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By *iganflirt OP   Man
over a year ago

wigan

i know this topic as probably been done to death! but just had a thanks but no thanks from a local cpl. after reading my profile they politely replied that they are not into kissing on meets. now i know that is their preferance which is no different from me wanting to kiss, but i just dont get it. i could never imagine going to a meet and not kissing the fem! i dont think i would get much out of it. would love to hear other members thoughts.

matt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 3 sum once and wasn't allowed to kiss the the woman, it just felt very cold, each to their own but I adore a good snog, you just can't beat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like kissing. Without it, the sex seems like just a mechanical act and missing a spark of passion. I understand why some couples don't like/do it, I respect them for it, but would ultimately pass them by...

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I dont get the 'no kissing' either I assume its 'no kissing on the lips', as not being able to kiss any part of the body would make things very awkward. Everyone has their own boundaries and I understand that, but the no kissing part just reminds me of Pretty Woman, and I cant be like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i think its abit wierd,... Sime say "you can do what you like,... Jizz on her face, feck every hole but.... NO kissing!!!! Pmfl... Some strange uns out there lol

Move onto some lovely kissers i say and forget them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a 3 sum once and wasn't allowed to kiss the the woman, it just felt very cold, each to their own but I adore a good snog, you just can't beat it "

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

No kissing , no meet...simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing , no meet...simples"
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I like it. Unless they have been eating pilchards of course

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

It's all a part of the wonderfully diverse world of swinging.

For me personally, I don't want to kiss another bloke. For ME, kissing is a close and intimate act reserved only for someone I have feelings for.

Luckily, our preferred method of playing means kissing just doesn't have to be on the agenda and it's never been a problem.

I don't think I'm any 'stranger' than someone who doesn't like oral sex or bi sex or anything else regarding sex. It's called 'preferences' - we all have them and we should all respect the preferences of others regardless of whether we understand why they have them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing , no meet...simples"

I agree

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By *exyhornycplCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

When we started, we said no kissing,just seemed we wanted to keep something back that was just between the two of us, then we looked at it again,your right you can cum all over me,fuck me senseless but don't kiss me on the lips,we also found that it was difficult not to kiss,it is part of the whole experience and the most natural thing to do.So now we kiss and it makes the expereince so much better.Agreed for us without it makes the sex colder and more stilted, however I can also understand why some couples like to hold something so personal for just themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing plays such a big part for me! Its what ignites the ignition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, it turns me on and gets me horny. So no kissing, definitely no meet for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find MMF sex incredibly cold anyway, so the fact that I've seen a number of couples profiles say 'we don't do kissing' ultimately makes me wonder why they don't just buy a cucumber or something.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Just to add, I can understand it in private meets or 1-2-1 ... but we indulge in mainly random acts of group sex (usually bi) in clubs and I just don't feel the need to kiss some stranger who happens to be a part of that group. We don't do 'intimate' ... we do 'kinky'

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"i know this topic as probably been done to death! but just had a thanks but no thanks from a local cpl. after reading my profile they politely replied that they are not into kissing on meets. now i know that is their preferance which is no different from me wanting to kiss, but i just dont get it. i could never imagine going to a meet and not kissing the fem! i dont think i would get much out of it. would love to hear other members thoughts.

matt."

kissing is a must if a guy wants to meet us i just love kissing xxxxxxxx

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Just to add, I can understand it in private meets or 1-2-1 ... but we indulge in mainly random acts of group sex (usually bi) in clubs and I just don't feel the need to kiss some stranger who happens to be a part of that group. We don't do 'intimate' ... we do 'kinky' "

And there lies the exception to the rule, absolutely understandable in that case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also had no kissing and no doggy on a MMF meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's all a part of the wonderfully diverse world of swinging.

For me personally, I don't want to kiss another bloke. For ME, kissing is a close and intimate act reserved only for someone I have feelings for.

Luckily, our preferred method of playing means kissing just doesn't have to be on the agenda and it's never been a problem.

I don't think I'm any 'stranger' than someone who doesn't like oral sex or bi sex or anything else regarding sex. It's called 'preferences' - we all have them and we should all respect the preferences of others regardless of whether we understand why they have them or not."

You are absolutely right it's your preference and you are no stranger than anyone else on here. I'm always surprised when this topic comes up that people are so intolerant and use words like weird and strange to describe people who express a simple preference yet don't blink when someone wants to have baseball bat shoved up their arse...often telling them "it's your preference go for it!"

Ok I might have exaggerated about the baseball bat

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"don't blink when someone wants to have baseball bat shoved up their arse...often telling them "it's your preference go for it!"

