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By *thDevonman OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnstaple

As I browse the site and look at profiles there are so many men and woman that look amazing and I often feel that they are totally out of my league and I would definitely be punching lol so why bother sending a message and a pic . And the size of some of the cocks , makes my eyes water just looking . I know confidence comes in to it but that initial attraction also does so it’s getting over that initial hurdle just to chat. Guess it’s no different to the real world.

Anyone else have the same confidence issue in sending messages ?

Im one of triplets . Im off now to catch up with my brothers Quasimodo and Shrek ??

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

Giant cocks put me off. Just saying.

Mrs

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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby


"Giant cocks put me off. Just saying.

Mrs"

Same here if honest.

Like my insides as they are lol x

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By *iHungMikeMan
over a year ago

Shaw

It's nice to get a reply sometimes and there are some great looking guys and ladies on here and here's hoping

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By *CLM87Woman
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"As I browse the site and look at profiles there are so many men and woman that look amazing and I often feel that they are totally out of my league and I would definitely be punching lol so why bother sending a message and a pic . And the size of some of the cocks , makes my eyes water just looking . I know confidence comes in to it but that initial attraction also does so it’s getting over that initial hurdle just to chat. Guess it’s no different to the real world.

Anyone else have the same confidence issue in sending messages ?

Im one of triplets . Im off now to catch up with my brothers Quasimodo and Shrek ??"

Totally with you on the out of my league thing...

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth


"Giant cocks put me off. Just saying.

Mrs"

Often not as they seem, camera angle can flatter

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By *iHungMikeMan
over a year ago

Shaw


"As I browse the site and look at profiles there are so many men and woman that look amazing and I often feel that they are totally out of my league and I would definitely be punching lol so why bother sending a message and a pic . And the size of some of the cocks , makes my eyes water just looking . I know confidence comes in to it but that initial attraction also does so it’s getting over that initial hurdle just to chat. Guess it’s no different to the real world.

Anyone else have the same confidence issue in sending messages ?

Im one of triplets . Im off now to catch up with my brothers Quasimodo and Shrek ??

Totally with you on the out of my league thing... "

Have to say you look amazing btw hope you don't mind me saying x

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By *thDevonman OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnstaple


"As I browse the site and look at profiles there are so many men and woman that look amazing and I often feel that they are totally out of my league and I would definitely be punching lol so why bother sending a message and a pic . And the size of some of the cocks , makes my eyes water just looking . I know confidence comes in to it but that initial attraction also does so it’s getting over that initial hurdle just to chat. Guess it’s no different to the real world.

Anyone else have the same confidence issue in sending messages ?

Im one of triplets . Im off now to catch up with my brothers Quasimodo and Shrek ??

Totally with you on the out of my league thing... "

Well I have conferred with my brothers and consensus is you are premiership to our national conference league . I have no idea about football but believe they are correct leagues lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge cocks make me grimace.

I never used to worry about " league's" i have a healthy envy for woman with long fit legs. Mine are short, fat and look like kebabs on a skewer, but there really is someone for everyone. Everyone has different beautiful attributes.

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By *thDevonman OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnstaple


"Giant cocks put me off. Just saying.

Mrs"

Me to. ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I browse the site and look at profiles there are so many men and woman that look amazing and I often feel that they are totally out of my league and I would definitely be punching lol so why bother sending a message and a pic . And the size of some of the cocks , makes my eyes water just looking . I know confidence comes in to it but that initial attraction also does so it’s getting over that initial hurdle just to chat. Guess it’s no different to the real world.

Anyone else have the same confidence issue in sending messages ?

Im one of triplets . Im off now to catch up with my brothers Quasimodo and Shrek ??"

Your cock is massive and you're a good looking bloke.

Clearly not identical triplets.

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By *thDevonman OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnstaple


"Giant cocks put me off. Just saying.

Mrs

Same here if honest.

Like my insides as they are lol x"

Oh I totally agree . Surely there is too small aswell ? Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There aren't leagues unless you put yourself in one. I don't think it's a good idea to assume you know what other people find attractive.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Huge dicks, the Mrs sees them as a challenge. She's abit of a size queen and will refuse anything below 7-8 inches, she says she like to feel her guts rearranged.

However, as a general, she's not confident, she'll rarely send the first message and doesn't approach people unless she already know them at clubs/events. Totally different side if it's kink based, her alter ego comes out.

I think it's pretty normal really for alot of people to feel nervous and worry they aren't enough.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

There is no such thing as "out of someone's league"

Anyone who thinks someone is out of their league needs to climb off that high horse before they fall and break their neck!

