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By *nnamatt OP   Couple
over a year ago

Benidorm and Tiverton

Why do couples only have pics of the Fems? Not all but majority

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Why do couples only have pics of the Fems? Not all but majority"

You only have pics of the lady visible though.

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By *sianTravellerMan
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

As the couple maybe looking for men to play with the Mrs

If the Mr is involved in the play, then the pics should also be available

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Because they might only be looking for single males. That and it's their profile, can show what ever they wish. Like you not showing any pics of the male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couples only have pics of the Fems? Not all but majority"

It's something we say all the time but seen as your profile is the same as the ones you are moaning about then the same can be said for your profile

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have a mixture

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
over a year ago

carluke

It really depends on the couple and what they are looking for. The majority of our pics are showing the female half mainly because she does look better in rope and lingerie than the male half

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Wife keeps changing ours..x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's always better to have a mixture

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Loads of reasons which are all the choice of the profile holders.

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By *tickyPollCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

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By *tickyPollCouple
over a year ago

Dartford


"Because they might only be looking for single males. That and it's their profile, can show what ever they wish. Like you not showing any pics of the male"

Agree!!

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Why do couples only have pics of the Fems? Not all but majority"

Because he’s an ugly big bald fucker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couples only have pics of the Fems? Not all but majority"

Why do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is even enough . Your profile is 3 of Just the lady

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Why do people keep criticising the way others want to run THEIR profile?

If a couple only want to exchange messages with other couples who have pics of the male half, then choose the relevant profiles and ignore the rest! Simple!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Don't know. Well to be fair not everyone's dynamic is focused with the male taking part. So in some cases more understandable. But for the vast majority it's disappointing.

For us the having photos or not of the male can make a big difference in if we take an intrest in a profile or not.

We know people have different reasons but for us it kind of defaults to what are they hiding or aren't the males view as equally important to them? To be fair the veiw that's males are less important and just come default with the women seems an often recurring theme/vibe with many. It's a side to the scene we don't really like. We're not after couple just so we can get to the female. And likewise we don't want to be with a couple who's focus is about access to Mrs Misfit only. Mrs Misfit maybe bi but the guy is just as important as the woman (maybe more so). Personally we're into couples for an equal hot 4 way. Not just a girly show, or to just let the girls at it. Mrs Misfit wants men she's attracted to too. And the guys being right for Mrs too is massively important to me. I wouldn't want her to take one for team. I want us all to have a hot experience.

So yes if a profile has photos then photos of the guy is really important to us to. Likewise why we have a fair few of me on here too.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to keep it well balanced, most of our face pics are in our private gallery but we do try to make sure that our profile pic at least shows both members of the profile. We want to make sure that other members of the site know what they're getting (:

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Why do couples only have pics of the Fems? Not all but majority"

Why do you only have the lady in public photos? I assume that the profile has been set up by the man... or that pnly the lady meets.

Personally, we meet as a couple and want to meet other couples. We therefore have photos of us both, albeit out of date ones, and like to see photos of both on a profile.

Nita

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"Why do people keep criticising the way others want to run THEIR profile?

If a couple only want to exchange messages with other couples who have pics of the male half, then choose the relevant profiles and ignore the rest! Simple!"

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Who's criticizing in this post? OP is asking a question, and many are giving ideas about why many couples profiles only have pics of the female. Would be nice if the OP could contribute with their own particular reason to only have female photos.

You are right, anyone should do whatever they want with THEIR profile, but it's also valid too for others to be inquisitive and ask questions about what people like or dislike, or behaviour. Otherwise, there would not be any point for the forums, if no one can ask any questions any more.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Single woman here. I get a lot of messages from couples profiles asking me to join them. No pics of the guy at all. I would love to know if they ever have any 'success'.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"Single woman here. I get a lot of messages from couples profiles asking me to join them. No pics of the guy at all. I would love to know if they ever have any 'success'. "

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Many will probably be blaming Fab and complain that it is really difficult to get meets with women or other couples.