Ok I might have exaggerated about the baseball bat "

I would def do more than blink if someone shoved a baseball bat up my arse, they wouldnt be able to walk again for a month...(neither would I )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gotta have a good kiss, its all part of the fore play, well i think so anyway xx

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield


"I like it. Unless they have been eating pilchards of course"

I take it you are not a pilchard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't have sex without kissing so wouldn't meet anyone that didn't kiss. Must admit I struggle to understand those who don't kiss on a meet, but so long as they're upfront about it so I can choose not to meet then each to their own

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"i know this topic as probably been done to death! but just had a thanks but no thanks from a local cpl. after reading my profile they politely replied that they are not into kissing on meets. now i know that is their preferance which is no different from me wanting to kiss, but i just dont get it. i could never imagine going to a meet and not kissing the fem! i dont think i would get much out of it. would love to hear other members thoughts.

matt."

Now, you see, you don't 'get it' that some people don't like kissing on a meet. I don't 'get it' how you can have an illicit meet behind your wife's back then go home and kiss her with the same mouth that you've just snogged another woman with.

But even though I don't understand it, I accept your right to play as you see fit. You cheat - I don't get it ... I don't kiss strangers, you don't get that. Sometimes, we just have to agree to disagree and respectfully accept each others' preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, my two-penny worth. My thought on the matter is a good snog between a man and a woman starts a session of sex off in a good way.

But boundaries must always be adhered to, and if it is the preference of no kissing then no kissing it must be.

Perhaps if no kissing is desired, how about a slight twist on the art, with a three-some kiss. A man kissing a woman with a third person's cock in-between. The combination of cock, lips, lipstick, the lady's hair, and cum, all quite erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing , no meet...simples"
That's us too it's the beginning of things if you ask me .how you get the juices flowing and understanding what makes some one tick sexually.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good snogging session is a must for me, such a turn on especially if both parties fancy the pants off each other. Yummo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing one of the main elements to sex.

I have had a meet with a guy stated he won't kiss. The first was okay but with no kissing missed something the second meet we kissed and it was fine so now he kisses lol men

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"No kissing , no meet...simplesThat's us too it's the beginning of things if you ask me .how you get the juices flowing and understanding what makes some one tick sexually.poppyxx "

Absolutely bang on No Kissing = No connection. Each to their own xxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've had a meet where there was no kissing on facial lips - plenty of labial kissing though. And the overall experience was fabtastic. I usually ask beforehand if facial kissing is allowed. Part of my respecting boundaries.....

I really love snogging though!!!!

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

No-kissing no interest from me. My partner agrees. There's no emotion or connection from machine sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree no kissing! Why do you want to kiss another mans wife?

Single women yeah .. I'd give them a right tonsil tickle !

You lucky ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really horny kissing the lady in front of her other half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing , no meet...simplesThat's us too it's the beginning of things if you ask me .how you get the juices flowing and understanding what makes some one tick sexually.poppyxx

Absolutely bang on No Kissing = No connection. Each to their own xxx "
Mmmmm fancy a kiss and a meet sexys? Bad pervy poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a meet where there was no kissing on facial lips - plenty of labial kissing though. And the overall experience was fabtastic. I usually ask beforehand if facial kissing is allowed. Part of my respecting boundaries.....

I really love snogging though!!!! "
Wiered how you can do intimate fucking but no kissing ? Really don't understand some people and their rationale to thought processes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont be able to get rock hard without kissing. Kissing is what turns me on...my lips would never leave her..

...i couldnt do a meet like that i dont think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...wonder if anyone would just arrange a meet for a good snog session?? God i would love that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing , no meet...simples

I agree "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've had a meet where there was no kissing on facial lips - plenty of labial kissing though. And the overall experience was fabtastic. I usually ask beforehand if facial kissing is allowed. Part of my respecting boundaries.....

I really love snogging though!!!! Wiered how you can do intimate fucking but no kissing ? Really don't

understand some people and their

rationale to thought processes.

"

I'm complicated.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I like a kiss and a snog, definately

When I first joined Fab I did a couple of no kissing meets, but they aren't really my thing and I'd sooner pass on a no kiss meet these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SNOGATHON IS A MUST ALWAYS

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I'm a kiss on a private meet but not in the club type!

