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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Why do ppl exchange messages and pictures then add as friends agree to meet then nothing happens?

Had a few on here that have done that.

Seemed really interested agree to meets and they dont reply to messages.

Seems really odd.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Too many reasons to list. All I can say is that if a meet is_actually_ going to happen then it tends to happen quickly in my experience. The longer a conversation goes on then the less likely they are to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess sometimes life gets in the way, or something made them change their minds, maybe they were more looking rather than wanting to meet. Just a few possible reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many reasons to list. All I can say is that if a meet is_actually_ going to happen then it tends to happen quickly in my experience. The longer a conversation goes on then the less likely they are to meet."

Agree.

Hence why when chat starts I try and cut to the chase with a no stress public social meet to see each other but 9 times out of ten that's where it ends. Most are window shoppers..

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By *renchy19Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

Mainly they are pic collectors or it’s an ego trip. It’s not just single guy profiles either you get it with couples and women too. Eventually you will be able to spot them by the way they message or they have been on for a year and have no verifications or just webcams. Frustrating but you will eventually find some great ppl on here and have some mind blowing fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately a lot of pervs on here all talk and no balls ruins it for genuine single males and it’s annoying and frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mainly they are pic collectors or it’s an ego trip. It’s not just single guy profiles either you get it with couples and women too. Eventually you will be able to spot them by the way they message or they have been on for a year and have no verifications or just webcams. Frustrating but you will eventually find some great ppl on here and have some mind blowing fun"

Good advice but not everyone does the verification thing (privacy or just not bothered) so it’s not a reliable indication. Apply a bit of common sense and use one’s instincts I suggest..

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Wank material, no intention of meeting, could be a number of reasons.

I only have people I’ve actually met as friends.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It's why we only go to clubs now.

We've been guilty of it as well.

With our previous business we were constantly having to change plans and muck people about, lost fab friends over it.

So we stopped meeting and only go to clubs now xxx

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By *llstar999Man
over a year ago

manchester

Seems a lot of guys just use it as wank material and I have seen a lot of couples getting pissed off with it and blocking all single guys. It spoils it for us single guys who do actually want to meet and who do turn up.

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Because as stated, they are pic collectors. You have more friends only photos/videos than public ones. Plus, just getting off at the thoughts and wamking to photos lol

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Took us ages to actually meet a couple we’d chatted to for about a year.

Sometimes people lose interest, other times life gets in the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen single guys display the same behaviour.

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

I only use fab for fun in the forums and to chat with friends, only ever meet at clubs, no plans just see what unfolds x

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Its sad but really need to accept people are not what they seem or youll be disappointed a lot!

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By *i_guy37Man
over a year ago

Oxford

I think some people like the idea of swinging/group sex but when it comes to going from sexual fantasy to the reality of actually going to meet strangers, they just get cold feet and pull out. It's a shame because if you can just get pass the nerves, you can have some mind-blowing experiences.

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