FabSwingers.com forum: Spontaneous or Planned meets?

By *erbyGuy76 OP Man
over a year ago

Derby

I'm not much of a planner. I find it difficult to think "I'm going to be horny a week next Friday" so I much prefer a spontaneous meet.

How about you?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Much prefer planned, I had one spontaneous meet years ago when single and it wasn't good.

I prefer to build up a connection and then have a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Spontaneous

If planned no more than a week in advance.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Spontaneous is fine if we're already chatting.

Some complete rando who's never spoken to me before wanting a spontaneous meet can fuck off though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned for me.

Spontaneous if were met before is good. Occasionally have met for lunch and coffee etc etc if we’ve met before.

New meets - always a social first

The art of not thinking with your cock when it won’t shut up is something I’ve learnt

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By *erbyGuy76 OP Man
over a year ago

Derby

"Spontaneous is fine if we're already chatting.

Some complete rando who's never spoken to me before wanting a spontaneous meet can fuck off though

Yeah, I wasn't suggesting completely spontaneous meets with people you've just only just met. Just not prearranging more than say, a day in advance at the VERY most

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Depends. Sometimes I have to plan weeks ahead. Sometimes the person I want to meet has to sort childcare or whatever.

I don't mind enjoying the anticipation on a longer wait at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous hurts my addled neurodivergent brain

People who can't commit to a I'll be in the same county on X day at X time drive me nuts

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Spontaneous can be good. But planned is always best.

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

Have done both. I find that it's the people you meet who make it "good" or "bad" rather than the speed of arranging it.

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By *ilva69Man
over a year ago

stockport

Last two meetings have been spontaneous, which have been great

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By *har mouthfulMan
over a year ago

london

Spontaneous!

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Used to be spontaneous but now with less time it's usually planned

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By *edstockings2Couple
46 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Spontaneous as then it's more likely to happen as soon as it gets into week or more the chances are it's not going to work out.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
46 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

With can be as equally good and exciting

we do like spontaneous though

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

A healthy blend of both is best!

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Planned I cant just be having sex with a total random. It does nothing for me.

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By *ondiego85Man
46 weeks ago

nottingham

Most of the time, spontaneous. I find hard to plan more than a couple of days in advance

But that’s due to my “dynamics”

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
46 weeks ago

Leeds

Planned, we have little ones spontaneous isn't an option, plus I like to get to know someone before offering my vagina out.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I do like both, But.... Like you say I can't be excited about meeting someone in 3 weeks, dunno if I'm gunna be up for multiple fucks on that Saturday night

Mrs

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By *r SensualMan
46 weeks ago

London

Both do have their place and I’ve had some great spontaneous meets. However, I tend to sway more towards planned meets. I like to spend the time getting to know the other person, find out what makes them tick in the bedroom and build the anticipation…

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By *enatton2Couple
46 weeks ago

West Midlands

We’ve found we prefer spontaneous meets, Tani doesn’t like the long drawn out build up, plus we rarely know when we’ll actually be free as we have a hectic personal life.

Usually if we suddenly find ourselves available and playful, we’ll post on here then chat to those who message us that we like the look of, see who seems genuinely keen with no messing about or time wasting. Then go for it. We usually end up at their place or even outdoors or in the back of our car occasionally too

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By *icketToRudeCouple
46 weeks ago

Wellingborough

Planned, though for no more than a week and with those we've already been messaging... though when the plans start to fail, the thoughts of spontaneous meets and the wanton urge can make us feel like the spontaneity would be good, we're just not that confident!

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Both do work but spontaneous for me seems so much more exciting

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By *rNightMan
46 weeks ago

Coventry

Spontaneous is definitely for me. My windows of opportunity to play are few and far between

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By *ot to giggleWoman
46 weeks ago

Coventry

i like to.think i plan, then get horny and its spontaneous

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
46 weeks ago

Mid Glamorgan

Spontaneous now I have planned in past but always always goes tits up

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
46 weeks ago

Neath valley.

Planned always. After a few spontaneous ones that went tits up we only do planned meets now.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
46 weeks ago

wonderland.

"I'm not much of a planner. I find it difficult to think "I'm going to be horny a week next Friday" so I much prefer a spontaneous meet.

How about you?"
we prefer spontaneous... nothing pre planned

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By *23RouteCouple
46 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Spontaneous mostly xx

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By *urora1912Woman
46 weeks ago

Norfolk East anglia

"A healthy blend of both is best! "

Agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Spontaneous are more fun

But I mostly plan

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