Instant stop and turn off though if I get the slobbery tongue or tonsil remover technique!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we don't have a no kissing rule but I would be interested to know how you can ask for no strings attached sex then say that unless you kiss there's no emotion and no connection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we don't have a no kissing rule but I would be interested to know how you can ask for no strings attached sex then say that unless you kiss there's no emotion and no connection? "

To me a meet still needs to have passion and a connection even if that connection is fleeting...just because it's NSA it's still sex for fun to me not just scratching an itch - I can do that with my rabbit. Kissing builds that passion/desire for me and so is a huge turn on. Without it I wouldn't enjoy the sex I was having and I'd rather have no sex than mechanical sex just for the sake of it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"we don't have a no kissing rule but I would be interested to know how you can ask for no strings attached sex then say that unless you kiss there's no emotion and no connection?

To me a meet still needs to have passion and a connection even if that connection is fleeting...just because it's NSA it's still sex for fun to me not just scratching an itch - I can do that with my rabbit. Kissing builds that passion/desire for me and so is a huge turn on. Without it I wouldn't enjoy the sex I was having and I'd rather have no sex than mechanical sex just for the sake of it"

so kissing is much more meaningful or important than other sex acts? I ask that because most other forms of sexual activity are viewed as optional by most people but kissing/not kissing seems to be a big deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we don't have a no kissing rule but I would be interested to know how you can ask for no strings attached sex then say that unless you kiss there's no emotion and no connection?

To me a meet still needs to have passion and a connection even if that connection is fleeting...just because it's NSA it's still sex for fun to me not just scratching an itch - I can do that with my rabbit. Kissing builds that passion/desire for me and so is a huge turn on. Without it I wouldn't enjoy the sex I was having and I'd rather have no sex than mechanical sex just for the sake of it

so kissing is much more meaningful or important than other sex acts? I ask that because most other forms of sexual activity are viewed as optional by most people but kissing/not kissing seems to be a big deal breaker."

Guess in a way it is...not saying I don't enjoy other sex acts and like a meet to include as much as possible, but not kissing is something I'd have to actively think about throughout the meet whereas not receiving oral for example wouldn't be as distracting as I can still relax and enjoy myself without it, but obviously it's preferred! I kiss without thinking about it so having to remember not to would cause me problems as I know I'd go to without intending to cause upset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its different for couples then singles

Ive never met a single guys who dont kiss, i know lots of couples who dont

They have each other to kiss so not kissing their meet isnt really a big deal, where as if your single and meet a couple who dont kiss that means your having a session with no kissing at all

I love kissing and couldnt imagine sex without it, but who i kiss matters not, what i mean by that is if i was a couple i would happily meet someone who didnt kiss if i had my partner to kiss, id just kiss him instead of who ive met, where as because im single i dont have that option so wouldnt meet someone who dont kiss

If that makes sence

Im sure most of these couples who dont kiss would if they was single

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By *artsnikCouple
over a year ago

wortley

both kiss here all part of the sexyness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree no kissing! Why do you want to kiss another mans wife?

Single women yeah .. I'd give them a right tonsil tickle !

You lucky ladies! "

why do you want to fuck another mans wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wiered how you can do intimate fucking but no kissing ?"

Fucking isn't really that intimate though is it? We went to a club for the first time last weekend...saw a lot of fucking, none of which could even begin to be described as intimate...

We had a no kissing rule initially-someone accused us of it being down to insecurity on one or both of our parts...it wasn't, it was just something we wanted to keep special for us(along with anal)...it was more because neither of us were interested in kissing other people...it never seemed to stop us getting meets but as we've nurtured friendships with people we meet, it feels more natural to do so...we don't meet single guys but if we did, I wouldn't be interested in kissing them...but I do love kissing women...if I were a single woman meeting 1:1 then the dynamic is totally different and kissing would be a more natural part of the process...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Wiered how you can do intimate fucking but no kissing ?

Fucking isn't really that intimate though is it? "

Exactly! Kissing to me is the most intimate act you can perform, proper passionate kissing I mean not the cheek peck you give your Aunt. You put your heart and soul into a proper kiss whereas fucking can be no more than mutual gratification if you want it to be.

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By *artsnikCouple
over a year ago

wortley

each to there own no right no wrong just upto you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all a part of the wonderfully diverse world of swinging.

For me personally, I don't want to kiss another bloke. For ME, kissing is a close and intimate act reserved only for someone I have feelings for.

Luckily, our preferred method of playing means kissing just doesn't have to be on the agenda and it's never been a problem.

