FabSwingers.com forum: Am I really Bi or just sexual?

By *edonistSeeker OP Man
over a year ago

Worcester

Wonder if this resonates with other guys?

Over the years I’ve had plenty of experiences, especially when I was married and we’d go to Xtasia most weeks. It was always oral.

I met a young lady in her 20s a couple of years ago (my favourite partner btw, I like being Daddy) and we talked about stuff. She said I wasn’t bi, I was just very sexual.

Why? I couldn’t and struggle with holding a guys hand, never mind kissing. Have worked out that I’d struggle with an emotional attachment to a bloke. Anything above waist height doesn’t interest me but I love making guys cum.

Does that make me bi or just sexual? I think the latter.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Wonder if this resonates with other guys?

Over the years I’ve had plenty of experiences, especially when I was married and we’d go to Xtasia most weeks. It was always oral.

I met a young lady in her 20s a couple of years ago (my favourite partner btw, I like being Daddy) and we talked about stuff. She said I wasn’t bi, I was just very sexual.

Does that make me bi or just sexual? I think the latter. "

A lot of blokes on here like seeing men with big cocks hence why most porn watched is hung men.. I get compliments from a lot of men on here I guess it's like women complimenting each other

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By *edonistSeeker OP Man
over a year ago

Worcester

Nice self promotion there!

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Wonder if this resonates with other guys?

Over the years I’ve had plenty of experiences, especially when I was married and we’d go to Xtasia most weeks. It was always oral.

I met a young lady in her 20s a couple of years ago (my favourite partner btw, I like being Daddy) and we talked about stuff. She said I wasn’t bi, I was just very sexual.

Does that make me bi or just sexual? I think the latter. "

You just like to play on your terms...simple...call it what you want but if you like cock best say bi just to be open n honest i think...

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By *obbob1351Man
over a year ago

walton

"Wonder if this resonates with other guys?

Over the years I’ve had plenty of experiences, especially when I was married and we’d go to Xtasia most weeks. It was always oral.

I met a young lady in her 20s a couple of years ago (my favourite partner btw, I like being Daddy) and we talked about stuff. She said I wasn’t bi, I was just very sexual.

Does that make me bi or just sexual? I think the latter. "

I’m the same. No attraction whatsoever to guys. Don’t want to kiss or any of that stuff but love sucking cock, fucking and being fucked - but only really in an MMF scenario. A really convincing trans girl is amazing tho as info fancy them!

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Wonder if this resonates with other guys?

Over the years I’ve had plenty of experiences, especially when I was married and we’d go to Xtasia most weeks. It was always oral.

I met a young lady in her 20s a couple of years ago (my favourite partner btw, I like being Daddy) and we talked about stuff. She said I wasn’t bi, I was just very sexual.

Does that make me bi or just sexual? I think the latter.

I get that..nothing like cock fun without the frills

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

There have been a fair few threads like this. Guys (like me) who don't fancy guys but love a cock to play with

I think that's why it's so hard to wear the bi label, for some guys.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"There have been a fair few threads like this. Guys (like me) who don't fancy guys but love a cock to play with

I think that's why it's so hard to wear the bi label, for some guys. "

Guess i might be bi then but still like cock play...never thought the way you guys do but feel exactly the same

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By *rmrs95Couple
over a year ago

Chester

"Wonder if this resonates with other guys?

Over the years I’ve had plenty of experiences, especially when I was married and we’d go to Xtasia most weeks. It was always oral.

I met a young lady in her 20s a couple of years ago (my favourite partner btw, I like being Daddy) and we talked about stuff. She said I wasn’t bi, I was just very sexual.

Does that make me bi or just sexual? I think the latter. "

I like to call it bi-playful

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Sexuality is a spectrum.

Don't get hung up on labels and social baggage around labels.

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By *irthy89888Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I love the buz of a bi mmf but id never play alone with a guy i think i get more of a buzz from it if the women is pleasured by it

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Hetero flexible

Fab-straight

Hypersexual

Bi-curious

But not Bisexual.

It’s not unusual for men to be like this in the Lifestyle and that’s fantastic. It’s so much more fun…

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By *den_GCCouple
over a year ago

San Fernando, Gran Canaria

"Wonder if this resonates with other guys?

Over the years I’ve had plenty of experiences, especially when I was married and we’d go to Xtasia most weeks. It was always oral.

I met a young lady in her 20s a couple of years ago (my favourite partner btw, I like being Daddy) and we talked about stuff. She said I wasn’t bi, I was just very sexual.

Does that make me bi or just sexual? I think the latter. "

OP please use Google and enter

Psychology Today

SMSM

It's about straight men who have sex with other men.

The author postulates that to define sexual orientation you need at least two of three things:

Behavior

Attraction

Self Identification

Any one of these things on their own does not define you.

I do not believe in pigeon holing people. But this article will explain to many men why they feel so conflicted and why people think of them as dishonest.

Some years ago people believed bisexuality didn't exist and that bi men were just gay men in denial. SMSM is the new bi.

Thought I'd offer this because it confirms what I have experienced in many years of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, all these labels.

OP, I’d say you were Heteroromantic. Happy to play sexually with men and women (other genders are available) but only romantically attracted to women.

Stuff labels though, just be the hedonist that you are man

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By *ltmeeMan
over a year ago

Everywhere & Nowhere Baby

"Sexuality is a spectrum.

Don't get hung up on labels and social baggage around labels. "

This. Totally.

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By *den_GCCouple
over a year ago

San Fernando, Gran Canaria

When Darwin sent the first Duck Billed Platypus back to Britain for direction they first believed it was different animals stitched together.

You see the Platypus lays eggs and suckles it's young (it has teats). The scientists the labelled the Platypus was the labelled a freak because it did not fit into the framework science had constructed to categorise all species.

The poor old Platypus had done nothing wrong except not fit into the rules people not able to tolerate diversity had created.

I really like meat. I am a carnivore. But some days I just feel like a salad. Am I conflicted, dishonest with myself or just someone who doesn't let the uninformed opinions of people who don't understand things they really don't, dictate my behaviour.

Pigeon holing sucks.

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

Is anyone straight

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By *den_GCCouple
over a year ago

San Fernando, Gran Canaria

I a followup by Michael Schelton MS, LPC in an article entitled "Straight Men Who Have Sex With Other Men: In Their Own Words"

A passage reads:

"Also, while engaging in the sexual behavior, the subjects avoided kissing, hugging, talking to the other male (or even looking at him), and leaving immediately following sex."

I think OP described this exactly.

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By *den_GCCouple
over a year ago

San Fernando, Gran Canaria

"Is anyone straight

Define Straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love playing with a nice hard cock. Don't fancy men.

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By *den_GCCouple
over a year ago

San Fernando, Gran Canaria

"Love playing with a nice hard cock. Don't fancy men. "

Attraction = 0

Behaviour = 1

Self identification = 1

Bisexual without attraction.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I refuse to think to much about it, do you enjoy what you're doing - does it hurt or affect anyone else negatively, if not carry on. Who really cares

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By *ennyleeeWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I would say your completely gay .

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By *elshbi2Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

"I refuse to think to much about it, do you enjoy what you're doing - does it hurt or affect anyone else negatively, if not carry on. Who really cares

Exactly why go into it in such depth, well said ??

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