FabSwingers.com forum: First meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guess like many a single guy on here I’m struggling to get that first meet, any help advice?

Feel like I need a verification for people to take me seriously, but that’s a bit like which came first the chicken or the egg.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there before!!! All you can do is keep plugging away, get on the cams, active in the forums and get to clubs- that’s all you can do

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here 8 weeks

However, don't make the goal about getting a meet. Concentrate on being a decent person, reading profiles, sending good messages. The meet will follow

By *neplusserMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

If you can, get yourself down to a club. It took me a while to, but I went to a party where from there I was able to mingle and get verified by multiple people, even if I didn’t actually play with all of them. Your profile says that your open to clubs but would like someone to take you first. Unfortunately as an unverified user that’s unlikely to happen. You’re going to have to just brave it alone to start with. Honestly they’re not as intimidating as they first seem.

If you’re capable of holding a normal conversation in messages to start with, I promise it’ll stand you out from the long list of single guys who simply fill couples/women’s inbox with cock pics, plenty opportunities for the naughty conversations to develop later but I find it much better to highlight something specific that you like on someone’s profile, whether that’s a particular pic or something they’ve written. Again, helps to separate you from the copy and pasters. Hope that helps

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys and everyone that’s been in touch fingers crossed I can progress from here