I don't think I'm any 'stranger' than someone who doesn't like oral sex or bi sex or anything else regarding sex. It's called 'preferences' - we all have them and we should all respect the preferences of others regardless of whether we understand why they have them or not."

this I am not a huge fan on kissing anyway so when I kiss its only with my partner never any other guy personal preference I guess, although I will kiss women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know this topic as probably been done to death! but just had a thanks but no thanks from a local cpl. after reading my profile they politely replied that they are not into kissing on meets. now i know that is their preferance which is no different from me wanting to kiss, but i just dont get it. i could never imagine going to a meet and not kissing the fem! i dont think i would get much out of it. would love to hear other members thoughts.

matt."

I would't meet anyone if they didn't want to kiss as its what turns me on more than anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we had our first threesome (with a girl) we spent weeks and weeks coming up with lots of do's and don'ts but it started to take the fun out of it.

We had previously agreed that we wouldn't kiss anyone else.

Then we realised that neither of us had ever had sex in the past without kissing, so thought we would try it out.

Needless to say, there was a LOT if kissing that night and we all had a lot of fun.

We did agree though that any physical contact had to be when we were all together, so we did have one rule.

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By *exy-honey n mr honeyCouple
over a year ago

glasgow way

We dont allow kissing on the lips but girl on girl kissing we allow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont allow kissing on the lips but girl on girl kissing we allow "

I think that is sexist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont allow kissing on the lips but girl on girl kissing we allow "

Can I ask why you view kissing between the women any different as that's something else I've never understood. Not saying it's wrong but I just don't understand the logic behind it

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I fond kissing very sensual and a big turn on - a good kiss can get an instant reaction in the trouser department! A meet without kissing would feel a bit weird.

But, as others have said, they are boundaries that the couple have set themselves, so we respect them. But they are probably missing out on some good meets too because people will pass them by.

Pucker Up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fond kissing very sensual and a big turn on - a good kiss can get an instant reaction in the trouser department! A meet without kissing would feel a bit weird.

But, as others have said, they are boundaries that the couple have set themselves, so we respect them. But they are probably missing out on some good meets too because people will pass them by.

WELL SAID THAT MAN

Pucker Up "

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I feel kissing is more intimate than others forms of sexual contact..it's close up and in my face, literally. Plus I'm quite fussy about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" But they are probably missing out on some good meets too because people will pass them by.

"

But then you could say that about any preference couldn't you? I could be missing out on great meets because I'm not attracted to TV's, find cyber and camming bores me frigid or because I won't do anal with meets...We blocked single males because I (Jane) have no interest in meeting them...that was often the argument I would get from the ones who sent messages and winks before we blocked..."you're really missing out"...tiresome rubbish...we have never felt we're missing out on anything...we meet people who fulfil our requirements and people don't meet us because we don't fit theirs...it's the nature of the game...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a 3 sum once and wasn't allowed to kiss the the woman, it just felt very cold, each to their own but I adore a good snog, you just can't beat it "
ditto x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to kiss!

Only a good snog warms me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got to kiss!

Only a good snog warms me up "
oooh gooody,lol

cant beat a good snog to get the juices flowing

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Love some fabulous kissing.

Met a few really good kisses on fab mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh a meet with no kissing ;( - most definitely not for us !! We love a good snog lol

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Each to there own and I respect everyone's opinion but for me no kissing would put me off completely cos I lurve a good snog

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Love,love,love,love kissing...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve talked about this - have images in my head of the whole meet going tits up cos we attempted to kiss someone we shouldnt - same with straight couples - dont think i could keep my mouth hands off the ladies boobs and bits - we ve had some very horny times off chats about it so not a complete waste

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over a year ago

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I simply can't imagine how I could be that intimate and NOT kiss. It's an automatic, sexy reaction that is part of the whole thing.

Horses for courses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3rd kissing thread I have seen today. Sex without kissing seems a bit robotic to me.

I am told its something I am good at seems a shame not to share it.

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By *ickiemintMan
over a year ago

Somewhere NW London


"Yes i think its abit wierd,... Sime say "you can do what you like,... Jizz on her face, feck every hole but.... NO kissing!!!! Pmfl... Some strange uns out there lol

Move onto some lovely kissers i say and forget them x "

Rich

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Just to add, I can understand it in private meets or 1-2-1 ... but we indulge in mainly random acts of group sex (usually bi) in clubs and I just don't feel the need to kiss some stranger who happens to be a part of that group. We don't do 'intimate' ... we do 'kinky' "

Now that I can completely understand! That to me is a totally different situation/scenario all together, whilst for me I only meet one on one, so yes kissing plays a huge part for me and to not be able to would just be to clinical but total different situations I suppose that you can't really compare them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing , no meet...simples"

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing , no meet...simples

Agreed! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing , no meet...simples

I agree "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get this either! For me kissing is the biggest turn on! Sex becomes too clinical without it imo. If you don't want to kiss buy a sex toy instead to do the job lol.