Not saying that we are representative, but Lena is usually the one deciding if "we" find the couple attractive or not. Having photos of both definitely makes a couple more "likeable" for us.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Im bi so I like to see both but given how much more attention women get on fab I can understand why couples do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, because Sazz is considerably more attractive than I am

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why do couples only have pics of the Fems? Not all but majority"

You do too?

It's my biggest peeve, I assume if they don't post pics of the man he's ugly.

I no longer respond to anyone I can't see the male half because getting pics is like pulling teeth, I don't know why people think the women doesn't want to see who she's expected to fuck.

It's not blind date.

Mrs

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Why do people keep criticising the way others want to run THEIR profile?

If a couple only want to exchange messages with other couples who have pics of the male half, then choose the relevant profiles and ignore the rest! Simple!

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Who's criticizing in this post? OP is asking a question, and many are giving ideas about why many couples profiles only have pics of the female. Would be nice if the OP could contribute with their own particular reason to only have female photos.

You are right, anyone should do whatever they want with THEIR profile, but it's also valid too for others to be inquisitive and ask questions about what people like or dislike, or behaviour. Otherwise, there would not be any point for the forums, if no one can ask any questions any more."

Except this topic was only raised recently and is regularly raised and often it devolves into criticism.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"Why do people keep criticising the way others want to run THEIR profile?

If a couple only want to exchange messages with other couples who have pics of the male half, then choose the relevant profiles and ignore the rest! Simple!

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Who's criticizing in this post? OP is asking a question, and many are giving ideas about why many couples profiles only have pics of the female. Would be nice if the OP could contribute with their own particular reason to only have female photos.

You are right, anyone should do whatever they want with THEIR profile, but it's also valid too for others to be inquisitive and ask questions about what people like or dislike, or behaviour. Otherwise, there would not be any point for the forums, if no one can ask any questions any more.

Except this topic was only raised recently and is regularly raised and often it devolves into criticism."

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That's true. This one is a recurrent topic and often people get all worked up about it, LOL.

In reality, it does not matter that much, at least not to us. Genuine couples who are willing to meet will share quickly non-nude photos of both, so attraction can be assessed early, after a couple of chat messages. We prefer to see photos of both parts with clothes on and faces anyway, so we do not care that much about nudes of the name and female to make up our minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people keep criticising the way others want to run THEIR profile?

If a couple only want to exchange messages with other couples who have pics of the male half, then choose the relevant profiles and ignore the rest! Simple!

_

Who's criticizing in this post? OP is asking a question, and many are giving ideas about why many couples profiles only have pics of the female. Would be nice if the OP could contribute with their own particular reason to only have female photos.

You are right, anyone should do whatever they want with THEIR profile, but it's also valid too for others to be inquisitive and ask questions about what people like or dislike, or behaviour. Otherwise, there would not be any point for the forums, if no one can ask any questions any more.

Except this topic was only raised recently and is regularly raised and often it devolves into criticism.

_

That's true. This one is a recurrent topic and often people get all worked up about it, LOL.

In reality, it does not matter that much, at least not to us. Genuine couples who are willing to meet will share quickly non-nude photos of both, so attraction can be assessed early, after a couple of chat messages. We prefer to see photos of both parts with clothes on and faces anyway, so we do not care that much about nudes of the name and female to make up our minds."

It can also be confidence issues for some. Initially that was the case for us. Mr didn't feel anyone would be interested in seeing him so didn't bother. It was only after he was complimented via a few private messages/pics that he changed his mind.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I use it as a good filter now

If we get a message on our couple profile and there's no pics of the male and they haven't attached one, it's a delete.

It makes me think he wouldn't be involved much and as I'm straight that wouldn't be for us.

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By *et and WillingCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Our face pics are in private x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couples only have pics of the Fems? Not all but majority

You do too?

It's my biggest peeve, I assume if they don't post pics of the man he's ugly.

I no longer respond to anyone I can't see the male half because getting pics is like pulling teeth, I don't know why people think the women doesn't want to see who she's expected to fuck.

It's not blind date.

Mrs "

Exactly I say this all the time that it's not blind date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile must be pants I never get any hits

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