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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone really play

So many dreamers

Julie

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

We love BDSM..

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Does anyone really play

So many dreamers

Julie"

Yes they do. You've met a few men it seems. Who are you struggling to meet? Couples into BDSM? Not sure that comes across in your profile. Also BDSM is big term covering a multitude of sins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife and I do.

She's submissive and masochistic adores punishment, etc takes her to a whole different high.

Things have got more intense over the years.

Her big beautiful ass is being the marked of my loving last night.

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

We do when life permits, and we have our own playroom.

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

We have many whips and paddles etc and the wife loves it when I tie her up and use them on her..

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By *ylonlickMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I love BDSM and play , big turn on for me x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

BD yes. SM big yes. Ds no.

Plenty of people are involved on here. But most of them have accounts on more focused sites for that sort of play.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Would love to watch it in real life ??

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By *annabarberaCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

We do and will be going to our favourite event on the 3rd Dec Shamed @ Xtasia

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

Yeps... we do... active in the NW scene

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

So tempted

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We enjoy it, in most forms.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

There's loads of dynamics within the BDSM kink yet everyone is saying yeah.

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

Because the question was ... 'does anyone'... not ... 'detail what you do' perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not into the sm elements but defo the bd part, I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I play at it…definitely not

Do I like it with someone I know and trust and create that connection and bond…yes definitely

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

We like restraint, the tease, sensory deprivation but don't do pain, gentle spanking is fine though

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Not into the sm elements but defo the bd part, I think "

Shows poor knowledge. As a previous poster stated there are three paired elements.

I love BD (bondage and discipline) and Ds (domination and submission). Not into SM (sadism and masochism)

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I'm into lots of kinky fun.

And I agree there are many posers and confused folk who think rough bad sex, choking and spitting on you makes them a Dom (and probably call themselves Alpha too)

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Not into the sm elements but defo the bd part, I think

Shows poor knowledge. As a previous poster stated there are three paired elements.

I love BD (bondage and discipline) and Ds (domination and submission). Not into SM (sadism and masochism)"

Have to disagree there. Bondage can just be bondage with no discipline element, although admittedly they often go together. I think there are a great many people out there who just enjoy bondage in a light way with no other element/dynamic involved.

As such I think it perfectly reasonably to be into bondage and domination but not sm and pain. Some of these theoretical classifications get a bit too carried away at times. I was at a party last night in a small dungeon with with 10 people doing various things - not sure many would have been able to classify precisely what they were doing very well in the heat of the moment but it was great fun

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By *annyboy1980Man
over a year ago

Rochdale


"Does anyone really play

So many dreamers

Julie"

Yes I couldn’t live without it if I’m honest, total submissive bi male who thrives on humiliation, punishment and giving away control !have to agree tho there are so many people who claim to be involvedin the scene but actually haven’t a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, though I think it was mentioned earlier, other sites are used

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Not into the sm elements but defo the bd part, I think

Shows poor knowledge. As a previous poster stated there are three paired elements.

I love BD (bondage and discipline) and Ds (domination and submission). Not into SM (sadism and masochism)

Have to disagree there. Bondage can just be bondage with no discipline element, although admittedly they often go together. I think there are a great many people out there who just enjoy bondage in a light way with no other element/dynamic involved.

As such I think it perfectly reasonably to be into bondage and domination but not sm and pain. Some of these theoretical classifications get a bit too carried away at times. I was at a party last night in a small dungeon with with 10 people doing various things - not sure many would have been able to classify precisely what they were doing very well in the heat of the moment but it was great fun "

None of them have to be paired - it is simply explaining the acronym which consists of three pairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to chat if you ever fancy it x

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
over a year ago

Hinckley

I love it

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By *addyyBoyyCouple (MM)
over a year ago

stoke on trent

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By *addyyBoyyCouple (MM)
over a year ago

stoke on trent

We live it. It's a huge part of our relationship, my boy is very sub and I'm very dom.

We wouldn't be able to be ourselves without it

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By *iercedboy71Man
over a year ago

Dewsbury

Have my own playroom, so yes I love to play.....

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I love Female Domination, not into the Dungeons and pain

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Love BDSM, it's the main thing I'm looking for in a meet.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish


"Does anyone really play

So many dreamers

Julie"

Yes…. Look at the profile

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish


"Yep. I'm into lots of kinky fun.

And I agree there are many posers and confused folk who think rough bad sex, choking and spitting on you makes them a Dom (and probably call themselves Alpha too) "

This judging by some of the messages we get is 100% accurate

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Very much so when I get the opportunity. Been in the BDSM scene for 20+ years.

Thing is though, I think I lot of people here are just into kinky sex, which is fine, but isn't what I'd consider BDSM personally. I think people looking for more 'serious' BDSM, would look on a site dedicated to that.

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