FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Forum Etiquette question

Jump to newest
 

By *eturn of curiouscple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guildford

When participating in a forum discussion & profile pic catches your eye, so you open thier page then return to the convo thread, but you really want to pass on a compliment to them about the profile photo.

Not meant in a "let's hook up ?" way, more in a '" BTW great photo" way.

Would this come across as creepy or annoying or simply a token of appreciation.

Please let me know because I'm wanting to do it in the acceptable way soon

X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’ve done it lots of times. It’s always nice to receive and give a compliment.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

My Own Little World

No not creepy it’s compliment to them go for it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exysoul888TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

Go on then, I give you permission to compliment me ..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a compliment was due then I'd give one but normally just a fab of their photo is enough, they know you've looked and if they want to check you put then they can

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often do it - but I would say don't expect a reply and everyone reacts differently

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's nice to be appreciated, but not so nice when your, 'Shucks, thanks, I try my best,' is replied to by 'So when can we fuck?'

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the normal world people would be most appreciative of a well meant compliment I’m sure!

However on here it’s deemed acceptable to read the compliment, take a look at the senders profile and instead of politely thanking them if you don’t like the look of them BLOCK them ‘in case’ they have the audacity to message

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done it a few times and it’s generally well received. Has even led to further conversations etc.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield


"When participating in a forum discussion & profile pic catches your eye, so you open thier page then return to the convo thread, but you really want to pass on a compliment to them about the profile photo.

Not meant in a "let's hook up ?" way, more in a '" BTW great photo" way.

Would this come across as creepy or annoying or simply a token of appreciation.

Please let me know because I'm wanting to do it in the acceptable way soon

X"

Person A: "Aww, thanks for taking the time to say so, I appreciate it."

Person B: "Just because I said something in the forum, doesn't mean I want creepy messages from every guy on here."

For every Person A, there'll be a Person B.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I occasionally compliment people, usually women.

If you're not sure just fab the picture

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Bearing on mind that in Fab some people get extraordinary volumes of messages, what would you expect the impact to be upon them? and their likely reaction to your action?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this all the time so I hope it's not creepy lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lackstar00Man
over a year ago

London

Ive done it many of time, its always be more compliment, less creepy and has always been well received.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

I guess giving a compliment or messaging is unrelated to the Forum. The compliment receiving profile does not know whether you saw the profile in a Forum or not, so it is likely to be treated as any other message in the inbox.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top