FabSwingers.com forum: Grafting

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been messaging women and a few couples trying to organise meets, socials etc, but finding it so hard to get through, I.e messages don't seem to be getting read. I know women get inundated with messages. Planning on club meets in the future.

Any help?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

How many people are you messaging OP?

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"How many people are you messaging OP?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not loads and loads as I have to have the initial attraction and if their profile sounds like someone I'm looking to meet

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Clubs help, but in the meantime, I'd suggest working on your profile.

Your blurb isn't terrible, but it doesn't really show off your personality. There's no sense of the YOU there. My blurb shows that, which does give an idea of the sort of person they may be meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK thanks

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You've only been here a very short time, so I'm unsure what your expectations were. It really helps if they are realistic, if you're to continue and remain content here.

Most people view and assess the profile of anyone that sends a message, before they read it. They may not read it, if they don't see a match. New men should put enormous effort into their profile.

Otherwise, get out to socials or clubs and meet others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not loads and loads as I have to have the initial attraction and if their profile sounds like someone I'm looking to meet"

Do you check that they are looking for a man your age?

Loads of men just message any woman they fancy and don't ever check what she is looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I always read the profile, as I know it's a big thing on here

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Yeah I always read the profile, as I know it's a big thing on here"

Oh.

You do know how relevant profile contents are then

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Your status puts me off. Your blurb tells me nothing about you

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