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

Don't think it's a matter of leagues, sometimes I don't think we are playing the same game, Mrs x

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By *thDevonman OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnstaple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks you. But it’s not that big . Must say I love your profile and verifications lol. "

If you use the Reply + Quote button people will know it's me you're complimenting.

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By *thDevonman OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnstaple


"As I browse the site and look at profiles there are so many men and woman that look amazing and I often feel that they are totally out of my league and I would definitely be punching lol so why bother sending a message and a pic . And the size of some of the cocks , makes my eyes water just looking . I know confidence comes in to it but that initial attraction also does so it’s getting over that initial hurdle just to chat. Guess it’s no different to the real world.

Anyone else have the same confidence issue in sending messages ?

Im one of triplets . Im off now to catch up with my brothers Quasimodo and Shrek ??

Your cock is massive and you're a good looking bloke.

Clearly not identical triplets."

Thank you. But it’s not that big . Must say I love your profile and verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I browse the site and look at profiles there are so many men and woman that look amazing and I often feel that they are totally out of my league and I would definitely be punching lol so why bother sending a message and a pic . And the size of some of the cocks , makes my eyes water just looking . I know confidence comes in to it but that initial attraction also does so it’s getting over that initial hurdle just to chat. Guess it’s no different to the real world.

Anyone else have the same confidence issue in sending messages ?

Im one of triplets . Im off now to catch up with my brothers Quasimodo and Shrek ??

Your cock is massive and you're a good looking bloke.

Clearly not identical triplets.

Thank you. But it’s not that big . Must say I love your profile and verifications. "

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I don’t get the idea of leagues. People are people and there is no one definition of “attractive” that everyone agrees on.

OP - just say hi to people you like and be normal (that’s real life normal not fab normal). You will be surprised at who responds.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"As I browse the site and look at profiles there are so many men and woman that look amazing and I often feel that they are totally out of my league and I would definitely be punching lol so why bother sending a message and a pic . And the size of some of the cocks , makes my eyes water just looking . I know confidence comes in to it but that initial attraction also does so it’s getting over that initial hurdle just to chat. Guess it’s no different to the real world.

Anyone else have the same confidence issue in sending messages ?

Im one of triplets . Im off now to catch up with my brothers Quasimodo and Shrek ??"
,,, quasi and shrek two top guys

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

The problem I have with the idea of leagues is that then if someone approaches me is it simply because they think I'm unattractive enough to consider sleeping with them, since they would be afraid to approach someone out of their league?

Some people focus a lot on aesthetics, there's a lot more to people than that

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've seen people here who like to project an image of superiority or think that some are beneath them but I've never once seen a profile here that I thought was out of my league.

I don't believe in leagues and just speak to everyone as an equal.

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

Oh yea I feel the same, looking and reading the profiles of the sexy women on here, way above my League, most of them so I'd certainly be punching above, even though I have seen a few local to near me, & send them a picture ( but Not cock pic ) but hardly had any replies seems on the wrong site !!!

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By *thDevonman OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnstaple


"Thanks you. But it’s not that big . Must say I love your profile and verifications lol.

If you use the Reply + Quote button people will know it's me you're complimenting. "

I know . See can’t even get the technology but right. Been relegated even further ??

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Depends what you count as "out of my league"

I wouldn't of sent messages to a Woman/couple if her partner or previous meets are Men 6ft plus model like looks, gym bodies or huge cock

Same as I wouldn't of met up with a Woman who classed herself as a plus size Woman etc, That's what I count as "out of my league" Everybody is looking for someone different so there is always someone out there for everyone

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would feel a bit dejected if someone who felt there were leagues that were too good for them contacted me to meet. It would obviously mean they felt I wasn't all that

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By *pandjMan
over a year ago

Sparkford


"Huge cocks make me grimace.

I never used to worry about " league's" i have a healthy envy for woman with long fit legs. Mine are short, fat and look like kebabs on a skewer, but there really is someone for everyone. Everyone has different beautiful attributes. "

That bum tho....

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"There is no such thing as "out of someone's league"

Anyone who thinks someone is out of their league needs to climb off that high horse before they fall and break their neck! "

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

When I was younger I used to think sexiness came from physical looks, as I got older I realised that sexiness comes from within (and especially from the mind).

So I no longer think of leagues, instead I look for true sexiness

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

I dont have a problem of someone being out of my league i have n problem of always wanting to satisfying other ppl when we meet. If i dont perform good i feel like i have let every one down.

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