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By *oddessTCouple
over a year ago

Chester Le Street


"No kissing , no meet...simples.

"

totally, kissing adds to the build up and if a profile said no kissing I'd be passing them by

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Kissing is where it all begins! Very important for us.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"I don't get this either! For me kissing is the biggest turn on! Sex becomes too clinical without it imo. If you don't want to kiss buy a sex toy instead to do the job lol."

Thanks for the advice - but we'll stick to our way of playing if it's ok with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been told by guys they doont kiss cos they feel that should be exclusive for someone they have feelings for..

thats fine cos i told them its not my thing..

one guy got the right hump tho and tried to make me see things his way.. oh well hello block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel kissing is more intimate than others forms of sexual contact..it's close up and in my face, literally. Plus I'm quite fussy about it."

i can understand what u say.. but cant see its more intimate than sexual intercourse.. teenagers will kiss but not go any further for ages.. why if kissing is so intimate and sex isnt :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing is my biggest turn on it gets me all excited love a but of tongue locking cheeky nibbles and soft kisses to just hypes up the passion I think also gets me nice and wet

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"i know this topic as probably been done to death! but just had a thanks but no thanks from a local cpl. after reading my profile they politely replied that they are not into kissing on meets. now i know that is their preferance which is no different from me wanting to kiss, but i just dont get it. i could never imagine going to a meet and not kissing the fem! i dont think i would get much out of it. would love to hear other members thoughts.

matt."

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Can I ask why you like kissing during meets? Is it because of the enhanced intimacy?

Personally I completely understand why people don't kiss..to many it's more intimate than the act of sex itself, that's why you won't find many sex workers who engage in kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't wanna kiss, they don't wanna kiss and it's that simple despite how peculiar it may appear to you, that is there rule and that is what they expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to kiss...on both sets of lips...can't beat it!!! And know the woman enjoys x

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By *anzellMan
over a year ago

Essex

Kissing is a MUST! Dont do cold and clinical sex...just hot and horny sex which involves lots of kissing and snogging!!

Met one couple who said...you can spunk in her mouth...fuck her arse...but cant kiss as that's too personal!!!?

Sorry...But you cant get much more personal then cumming in someones mouth or fucking some in the ass...The mind boggles!! xx

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I find kissing very sensual and a huge turn on.

Doesn't mean you have to love someone !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know this topic as probably been done to death! but just had a thanks but no thanks from a local cpl. after reading my profile they politely replied that they are not into kissing on meets. now i know that is their preferance which is no different from me wanting to kiss, but i just dont get it. i could never imagine going to a meet and not kissing the fem! i dont think i would get much out of it. would love to hear other members thoughts.

matt."

same here,i just couldnt have sex with sumone with out kissing,kissing and licking is what gets me turned on!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If they don't wanna kiss, they don't wanna kiss and it's that simple despite how peculiar it may appear to you, that is there rule and that is what they expect."

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York

We are both very much kissers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yet another thread that shows so many people dont truly understand what swinging is, and yet again the answer is a big each to there own.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"yet another thread that shows so many people dont truly understand what swinging is, and yet again the answer is a big each to there own."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"yet another thread that shows so many people dont truly understand what swinging is, and yet again the answer is a big each to there own."

well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yet another thread that shows so many people dont truly understand what swinging is, and yet again the answer is a big each to there own."

Most have said each to their own but that it's not something they would be happy with and so they'd choose not to meet people that don't kiss...or does the same rule not apply that way round?!

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York


"yet another thread that shows so many people dont truly understand what swinging is, and yet again the answer is a big each to there own.

well said!"

And yet again someone who is fed up with threads like this.....and yet again i say, well don't contribute if it's of no inerest to you! Go and start a far more interesting thread of your own!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it seems people find it ok to use words like weird or call them funny people for having this preference yet are people weird or funny if there preferences dont include anal,oral,watersports,dogging or any other preference, that been the key word "preference" why do they have to be weird or funny because they enjoy swinging but choose not to do a certain thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we joined our rule was only f to f kissing it seemed a good idea in theory. In practice we threw it out of the window almost instantly it just seemed a bit disjointed to us.

We have complete respect for those who choose not to, we just know they are not for us no big deal. It is no different from any other preference.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a 3 sum once and wasn't allowed to kiss the the woman, it just felt very cold, each to their own but I adore a good snog, you just can't beat it "

Same as that. Anyone not wanting to snog you clearly needs to go to specsavers

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