FabSwingers.com forum: So how did you find out about fabswingers?

By *ungle_king OP Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Hi,

This may make an interesting post or it will die on its arse but hey ho!

I’m always very intrigued by how any member here found the site? I always ask on meets and have had a wide variety of reasons why and also how! Be it Google, word of mouth etc.It would be great to hear how you all got here? how many have gone and come back or been here for the long haul

I was on AFF and someone suggested here and I have been here ever since, had some amazing meets and sadly some have left the scene and that mostly has also ended the communication so that’s always a sad part of the swing life.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I was saying to a friend at the club that I was gutted about not knowing about an awesome sounding event a couple of weeks earlier. She pointed out that most clubs post all their events on the forums here

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

we were swinging way before fab or indeed most sites were around when we started it was word of mouth dogging and when we brought our fist pc with a massive 6gb hardrive it was chat groups like xcite yahoo aol .... there where no clubs in the southwest nearest was west midlands ... loads of house parties mostly invited from dogging couples ..

fab is fairly new as in internet there were a few big sites before fab but alot jumpped to fab within weeks of it starting as alot of other sites started to charge moneys ..

it was easy for me n hubs both fully bi both very open minded with sex so swinging and dogging came easy for us being so open and honest with each other

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I didn't know sites like this even existed so 8 years ago I had posted a couple of ads on Craigslist with no joy and then found another site.

It wasn't very user friendly so I looked for an alternative and signed up here.

This is my 4th profile in 7 years and the longest I've had any profile. This one will be 5 years old in April.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ungle_king OP Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

That’s a good point, before the internet I bet swinging was much more difficult? Was it columns in porn mags etc?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

Introducing to fab by a woman I met on another terrible site after trying a few , tried it liked it stayed for the long haul, fantastic site

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ikingbeard85Man
over a year ago

nuneaton

A really good friend encouraged me to join she is on here with her bf I havnt told her I've been stroking it over her pics.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago

Colne

Recommended this via PoF. Told a guy I wasn't having much luck (albeit finding a relationship) and he said I'd have better luck here.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I also found this through AFF. A lady I was seeing and had met through AFF had had several encounters through here.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was looking to learn golf

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uppyandtabbyCouple
over a year ago

Prestatyn

Its really interesting seeing what people did pre fab and internet even.we're spoiled for choice these days.We started on a tinder profile and another kink social media site i dont think i can name starting with fet.we then discovered fab from there there and found it much more suitable for our needs.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

Well my then wife and I woke up after being on a bender and had lots of messages. so we ran with it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, AFF was my launching pad into Fabswingers. 15 years later and I'm still here

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ust a genuine single guyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Posted something on Ashley Madison.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"I was looking to learn golf"

Hmm, I’m shit at golf too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eto_AtreidesMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Met a friend/ regular play partner through another app. She was very upfront about being married, and what was and was not on the table. Even had her husband drop her off. I’d been trying traditional dating but not finding anyone on the same wavelength. She suggested I’d be a good fit here, and find more folks in the same place and who communicate in the same way, so here I am

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ove2watchMan
over a year ago

weymouth

It's been so long that I forgot. I think Google

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tephanie63Woman
over a year ago

BRIDGWATER

I was on another sex encounter site 9 years ago, a man on there told me about Fab and I joined...been on Fab and off ever since..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *elsh.couple1Couple
over a year ago

Swansea/neath

We went on a camping trip, ended up chatting to a couple nearby via social media site.

Headed out for a drink or 2 with them and they told us about it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andy CanesWoman
over a year ago

candy cane lane

A male friend that was already on here told me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

D typed adult clubs into Google.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

A TV programme

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Like OP, I was on AFF and did have a few meets then, but had a spell of non-swinging. Then a work colleague with whom I was having a rather d*unken conversation mentioned it and I signed up. I really like it and found some lovely people including some who have become regulars.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

I was swinging at events and everyone kept asking for my fab name

so I joined

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"That’s a good point, before the internet I bet swinging was much more difficult? Was it columns in porn mags etc? "

Noooo was the little black book still have mine from back then

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rnynhrdguyMan
over a year ago

plymouth

I was on Dirty David many moons ago and someone on there suggested Fab

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

A load of lads in the gym were laughing at a picture of a woman fucking a Pringles tube

(Martial arts gym - the gals get treat just like the lads!)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fwb from a dating site.

