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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was wondering if someone could give me some advice. I arranged a bukkake/gangbang for a female yesterday. I made sure I invited more guests than necessary (invited 10 when she wanted 6 max), checked all 10 were verified, but still NONE of the 10 showed up. I felt embarrassed that I'd let the woman down, and I had wasted three days playing e-mail ping-pong with around 15-20 guys

Is there anything we can do to sort this out? Surely it's time to start nameing and shaming.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's is terrible !!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Naming and shaming will never work so no point.

Sorry it all went tits up tho. Must be annoying x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Naming and shaming will never be allowed, the site owners make it clear DAILY on the threads asking for it.

As for no shows, it appears you were unfortunate in picking dreamers/timewasters etc.

It's hard enough finding one at times, perhaps try a club setting next time and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shocking that is !

Really don't understand why guys would do this.. fukwits!

Anyway rant over, why dont you take your friend along to a club on greedy girl night? Just a thought.

Good luck guys x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know naming and shaming would be a pointless excersize (sp) but there must be a way the site can fix the problem of people only coming on here for a wank? Maybe a system where Everytime someone agrees to meet they add themselves to a meet (like an event on Facebook) then their appearance/disappearance is noted by the other person? Then their record of attendance is displayed publicly? Just a thought......

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I know naming and shaming would be a pointless excersize (sp) but there must be a way the site can fix the problem of people only coming on here for a wank? Maybe a system where Everytime someone agrees to meet they add themselves to a meet (like an event on Facebook) then their appearance/disappearance is noted by the other person? Then their record of attendance is displayed publicly? Just a thought......"

I think you can report no shows to Admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I arrange a bukkake I invite about 60 and tend to get somewhere between 10 and 20 show up.

Very hard work!

Susan...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whenever I arrange a bukkake I invite about 60 and tend to get somewhere between 10 and 20 show up.

Very hard work!

Susan... "

How do you do it? I'm physically exhausted after e-mailing back and forth, and that was only with 10!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know naming and shaming would be a pointless excersize (sp) but there must be a way the site can fix the problem of people only coming on here for a wank? Maybe a system where Everytime someone agrees to meet they add themselves to a meet (like an event on Facebook) then their appearance/disappearance is noted by the other person? Then their record of attendance is displayed publicly? Just a thought......"

A reliability rating is in theory a great idea but people would still find a way around it. It would need some heavyweight controls for it to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering if someone could give me some advice. I arranged a bukkake/gangbang for a female yesterday. I made sure I invited more guests than necessary (invited 10 when she wanted 6 max), checked all 10 were verified, but still NONE of the 10 showed up. I felt embarrassed that I'd let the woman down, and I had wasted three days playing e-mail ping-pong with around 15-20 guys

Is there anything we can do to sort this out? Surely it's time to start nameing and shaming....."
single guys moan about the bad press they get and u have to wonder why sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we go to a club for such things,the guys already there waiting,take ur pic then, we go to eureaka all ways guys there in numbers ready to wank for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever I arrange a bukkake I invite about 60 and tend to get somewhere between 10 and 20 show up.

Very hard work!

Susan... "
even so thats a poor show for the guys, esspecially as they keep bangin on at us for meets , give them a chance and they blow it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering if someone could give me some advice. I arranged a bukkake/gangbang for a female yesterday. I made sure I invited more guests than necessary (invited 10 when she wanted 6 max), checked all 10 were verified, but still NONE of the 10 showed up. I felt embarrassed that I'd let the woman down, and I had wasted three days playing e-mail ping-pong with around 15-20 guys

Is there anything we can do to sort this out? Surely it's time to start nameing and shaming....."

Dude take her a club at least you know they are up for it and always plenty to go around and you can still pick and choose who joins in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you cannot name and shame, however I do know of a little group that have set up a profile for these such occasions however, the downside is I am not sure they could travel to her if she is in Lancaster like you?

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By *ingerjoWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

hiya

what ive done for years is keep a log of there nick name and where there from and dont invite them again

ive invited 35 guys to gang bangs and had 4 show up

invited 12 to a meet and 1 showed up

there again i invited 40 to a gang bang at mine and 26 showed up

so it swings in round abouts how many to invite or not

good luck but dont let it put you off just carry on to the next party gang bang etc

thansk jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always make sure we plan things well in advance and I spend ages emailing and chatting to each. Then we organise a social to see how we all get along about a week before group play.

We've had 2 group meets so far and working on our third and always end up with more than we planned for

It's time consuming and I get fed up ing through the genuine from the fake but in the end it's worth it.

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By *ksecretguyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

hey everyone, i dont get it Why people arrange meets and dont turn up. Its hard enough (no pun intended) as a single guy to get noticed let alone get a meet set up. If i arrange i meet always. I think the score system is a good one. Verify sure but maybe a tick box system to say meet arranged and another to confirm met then you get a score of meets arranged against attended. Needs thought as to how it would work properly of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sorry not only for the lady but for you for taking the time to set it up this is exactly the kind of thing that ruins it for genuine people like myself and others on here.Maybe try a club next time

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By *ire186Man
over a year ago

near you

I have turned up to a meet before only for the woman to say oh forgot you were coming or even I thought you men't next week even when You say a date or see you Saturday when it's only Thursday ? ?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

A golden rul with single guys, especially when it comes to group settings like bukkake or greedy girl events is to invite 3 times the number you are looking to have attend.

Because unfortunately, more often than not, most won't show up. Sorry to hear you were on the wrong end of this.

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Idealy on only invite guys known to you,recomended by friends or have bukkake/gangbang veri's on their profile.Much better to have experienced guys for those type of play as they know what's expected + more likely to show up if they realy enjoy it than just interested in it!

Agree with others:a Club is best,either greedy girl night or check with management which mixed nights have a high attendence from single guys.You get the number, required by the lady, together in no time @ all

(susie)

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Invite loads more in future - two footy teams at least!

That way you'll at least get an MMF out of it!

Better luck next time

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know why guys do that. They mess it up for the rest of us genuine ones.

We dont have much free time, working most days but when we have some free time...we would love to let ourselves go and arrange a meet. But, due to the aforementioned - no luck in arranging meets!!

Sorry to hear that, but at least you tried your best to sort it..

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