.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Depends if we both want to, it's weird if only one of you wants to cuddle

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By *hriscooperMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I really like to cuddle and I've not met anyone that didn't enjoy it.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Do you cuddle after sex with someone you meet on here? Or are you strictly here for sex without the "aftercare"? "

I enjoy the intimacy of playing with other people and prefer lots of sensual touching, before during and after sex.

One of my favourite parts is lying cuddling with a woman after we have fucked. Relaxed, satisfied, happy, enjoying the soft well fucked feel of a woman’s body beside me. Chatting away about what we’ve just shared.

That’s the best feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a cuddle anytime so after sex, definitely- it’s rude to just fuck and walk away!!!!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm big into pre and post sex cuddles.

I do love me a cuddle

I get the impression you like a cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a cuddle is personal if it was a regular friend I would

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Not really

Like I love cuddles & stuff but that’s lovey dovey relationship stuff. They can cuddle my cock with their lips if they want hahahaha

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By *heRubberDuckMan
over a year ago

Tayto Castle

Yup! Love a cuddle

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

Lovely to enjoy a cuddle before and after….

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By *hatbiatchWoman
over a year ago

craigavon

"I'm big into pre and post sex cuddles.

I do love me a cuddle

I get the impression you like a cuddle.

lol do you? May be right

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Only with people we meet regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep there’s not many don’t love cuddles,it’s a nice gesture as much as anything….a kind of thank you that was great.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

100% Cuddlers with the right people and vibe.

But not everyone wants to receive a cuddle and not every situation has that vibe.

But with the right people and vibe we love a naked natural cuddle puddle.

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By *uncouple271Couple
over a year ago

Chester

Never tried it on any of our meets but I guess thinking of it now it wouldn’t be for us. Once the cum has flown and the orgasms have finished that’s the end to our experience with the third. A cuddle before he goes is cool to say bye and a slap on the back from me but that’s about it. Lol

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"Yes I do. Not because I need aftercare as such but more because I like that sensation of a gentle comedown from the intensity and that postcoital softness after a good fuck."

Totally this. But not always, it depends on the situation. Does not work in club or party situations with group sex. But usually yes, in one to one or couples scenarios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. If I have sex with someone, it's an "access all areas" pass. I hate it if I lick a woman's pussy and then they don't want to kiss me. It happened once and I wish I hadn't got with them in the first place.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Not really the cuddles are for the Mr i would feel odd cuddling with a one time meet, it's not for me.

Mrs

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

Doesn't everybody cuddle?

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

Yep. Love it.

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By *andy CanesWoman
over a year ago

candy cane lane

Sex without after care

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

If it was just sex then no, but if it was kink play and they had stressed they needed that as part of their aftercare then of course we would provide cuddles

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

We both love a hug and a chat with people we meet x

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Do you cuddle after sex with someone you meet on here? Or are you strictly here for sex without the "aftercare"? "

Depends on the person but yes I like a cuddle afterwards x

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By *alentedfMan
over a year ago

Near Newbury

Cuddles are a must in my book.

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By *heTattooedDomMan
over a year ago

Winnersh

Always make sure that there is time for aftercare.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Yes, I like to cuddle ‘afterwards’

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

All night . Cuddling ,groping and spooning. Even now

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Cuddles are for people you are in a relationship with, not a fab meet which is about sex.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

For me it's about the whole experience of enjoying each other's bodies and losing ourselves in them - kissing, caressing, fondling, sex, cuddling, playing... all of it.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

... it's not simply a 'fab meet' - it's being with another person, regardless that we happen to have met through fab.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've said this before. Almost without exception the men we've met shy away from cuddling or hugging. They look embarrassed and awkward and avoid it.

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By *offee27Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Sometimes yes if the moods right.

Good icebreaker I find is to strip right off and make out before starting off the fun

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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

Depends.... My last meet was on the hottest day of the year. And we were all dripping wet and breathlessness after a couple of hours of full on bi 3way action.... So no we didn't cuddle afterwards. But yes, normally It is a big part of any play for me.

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By *onny boy cMan
over a year ago

chorlton

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cuddles are for people you are in a relationship with, not a fab meet which is about sex.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Cuddles are for people you are in a relationship with, not a fab meet which is about sex.

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this for me too

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Cuddles are for people you are in a relationship with, not a fab meet which is about sex.

this for me too "

That's a shame, because we would love to cuddle you

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By *erfHerder74Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

Absolutely

For me you have to have that intimacy before you get sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way jose.. Aftercare. Wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goes into bar cuddles the fab meet ewww..

Thanks for the worst sex ever.. After care.

Cuddles are to say you care. Fuck that it is a fuck site not marry us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you cuddle after sex with someone you meet on here? Or are you strictly here for sex without the "aftercare"? "

I kiss, cuddle and chat before during and after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the partner, mood and scenario!

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire

I normally do….. for several reasons

1. I like it

2. Most women I’ve met like it and

3. I feel it’s rude to just finish the job and go without any interaction afterwards. Unless of course that’s what they want.

But, I’m not a lover of doing it

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Haven't met off here for years. But yes do like a cuddle.

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By *r_reusMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Despite my initially thorny demeanour I am a 5 star cuddler.

