FabSwingers.com forum: couples pictures

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so question for couples:

how many body shots to you have on your profile of Mr (not just the obligatory cock shot) compared to pictures of Mrs.

its something my lady regularly complains about when looking at couples profiles that in a lot you can only see the ladies.

discuss!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

He's in every one except 1.

We're a couple we meet together our pics represent that.

The one he's not in is one I did because I was pissed off with the body shaming threads.

It's one of my pet hates on couples profiles having an invisible man, I don't do blind date or nagging for pics.

Mrs

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

As Mr doesn't play with others, we have 100% pics if Mrs M.

We all use our profiles as we choose and shouldn't accept the opinions of others trying to influence what we do.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

as we mostly looking for mfm as to me more of wife photos

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

I like taking and posting pics on my single profile so obviously I'm going to have some on this profile also which is all about both of us as equals.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"so question for couples:

how many body shots to you have on your profile of Mr (not just the obligatory cock shot) compared to pictures of Mrs.

its something my lady regularly complains about when looking at couples profiles that in a lot you can only see the ladies.

discuss!"

At a guess we have 90% Mrs photo's, 10% Mr.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As Mr doesn't play with others, we have 100% pics if Mrs M.

We all use our profiles as we choose and shouldn't accept the opinions of others trying to influence what we do."

if mr doesnt play, do you find it difficult viewing couples profiles looking for the male half to play with given that theres so few pictures of them or do you just stick to singles profiles?

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
over a year ago

Stoke

1 of him to every 3 of mine roughly, it's our pet hate too.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"As Mr doesn't play with others, we have 100% pics if Mrs M.

We all use our profiles as we choose and shouldn't accept the opinions of others trying to influence what we do.

if mr doesnt play, do you find it difficult viewing couples profiles looking for the male half to play with given that theres so few pictures of them or do you just stick to singles profiles?"

We use Fab as a window, but rarely arrange a meet from on here.

We prefer to see what the person / people are actually like so a club will always win for us.

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By *ARKblondeCouple
over a year ago

london

We have more of Mrs, but we think we have plenty of couple shots, shots of Mr and a few fearuring guest stars

Couple profiles with no dudes is just irritating, first message - "can we see the mister?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so question for couples:

how many body shots to you have on your profile of Mr (not just the obligatory cock shot) compared to pictures of Mrs.

its something my lady regularly complains about when looking at couples profiles that in a lot you can only see the ladies.

discuss!"

We keep ours pretty equal. No cock and foof shots though. Not our thing. R

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

We have slightly more of me, but enough good clear couple and separate photo shots of us both for people to see who they're getting. So I don't see it as an issue.

But yes it absolutely grinds my gears when couples message us asking for photos of us, yet have non of the guy, or send shit miles off photos wearing sunglasses...I'm straight, so photos of the guy are vital as I don't do blind dates!

I can understand couples having no photos of the guy if he doesn't play as it's moot what he looks like in them cases. But then people need to read bios so they would know this.

Mrs

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

They’d quiet a few of me, but more of Mrs. Probably because I’m the one taking the pics. I prefer to use my DSLR as give better resolution over mobile phones (my opinion) and I like to take pics of SW but don’t do it often enough.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Our pictures are mostly of me as I'm the one that plays. Mr NC prefers to watch at the moment. If that ever changes, then they'll be more of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They’d quiet a few of me, but more of Mrs. Probably because I’m the one taking the pics. I prefer to use my DSLR as give better resolution over mobile phones (my opinion) and I like to take pics of SW but don’t do it often enough. "

And she is absolutely stunning….. love the artistic ones too

S xxx

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

We are guilty of this. It does say in our profile that I (the Mr) tend to take more of a back seat during meets so I don't feel too bad about it.

Slimming-World = growing in confidence so maybe this will change.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

We try and keep ours balanced - but tog is much better at taking pics than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so question for couples:

how many body shots to you have on your profile of Mr (not just the obligatory cock shot) compared to pictures of Mrs.

its something my lady regularly complains about when looking at couples profiles that in a lot you can only see the ladies.

discuss!"

I don’t like my pic being online so there aren’t many of me. Also really I’m a cuckquean at heart so our profile pretty much reflects that in the pic is of him and I’m the chatterbox trying to sort out my cuckquean tendencies

He hasn’t been on here in that long that I had to remind him of the log ins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so question for couples:

how many body shots to you have on your profile of Mr (not just the obligatory cock shot) compared to pictures of Mrs.

its something my lady regularly complains about when looking at couples profiles that in a lot you can only see the ladies.

discuss!

