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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is a younger guy that my husband works with that I’ve always felt very attracted to. He’s decided to leave and go traveling but we just don’t know how to approach the subject with him?.

We have never done it before with someone we know as always wanted to keep this side of us private but I really want this guy before he goes

any ideas or help will be appreciated

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Take him out for a leaving dinner

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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

Could be very awkward for hubby at work if it goes wrong, or even worse if it goes llright and he starts chatting/bragging about it...

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By *iFunMale_southMan
over a year ago

Reading

Invite him over for a drink. Without taking a step too far be a bit flirty and see what his response is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could say "how do you feel about fucking my Mrs" unless she's a minger it's unlikely he will refuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could be very awkward for hubby at work if it goes wrong, or even worse if it goes llright and he starts chatting/bragging about it..."

All the men at work will ask to have a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How close is your husband to him? Close enough for them to go for a drink where you could end up joining them. You could try flirting with him and see his response.

Or let your hubby accidentally show him a photo of you with another guy. That would lead to an explanation of you being swingers. He may be interested.

Or just come out and ask him.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"Could be very awkward for hubby at work if it goes wrong, or even worse if it goes llright and he starts chatting/bragging about it..."

This was our first thought

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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

My Intro to swinging was an older client explaining his cuckold lifestyle to me and telling me his wife wanted me to fuck her.

Lucky for them I'm a horny perve wiand accepted, but It could have 1l2I'd gossiped about it in the village afterward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could be very awkward for hubby at work if it goes wrong, or even worse if it goes llright and he starts chatting/bragging about it...

This was our first thought"

It can be awkward. I have done it and it was a bit of a problem at first and sometimes it still is for my hubby but the person we did it too was the wrong choice.

If you get someone you trust then it should be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show him a pic of her nude...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP, don’t do it. The old never shit on your own doorstep comes to mind.

Please really think it over as the risks are very high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my ex . When we wanted to play. With someone we new she firted with him and dropped big hint see how he took it. Wear stocking flash bit leg see if he looked and how he looked

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Send an ‘Accidental’ sexy but not too revealing pic , see his reaction !!!!!!

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Could be very awkward for hubby at work if it goes wrong, or even worse if it goes llright and he starts chatting/bragging about it..."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving all the ideas…… just for a friend though he he x

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Opening a can of worms it's not worth it. He's leaving soon so why risk him telling others before he goes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Ask him

How will you feel if he says no?

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Be careful of mixing the real world with the swinging world. If this guy is leaving the company, he might not see the need to keep things confidential after he’s gone.

But if you really want to risk it, take him out for leaving drinks or similar. Even better, ask him over to yours for leaving drinks and leave some obvious clues for him to see.

Best of luck!

Gbat

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By *rew Peacock69Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

If he's about to leave and go travelling you have nothing to lose, invite him out for a drink, the three of you. You flirt with him and give him the chance to take it further.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all ever so much for the help and advice..

After reading your replies I think we’re going to leave it as like has been said it could make things super awkward at work it’s just not worth it x

Even though he’s bloody hot

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By *irAndBalayageExpertCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Hot but risky.. mr has real experience of this

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I used to talk about my fantasy about watching someone fuck my wife at work, after I left I had plenty of offers to come round! Unfortunately she wasn’t interested!

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Any jobs going at your husbands place ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to talk about my fantasy about watching someone fuck my wife at work, after I left I had plenty of offers to come round! Unfortunately she wasn’t interested!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Alright mate, had a good day?”

“Yeah man, it’s been fair to middlin’”

“Fancy fuckin’ ma missus later?”

“Aye, why not. Got nowt better to do. Might as well”

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By *eff1961Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Was easy invited mate round for a drink n started saying hoey much I loved by GFS tits he said love to see them so she took her top off next thing she was in her knees sucking him was amazing watched her fuck dozens after that

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By *im4play4uMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"There is a younger guy that my husband works with that I’ve always felt very attracted to. He’s decided to leave and go traveling but we just don’t know how to approach the subject with him?.

We have never done it before with someone we know as always wanted to keep this side of us private but I really want this guy before he goes

any ideas or help will be appreciated

"

Just cone straight out with it, but be prepared for him cumming on his pants!

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Dont be shy just ask him

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

One of the most awkward chats I have ever had with a particular mate.

It took about 15 mins to convince him that there would be no issues regarding our friendship (whether he said yes or no) and once he had that assurance he couldn't say yes fast enough.

He was our fuckbuddy (on/off) for the best part of 20 years. He has a gorgeous thick cock and could last for ages.

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By *TaR105Man
over a year ago

Birkenhead

"There is a younger guy that my husband works with that I’ve always felt very attracted to. He’s decided to leave and go traveling but we just don’t know how to approach the subject with him?.

We have never done it before with someone we know as always wanted to keep this side of us private but I really want this guy before he goes

any ideas or help will be appreciated

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Dont do it, too close to home, enjoy your fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine didnt agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine didnt agree

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What happened?

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

just say hay you want to fuck my wife

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

OP

Why did you write the title as the husband but the post as thw wife

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By *luboyoMan
over a year ago

North West / Birmingham

"One of the most awkward chats I have ever had with a particular mate.

It took about 15 mins to convince him that there would be no issues regarding our friendship (whether he said yes or no) and once he had that assurance he couldn't say yes fast enough.

That sounds like a perfect outcome

He was our fuckbuddy (on/off) for the best part of 20 years. He has a gorgeous thick cock and could last for ages."

