FabSwingers.com forum: Single women

By *amie an Claire OP Couple
over a year ago

surrey

We feel more than ready to take our adventures to the next level and involve others. C would prefer another woman for our first encounter but...

After advertising ourselves and reaching out to local single gals, not had any luck!

Any hints or tips on finding that illustrious unicorn? J x

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Try a club

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By *amie an Claire OP Couple
over a year ago

surrey

Yep, done a few club nights but again a single woman who'll have a connection with us an us them is tough to find

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Persevere and chatting and getting to know people helps

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By *amie an Claire OP Couple
over a year ago

surrey

Hope to have another club night soon

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe write a bit about what you can offer any woman who joins you op, you haven't written very much about it on your profile.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

As the comment above has said, update your profile, What you can offer a single Female and what you're looking for in a Female, If you can't find anyone local, Expand your search and arrange a club meet

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By *amie an Claire OP Couple
over a year ago

surrey

Nice

will update profile soon

Ta x

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Obviously we don't know how you've approached single ladies. This is more general than specific to yourselves (although if it helps you to great). Mainly from a club environment POV single women can feel a bit like pray. Maybe that's too strong a term because obviously to want find someone and approaching people we fancy is part of the game. But I think some will know the vibe/experience I mean? Sometimes couples can come across a bit full on and focused on the potential end outcome rather than just taking it easy, enjoying the company and letting things flow/build naturally. Ironically sometimes a couples dedication to the end outcome is a defeating factor. I think things are much more enticing when things feel non-pressurised and naturally flowing. I suppose to some extent the same is online in how some approach.

Generally the single women we've got physical with in clubs have been women we did not set out play with. Just who we've bumped into and got chatting to with no intent. It's just flowed that way as we've got to like each other and chemistry has built. Which I suppose is natural because we're not specifically looking for single women at all. Just couples and singles (of any sex or gender) where the chemistry works.

I think a lot of single women can vibe when a couple is too focused on achieving that FF or FMF goal or when a couple is just chilled and taking things in their stride. I think a lot of single women are sensitive to feeling like someones goal or experiment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I avoid couples who use the term 'unicorn'. Just always feels like the meet will be solely centered around their fantasy, needs and won't take any notice of mine. Some single girls love the term I know, but just personally that isn't what I'm here for.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Dislike the term unicorn, i feeling its disrespectful. I'm a bisexual single female/lady.

Would rather start chatting to another single female profile with reference saying they have a couples profile.

Happy to meet couple for a social before ff play.

Ff play doesn't happen at a club often for me,it has and its been spontaneous fun.

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By *amie an Claire OP Couple
over a year ago

surrey

Thanks everyone. Taking on board all comments

we've been to clubs on several occasions and not played as we're happy with just going with the flow the eve , so we'll continue like that I guess.

Apologies for the 'unicorn', didn't realise some don't like it! Just a turn of phrase as single women / bi women are fewer in number in this community

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By *andd_bicoupleCouple
over a year ago

wilmslow

We are looking for the same like a needle in a haystack lol

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

I often play with couples at clubs or parties but tend to avoid 1-1 meets with couples I don’t know as the times I have done them it’s seemed more about their pleasure with little consideration to my satisfaction. In a club it flows more naturally and if my needs are not being met I can find a guy to play with or join in.

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

Better chance of peace in the Middle-East than finding this ao called unicorn.

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By *amie an Claire OP Couple
over a year ago

surrey

Profile updated. Let us know you opinions please lady's

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Profile updated. Let us know you opinions please lady's

It would tell a single woman hardly anything they want to know about what you hope to offer them. You are asking them to tell you why they would want to meet you.

You are also asking them to get in touch if they think they might get on with you, but your profile contains hardly any information about you for them to base their opinion on.

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