FabSwingers.com forum: Lost interest

By *asycouple1971 OP Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Been about 6 months since our last meet.

We still get alot of offers and still keep in contact with a few of the past meets.

Getting to the stage where Im not fussed anymore about meeting.

Anyone else feel the same?

We are both still very sexualy active and still have sex together but feel its time to hang up the pleaser heels.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I go through peaks and troughs of clubbing. No harm in taking a break and if you want to come back, you can

I come and go a lot, lifes busy too this isn’t a priority for me.

I just keep in contact with friends and if something takes my fancy I’ll attend

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By *ikerjohn123Man
over a year ago

Whickham

It's hard work. Take a break when you need to. And walk away if that's what you feel

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"It's hard work. Take a break when you need to. And walk away if that's what you feel"

Best way

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

We’ve been more into random club visits than actually arranging individual meets lately but we may come back around.

Seems a lot of bother for a limited reward at the moment.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"We’ve been more into random club visits than actually arranging individual meets lately but we may come back around.

Seems a lot of bother for a limited reward at the moment. "

Totally agree.. These days... Hard work tbh x

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By *exysoul888TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

"We’ve been more into random club visits than actually arranging individual meets lately but we may come back around.

Seems a lot of bother for a limited reward at the moment. "

I go of phases of just club meets / meets with friends, and trying to arrange new meets. Sometimes it feels like you are putting in a lot of time and effort and getting no thanks for it. Then I step back, possibly hiding my profile, and wait till I "feel" it again

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By *ickv1Man
over a year ago

Chatham

Yep my fwb has lost interest in meeting others. It happens. No point pushing things although I know she would enjoy if she tried again.

As others have said, probably good to take a break and come back when and if fancy playing again. Or just chat and see if interest is perked up again.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

Can’t say I’ve had that problem, I’ve only had one meet, but I am getting bored of the site

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I have a friend who has lost interest..it happens

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By *asygoingcouple2022Couple
over a year ago

The moon

It does happen x I took very ill years ago and when I was well enough to come back to the life I felt I couldn’t be bothered x so went to clubs for a while x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through phases, I think it's really normal.

I take breaks mighr not come on for a few weeks or might not attend a club for ages then I start again.

Life can get in the way,stress, health etc.

Libido can be a funny thing and it swings in roundabouts ha.

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By *asycouple1971 OP Couple
over a year ago

midlands

"We’ve been more into random club visits than actually arranging individual meets lately but we may come back around.

Seems a lot of bother for a limited reward at the moment. "

Thats how we are feeling as well.

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