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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes or no we think it could work with the right people but there is a downside it can break up peoples relationships

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Poly can work wonderfully with good communication and patience and understanding.

Same as with monogamy really.

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over a year ago

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Poly works when people are honest and clear and suited to that kind of relationship structure and happen across compatible people.

Otherwise it's a shit show.

But then, that goes for all kinds of relationships

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over a year ago

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"yes or no we think it could work with the right people but there is a downside it can break up peoples relationships "

If you’re coming to it from a position of being an existing couple, then it can and will split relationships and hurt people along the way

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Do whatever floats your boat. But more people = more personalities and more feelings.

And do not be in the middle if one person falls out of love with just one of the others but not both.

Messy is a word

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"yes or no we think it could work with the right people but there is a downside it can break up peoples relationships

If you’re coming to it from a position of being an existing couple, then it can and will split relationships and hurt people along the way"

Genuine question: how would you get into a poly relationship if at least two of them were not already in a relationship? I know nothing about poly so apologies if the question is stupid.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Poly works when people are honest and clear and suited to that kind of relationship structure and happen across compatible people.

Otherwise it's a shit show.

But then, that goes for all kinds of relationships "

True

All relationships, swing, poly or vanilla are doomed without honesty, communication, compromise and compatibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would work best of everything

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few somewhat misguided and I'll informed opinions in this thread.

Not professing to being the Messiah, but a polyam relationship can be absolutely fantastic and really enhance your life. But you need the aptitude and skills to be successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poly works when people are honest and clear and suited to that kind of relationship structure and happen across compatible people.

Otherwise it's a shit show.

But then, that goes for all kinds of relationships "

Honestly, this.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"yes or no we think it could work with the right people but there is a downside it can break up peoples relationships

If you’re coming to it from a position of being an existing couple, then it can and will split relationships and hurt people along the way

Genuine question: how would you get into a poly relationship if at least two of them were not already in a relationship? I know nothing about poly so apologies if the question is stupid."

My relationships are poly even if at some point I only have one partner who is only dating me

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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

Polly relationships can be great, but the breakups can be hugely messy!

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"There's a few somewhat misguided and I'll informed opinions in this thread.

Not professing to being the Messiah, but a polyam relationship can be absolutely fantastic and really enhance your life. But you need the aptitude and skills to be successful."

How do you know unless you know where those opinions come from? Maybe they’re from personal experiences… which means they’re entirely valid. Might be just assumptions which aren’t really as valid but still, caution should be considered a valid opinion too no matter where it’s from.

Ours is from personal experience. Not sure everyone can look at poly as the same thing either. There’s too many ways to do it. Full three or more relationships, boyfriends and girlfriends on the side and many other formats.

Either way; there’s complexity to them all.

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By *hriscooperMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Love the idea of it ad I'd like to have the trust, understanding and attraction etc in 2 or more others to find out.

I think with all relationships, communication is key, and a willingness to listen to each other.

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Cant stop thinking about this would love to be in one or a full time bf to a wife in a couple and have a great relationship with the hubs friendship wise and mfm wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any relationship can break if its components are not strong enough

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