Kinda like a cactus in the desert, it's apparent prickliness may drive you away, but get closer and you'll find it's cool and juicy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it sounds silly, but I find it quite intimate and quite a turn on to have a cuddle

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By *r_reusMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Indeed, I like to kiss, caress and relax a woman, make her feel warm, soft and special

Then I'm gonna slip her my full, throbbing length and fuck her till she trembles.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I cuddle my pillow, does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, love a cuddle. Nothing better holding someone afterwards x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Bring it in everyone.

Group cuddle

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By *aughty but nice...Man
51 weeks ago

Staffs

Bump

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By *lossomTreeWoman
51 weeks ago

Ipswich

Cuddling is a but too intimate for me- that said if it was initiated by the other person I would respond.

I don't get up and go though, what I do like is lying there together with a hand, leg etc touching and waiting until we are capable of speech again!

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By *entleman JayMan
51 weeks ago

Wakefield

I love a cuddle and a spoon.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
51 weeks ago

Chatham

If the sex is good. We cuddle. Lol

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By *ophie199Couple
51 weeks ago

Leeds

"Are there really people out there who will just up and leave after having sex? Seems a little odd to me.

Granted, i know some people like to keep things a bit more ‘clinical’ but surely a cuddle after and some conversation isnt too much to ask for?"

Depends on the type of meet and the guy. I don’t want a cuddle from a guy that’s fucked me whilst tied to the bed… but a hot guy that I’ve just made love to, cuddle me all night!!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I'll meet just for the cuddle.

I had to split up with my last gf cos I found out she wouldn't cuddle at night. She mocked me for it too... said no one cuddled at night

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I love cuddles and kissing especially after a good play session

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I would think that you do what feels right until it feels wrong. Would hope that cuddles are given because they are wanted and maybe needed - and a lady that wants to cuddle feels relaxed and connected enough to cuddle if she wants. But if she doesn’t she doesn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I'd join a fab cuddlers.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Love a cuddle can’t beat it

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I want it added to interests!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Its not that i don't cuddle, it just doesn't occur to me and so i have to be reminded

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By *nusualpairCouple
51 weeks ago

Preston

Love cuddles, but only if everyone's happy to cuddle!

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Oh absolutely. Full on aftercare...

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
51 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes, before during and after. If someone isn't cuddly it's not happening.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
51 weeks ago

North West

No. Never. Awful ha

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By *quirrel!Man
51 weeks ago

Nearby

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

The affection that I show after having sex. Through gentle touching and stroking, holding her face and looking into her eyes, kissing her gently and then holding her close to me.. Xxxxx

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By *ostindreamsMan
51 weeks ago

London

I love cuddling even without sex

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By *wannafreakyouMan
51 weeks ago

london

Depends on the person and the type of sex we’ve had

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Central

Usually

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By *o scandalousWoman
51 weeks ago

Glasgow

I like cuddles.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
51 weeks ago

Stockport

Absolutely we do

Were not animals !

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

There is no set answer for this as it depends who it is, where it is, and the situation/scenario.

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By *d4funtimesMan
51 weeks ago

Cambridge

"I like cuddles."

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Definitely cuddle - if the other person is ok with it

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By *ave0070Man
51 weeks ago

Sleaford

I love to cuddle

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By *entakuruMan
51 weeks ago

Exeter

I'm generally open to it, but it depends on the dynamic, like if we've agreed beforehand it's a quick 'fuck and go', then no, but if it's a FWB type scenario or I hope to see the person again for another round in the future, then absolutely.

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By *drian52Man
51 weeks ago

Derby

Definitely need to have a cuddle. I am not have a fuck and go situation.....

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By *hat girl next doorWoman
51 weeks ago

Glasgow

Depends on the sex

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By *overs4loversCouple
51 weeks ago

Shropshire

No thanks! You wanna hug go get a teddy bear

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By *heonixrising500Man
51 weeks ago

Barnsley

Prefer it if all went well

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
51 weeks ago

London

I'm not much of a cuddler. I'll accept head tickles though.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I don't want cuddles after meets. I'm very intimate during play but soon as sex has finished its either more sex quickly after or I want them to leave as quickly as possible.

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By *lowhands7Man
51 weeks ago

South Leicestershire

Depends on the context of the meet really but I do enjoy a cuddle

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By *urge72Man
51 weeks ago

oxfordshire & Hull

I'm a cuddler for sure - as long as the other person is open to it. It's not a massive deal if they dont want to, but great when they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Can beat a cuddle with a nice sensual kiss..any takers in Leeds area

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By *ucklingMan
51 weeks ago

Sleaford

Oh yes! I love to cuddle and snuggle, it gives me a lovely warm feeling inside.

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
51 weeks ago

Derby

I’ve usually been tied up, blindfolded and spanked, so no…I’ll save my cuddles for Master later

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By *ovingittwoCouple
51 weeks ago

Norwich

Absolutely love a cuddles xx

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By *emma200Woman
51 weeks ago

Warwickshire

Love cuddles… but not with one off meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Depends on the guy, sometimes cuddle sometimes lay and chat sometimes clothes on and off i pop

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By *evergiveupMan
51 weeks ago

derbyshire

If the meeting goes well - and by finding the right people it should do the post sex cuddle and caressing is such a lovely part of everything

If you only want a " quick shag" then I guess it isn't important but I like it

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By *hunky GentMan
51 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Had a few women that don’t like to an for me after I love a cuddle but I get it .

As it it not always that kind of party an good to keep it business as usual well that’s what I’ve found but personally I like a good old spoon or cuddle but each to there own. Aye x

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