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

One that worked for us with a electrian she liked was she walked in "on accident" topless and said I'm so sorry you've seen me topless on the bottom have and sex left and you could have been my husband... then gauge his reaction. Worth a try worked for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One that worked for us with a electrian she liked was she walked in "on accident" topless and said I'm so sorry you've seen me topless on the bottom have and sex left and you could have been my husband... then gauge his reaction. Worth a try worked for us"

That's absolutely disgusting!! Vile people.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

It’s a tricky situation if he talks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most males won’t pass up an opportunity of a sexy lady I’m a sucker for any woman in stockings

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By *oxy RedWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Best to leave as a fantasy x

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Definitely something you need to test the waters with before revealing your hand. As others had said some kind of relaxed social thing. Try and subtly gauge his general attitude to this sort of thing first. If it looks like he maybe open to such stuff then try and gauge his potential attraction to this sort of stuff with you. Read the room and take things from their. But remember to take note of the vibes coming back and not fall into the trap of just hearing what to you want to hear.

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By *ockonmeMan
over a year ago

lincolnshire

Leave him be, you may lose a good friend if it’s not his thing?

Keep the fantasy, it’ll probably better than the actual deed, I’m sure if he was of the same mindset, he’d have hit on you long before.

Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a bad feeling about this

Mrs C x

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

What makes you think he would want to shag the mrs?

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"OP

Why did you write the title as the husband but the post as thw wife "

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By *lmostDeviantCouple
over a year ago

Tameside

If it was a close enough friend then they’d already be open enough to talk about sex and partners etc at work. If they’ve never been that comfortable or open before it’d be a big gamble.

I’ve asked a few friends in the past (m&f) which led to some amazing nights. Saying that, they already knew we had a kinky side before asking and sex talk was pretty standard. There’s still the odd person we never said anything to that stayed a fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask your Mrs to walk in the room naked then get her an go over to him on all fours like a dog an start to undo his shoe laces

If he hmgets up an runs for the hills it is pretty much a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think that’s such a good idea doing a guy from your husband’s work.

Some many things can go wrong:-

1. Word gets out to other colleagues about what you both are getting up too etc.

2. Your husband could his job.

My advice stay clear of doing anything with anyone you work with it’s not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t think that’s such a good idea doing a guy from your husband’s work.

Some many things can go wrong:-

1. Word gets out to other colleagues about what you both are getting up too etc.

2. Your husband could his job.

My advice stay clear of doing anything with anyone you work with it’s not worth it.

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We second this

Keep your labia in your knickers and maintain your husband’s professionalism at work.

Young lad is nailed on tell everyone!

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

We didn't, although our cuckold agreement stated she could fuck whoever and whenever she wanted it did stipulate they couldn't be friends family or colleagues

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

You don’t

Keep it to strangers

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By *nlyessexCouple
over a year ago

Hornchurch

It was easy we were out one evening and I said come back with us and fuck my wife he did and he’s now her regular fb

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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire

"You could say "how do you feel about fucking my Mrs" unless she's a minger it's unlikely he will refuse. "

This

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By *RWoodyCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Although not a direct friend as such, we had a very similar scenario a few weeks ago on a works night out. Things got a bit flirty between a colleague of R's and myself, so I just tested the water a few times throughout the night. By the time it was time to go back to the hotel we all knew where it was heading.

Yes I guess he could of said no, took offence or just not fancied it, but it was just one of those moments where it seemed a good idea to just go for it, so we did!

It was a great experience in the end.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry OP, don’t do it. The old never shit on your own doorstep comes to mind.

Please really think it over as the risks are very high "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a ‘blokey’ point of view.. I would start off by being REALLY subtle.. such as talking about her previous partners and get him to engage that way.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Honestly don’t x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't, only because I've learnt that it is really not a good idea to shit on your own doorstep. It sounds just a bit close to home to me.

In my experience very few people can actually keep their gobs shut.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

"I wouldn't, only because I've learnt that it is really not a good idea to shit on your own doorstep. It sounds just a bit close to home to me.

In my experience very few people can actually keep their gobs shut. "

Agree totally with this x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I wouldn't, only because I've learnt that it is really not a good idea to shit on your own doorstep. It sounds just a bit close to home to me.

In my experience very few people can actually keep their gobs shut. "

In my experience very few people believe young men boasting about sexual experiences except other young men.

. It might lead to a few more offers though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a younger guy that my husband works with that I’ve always felt very attracted to. He’s decided to leave and go traveling but we just don’t know how to approach the subject with him?.

We have never done it before with someone we know as always wanted to keep this side of us private but I really want this guy before he goes

any ideas or help will be appreciated

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The main thing this post is doing is making an assumption that he would be interested. I wouldn’t directly ask someone a question like that without even knowing if they're attracted to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't, only because I've learnt that it is really not a good idea to shit on your own doorstep. It sounds just a bit close to home to me.

In my experience very few people can actually keep their gobs shut.

In my experience very few people believe young men boasting about sexual experiences except other young men.

. It might lead to a few more offers though

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Haha this is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a younger guy that my husband works with that I’ve always felt very attracted to. He’s decided to leave and go traveling but we just don’t know how to approach the subject with him?.

We have never done it before with someone we know as always wanted to keep this side of us private but I really want this guy before he goes

any ideas or help will be appreciated

The main thing this post is doing is making an assumption that he would be interested. I wouldn’t directly ask someone a question like that without even knowing if they're attracted to you."

Good point.

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Done this quite a few times and it’s always worked out OK. Not all have said yes but all remained friends.

It’s a nervous thing to do but that also part of the fun !!

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