We keep ours pretty equal. No cock and foof shots though. Not our thing. R"

Same. I’m not a fan of genital pics - I do enjoy looking at boobies though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have slightly more of me, but enough good clear couple and separate photo shots of us both for people to see who they're getting. So I don't see it as an issue.

I can understand couples having no photos of the guy if he doesn't play as it's moot what he looks like in them cases. But then people need to read bios so they would know this.

Mrs"

I (Mrs) fully agree with you on this I am straight to so seeing just pictures of the woman on the profile does nothing for me. Then when you ask for photos and the amount of times we have just been sent pics of the female of the couple like that's all that matters is really annoying. I am not down for taking one for the team what's the point if you won't enjoy it and am very like you this is not blind date it's crazy how many times I reply that in messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have far more of the Mrs than the Mr, however we do have the profile set out to match our requirements, as we are predominantly focused on the Mrs.

Long story short, Mr has more experience in this scene, and Mrs is keen to catch up and enjoy many aspects Mr has already enjoyed.

We are in different places regarding swinging.

So Mr intends to take a step back to allow Mrs to find her way, to learn her boundaries, as she's never experienced a partner of hers with another woman.

Once Mrs has enough experience and has a better idea of her boundaries regarding Mr and others, then we'll adapt profile to match.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

People post whatever photographs they like and which work for them. If those photos, or the balance of those photos, don't work for someone else it's just too bad. There are plenty of other profiles to choose from.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Photos of darling wife far out weigh the number of photos of me but there are a few. Mainly due to my dislike of my image. Secondly that I love her body and third but not least most people ask if they want to see more.

All that said

We agree with other comments each to their own how we choose to run our account is our business.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Did not know a cock shot is obligatory for Fab couples. I'll crack on with it asap

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

And she is absolutely stunning….. love the artistic ones too

S xxx"

Oh thank you

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"We have far more of the Mrs than the Mr, however we do have the profile set out to match our requirements, as we are predominantly focused on the Mrs.

Long story short, Mr has more experience in this scene, and Mrs is keen to catch up and enjoy many aspects Mr has already enjoyed.

We are in different places regarding swinging.

So Mr intends to take a step back to allow Mrs to find her way, to learn her boundaries, as she's never experienced a partner of hers with another woman.

Once Mrs has enough experience and has a better idea of her boundaries regarding Mr and others, then we'll adapt profile to match.

Your profile looks great!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so the majority of people commenting are presumably looking for single guys which is why they dont advertise mr much in the pictures, however very few comments from couples looking for both parties (with a notable exception).

as one comment said its like blind date!

why is there an imbalance on the vast majority of couples profiles yet alot say not looking for single guys. does this make any sense to you?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"so the majority of people commenting are presumably looking for single guys which is why they dont advertise mr much in the pictures, however very few comments from couples looking for both parties (with a notable exception).

as one comment said its like blind date!

why is there an imbalance on the vast majority of couples profiles yet alot say not looking for single guys. does this make any sense to you?"

Yes. As I said, people use their profile for their purposes, not yours. They don't have to give their reasons to anyone.

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By *umandshareUSCouple
over a year ago

neath

Ours is alot of me (female) due to the fact Hubby loves to watch but also he's not as comfortable as iam with pics either but will always send privately if asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only have around 5 or 6 of me but then we are mostly after guys to play with Miss P

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ours is alot of me (female) due to the fact Hubby loves to watch but also he's not as comfortable as iam with pics either but will always send privately if asked "

so do you think that guys not being comfortable with their bodies could be a big factor in the decision not to post pictures to attract a full couple rather than just a guy drooling over mrs pictures?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

as one comment said its like blind date!

why is there an imbalance on the vast majority of couples profiles yet alot say not looking for single guys. does this make any sense to you?

Yes. As I said, people use their profile for their purposes, not yours. They don't have to give their reasons to anyone. "

no they dont have to explain to anyone, but when you have a couples profile that says no single guys yet all photos are of mrs, dont you find it a little odd?

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

We’re only looking for guys generally so 90% pics of her.

We see this same ratio on profiles actively seeking couples though too

Must be a slog.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

There are more of C on our profile as she gets more attention than I do. That said there’s plenty of me on our profile in the pics we’ve got on the profile and friends pics.

A lot of couples seem to think just having a cock pic for the guy, when they are both playing, is standard.

We all do FAB differently we just don’t bother interacting with profiles that don’t appeal to both of us as we’ve found out that asking for more pics just starts the conversation off in the wrong way.

We are here for fun and so anything that’s hard work we just rule out.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

as one comment said its like blind date!

why is there an imbalance on the vast majority of couples profiles yet alot say not looking for single guys. does this make any sense to you?

Yes. As I said, people use their profile for their purposes, not yours. They don't have to give their reasons to anyone.

no they dont have to explain to anyone, but when you have a couples profile that says no single guys yet all photos are of mrs, dont you find it a little odd?"

No. They just don't want to be inundated with messages from single guys, but are happy to look for themselves.

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We try to keep ours even it’s just Shaz looks so much better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have slightly more of me, but enough good clear couple and separate photo shots of us both for people to see who they're getting. So I don't see it as an issue.

I can understand couples having no photos of the guy if he doesn't play as it's moot what he looks like in them cases. But then people need to read bios so they would know this.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as one comment said its like blind date!

why is there an imbalance on the vast majority of couples profiles yet alot say not looking for single guys. does this make any sense to you?

Yes. As I said, people use their profile for their purposes, not yours. They don't have to give their reasons to anyone. "

Then why comment?

The thread is literally about finding out why. A discussion.

Couples looking for couples. It's an incredibly simple question.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

At present in public pics 26 of Mrs B and 4 of Mr B (more in friends pics).

Too few?

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We've got a pretty even split across both out galleries to be honest.

• 16 of A

• 17 of C

• 4 of both together

We feel its important to have fairly equal representation on a couples page but entirely understandable points have been made above. It all depends on what you're looking for at the end of the day.

C x

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"At present in public pics 26 of Mrs B and 4 of Mr B (more in friends pics).

Too few?"

As long the pics of Mr show his body and not just his cock, then that’s fine by us.

A lot of couples profile just have cock pics of the guys, like that’s all they are about. C wants to see the rest of the body as that’s what’s going to entice her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At present in public pics 26 of Mrs B and 4 of Mr B (more in friends pics).

Too few?

As long the pics of Mr show his body and not just his cock, then that’s fine by us.

A lot of couples profile just have cock pics of the guys, like that’s all they are about. C wants to see the rest of the body as that’s what’s going to entice her.

exactly this, looking for a 4 way attraction, not 3 way and a blind date

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

We have 20 of my other half and several of us together on our joint profile.

We both meet, so we show plenty of us both.

Plus it's a bugbear of mine that so many profiles looking to meet couples, have only pics of the lady and don't include any of him when they message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a couple looking for full swap with couples and they only have pics of the woman, the man is likely an absolute hideous munter and he's hoping he'll get a sympathy fuck so the other bloke can shag his decent looking wife.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"At present in public pics 26 of Mrs B and 4 of Mr B (more in friends pics).

Too few?

As long the pics of Mr show his body and not just his cock, then that’s fine by us.

A lot of couples profile just have cock pics of the guys, like that’s all they are about. C wants to see the rest of the body as that’s what’s going to entice her.

Yep. No close up genitals pics in our profile full stop. Our profile is not a butcher’s shop window

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

to many pics of gaping vaginas and bottom holes , usually with butt plugs in.

personally i dont find them very sttractive , classy or appealing.

i kinda like a dressed pic flashing a bit of boob , leg , stocking top etc.

leave something to the imagination type pics work for me .

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By *errykezmasCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We only have 1 of us both, most of the interest we get is pics of kez, maybe we should add more?

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By *errykezmasCouple
over a year ago

Telford

"We only have 1 of us both, most of the interest we get is pics of kez, maybe we should add more?"

We also prefer more classy photos to look at.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

It's probably an even split. There might even be a few more of me because I'm a flagrant attention whore

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's in every one except 1.

We're a couple we meet together our pics represent that.

The one he's not in is one I did because I was pissed off with the body shaming threads.

It's one of my pet hates on couples profiles having an invisible man, I don't do blind date or nagging for pics.

Mrs"

Guilty as charged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have many with Mr as up to now we've only really been looking for MFM so it felt kind of unnecessary.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

21 in total that are public. 2 of M, 13 of B and the rest both of us. We may add more later, but for now it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MrB is in quite a few of ours , it’s only fair we can both be seen xx

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Well we don't believe it's a game of blind date and Mr Misfit is just as important in this as Mrs Misfit is (as we both like to be actively involved). We likewise like a profile to show off the guy too, because guys are important too. Mrs Misfit very much wants to see the guy in a profile and a lack of images of the guy (or a sense the guy is being deliberately hidden) can lead to us passing a profile by.

We like to think we have a good variety of photos of both of us individually and to together. In our public gallery there is at least 13 pictures where Mr Misfit is clearly visible. Of which 7 are individual full body pictures of Mr Misfit. Obviously in a addition we have plenty more with our faces in our freinds only gallery.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

There's more of me than Cal as well as a few of us together.

We come as a pair so makes sense to have photos of us both... we really need to get round to updating them though.

Nita

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