Common with bouncers aswell.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We was on a different swing site and had this one recommended to us years ago.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Partner I was with at the time mentioned her mates were on it, so I signed up it’s so addictive, fascinated by the whole scene

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ampire69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham West Midlands

I am a professional photographer by trade asked by a couple could i do some private photography for them, when i enquired what did they want the pictures for they explained FAB, did not even know this site existed, what an eye opener,

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *adboy 2018Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

Was talking about sex one day to a bus driver I know and he told me he and his wife are swingers and told me they were on Fabswingers and said I should join to look at there pics so I did and haven't looked back

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

Well, during Covid, I was very lonely and sexually frustrated and also single. I had never been on any sites like this and came across this one to try and left last December and was back again in January, although I’ve had no luck with it apart from one occasion, There’s something which keeps me coming back to it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

In a Chinese takeaway

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We were already on the club scene. Had lots of people asking if we were on fab, eventually we joined.

We find the site alright for what it is, was actually shocked at how old fashioned it is though when we first joined lol think maybe we aren't old enough to really remember this style of website. So it took a little getting used to.

Personally, I still much prefer just going to clubs, we tried setting up private meets but most failed so fab is just something we use to look at guestlists, find events, keep in contact with people we meet at events and have a read through the forums. We generally prefer the kink site that can't be named

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

"That’s a good point, before the internet I bet swinging was much more difficult? Was it columns in porn mags etc? "

easier as there were no fakes messers and wannabes it was just real swingers

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

"That’s a good point, before the internet I bet swinging was much more difficult? Was it columns in porn mags etc?

easier as there were no fakes messers and wannabes it was just real swingers"

and there were more couples and women than men ....unless dogging but parties and get togethers if you werent known you werent invited

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ykoCouple
over a year ago

york

We was already into swinging and went to our first night at youtopia club and a few couples we got talking to told us about it so set up profile and we are still friends with them couples all these years later just a shame that the club is no longer open.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meet through another site pointed me this direction.

Going back around 15 years and I believe that site no longer exists.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a friend after a breakup

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *emma200Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Introduced to fab after my first mff x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I was a member of a different site (FreeSwing - now shut) over a decade ago when folks there started joining here too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *winging NutsMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

My wife and I had a temporary hiatus 5 years ago. I with a high sex drive joined some 'god awful websites' where all the women were blokes in India and Indonesia trying to sell credits.(lol)

Accepting my foolishness I searched where might I be successfull in finding 'female sexual companionship'. FABSWINGERS came highly recommended!!! The rest was history.

My first profile was a success, with a fair bit of action; but with my wife (who was on here) contracting and succumbing to cancer recently...this profile has floundered a bit

I am trying!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend at work used to go an smash ?? pls Mrs while the MR watched

It sounded interested my lol

So I jumped on any couple want to take my cuck hood plates

Shout me x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

All the mentions of AFF…..there’s a blast from the past. Did quite well there!

But, it wasn’t my route to here. My wife was here first….albeit for about a day before she got sick of the message bombardment and left for FL.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the best of ways.

I received an anonymous message from an irate woman informing me that my partner was on FG swapping messages with her husband.

I was aware my partner was bi but had never heard of Fab.

Fast forward and my partner is now my ex and here I am with a solo profile!

Funny old world.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andd_bicoupleCouple
over a year ago

wilmslow

Its ok if u know what u want

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously had a fab time in the mmf

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep replies on the forum thanks.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I joined another site, but found there wasn't anyone local to me. Someone on that site mentioned fab in passing. Thought I'd try it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

we was on aff and we got told about this site not look back lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Got told about it by someone in a sharing group we were in on Instagram

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *kexpat81Man
over a year ago

Aldgate

"Not in the best of ways.

I received an anonymous message from an irate woman informing me that my partner was on FG swapping messages with her husband.

I was aware my partner was bi but had never heard of Fab.

Fast forward and my partner is now my ex and here I am with a solo profile!

Funny old world."

Not sure to feel sorry or be turned on by how you found out about fab

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xposedInTheMaleMan
over a year ago

Cap d'Agde

"That’s a good point, before the internet I bet swinging was much more difficult? Was it columns in porn mags etc? "

And then there was the Forum Society...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was in a swinging club with my ex, was a bit of an eye opener and exciting

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

From swinging heaven back in day

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

On a chat line, person suggested to find what I was looking for I should try fab.

They were 100% correct .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

I was I work the one day n there was a few of us talking n this guy said about the site n got it up on his phone, so as soon as I got home that evening I opened an account, posted a few pictures, with the wife's concent n then after a bit of time started meeting as a couple.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Met a couple in hotel they told me about it then we went to their room

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ensible lady 1960Woman
over a year ago

Near Bishop Auckland.

I was dogging a few years ago with a male friend, and a guy i had met told me that i should join and meet people.the guy i was with joined too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Google

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure it was an ad on a well known p0rn site, it was a long time ago, been on and off here about 10yrs.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Wait, what I’m on a swingers site

I thought it was a nostalgia site about play ground equipment

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

A friend x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread