FabSwingers.com forum: Why?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Little bit of a pet fab hate.

When someone asks if you want to meet and you politely decline with a no and they continue to message asking why. Further emphasising why it was a no.

Does anyone else have this pet peeve?

Or are you a why kinda girl/guy?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, we're a block if you don't take no for an answer type of couple

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By *atchmoMan
over a year ago

Upminster

At least you had the decency to respond...

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By *xeterCandRCouple
over a year ago

Digby & Sowton, Exeter

"At least you had the decency to respond...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm a block without discussion kind of woman. They are wished well and kept away, if they even get a reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, we're a block if you don't take no for an answer type of couple "

This might be the way forward.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Little bit of a pet fab hate.

When someone asks if you want to meet and you politely decline with a no and they continue to message asking why. Further emphasising why it was a no.

Does anyone else have this pet peeve?

Or are you a why kinda girl/guy?"

It's best to not reply in the first place as many don't take kindly to rejection. What's happened to you doesn't happen to us as we simply don't reply if not interested.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

The best is not to reply and delete the message.

It’s covered in website FAQs so no reply is a reply in itself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Little bit of a pet fab hate.

When someone asks if you want to meet and you politely decline with a no and they continue to message asking why. Further emphasising why it was a no.

Does anyone else have this pet peeve?

Or are you a why kinda girl/guy?

It's best to not reply in the first place as many don't take kindly to rejection. What's happened to you doesn't happen to us as we simply don't reply if not interested."

Fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The best is not to reply and delete the message.

It’s covered in website FAQs so no reply is a reply in itself."

Thanks for that.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

If it’s a “not for us” and they message back asking why, we tell them why, in a very honest way.

Normally results in us being blocked !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it’s a “not for us” and they message back asking why, we tell them why, in a very honest way.

Normally results in us being blocked !

Hahaha might have to try this one

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It does make you tempted to reply with:

It's a no thanks and no further correspondence will be entered into

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I’ve answered some whys? in a very direct manner. Honesty is important and feedback is the food of champions.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Little bit of a pet fab hate.

When someone asks if you want to meet and you politely decline with a no and they continue to message asking why. Further emphasising why it was a no.

Does anyone else have this pet peeve?

Or are you a why kinda girl/guy?"

I reply and say if they can't take "no" for an answer they are disrespectful and can't be trusted - definitely not anyone I would feel safe meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Little bit of a pet fab hate.

When someone asks if you want to meet and you politely decline with a no and they continue to message asking why. Further emphasising why it was a no.

Does anyone else have this pet peeve?

Or are you a why kinda girl/guy?

I reply and say if they can't take "no" for an answer they are disrespectful and can't be trusted - definitely not anyone I would feel safe meeting."

This is how we look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to go into great detail if asked why i wont meet when I've politely said no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love to go into great detail if asked why i wont meet when I've politely said no. "

Haha I imagine your replies don’t go down so well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to go into great detail if asked why i wont meet when I've politely said no.

Haha I imagine your replies don’t go down so well?"

Unfortunately not. When i re-message to inquire if they are ok I'm blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to go into great detail if asked why i wont meet when I've politely said no.

Haha I imagine your replies don’t go down so well?"

Hit the BLOCK.. and no-one will never ever know

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I just block and move on this doesn't always work because later they change their mind then you need to hunt through the block list to find them and need to unblock others to accomplish this

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

"Little bit of a pet fab hate.

When someone asks if you want to meet and you politely decline with a no and they continue to message asking why. Further emphasising why it was a no.

Does anyone else have this pet peeve?

Or are you a why kinda girl/guy?

It's best to not reply in the first place as many don't take kindly to rejection. What's happened to you doesn't happen to us as we simply don't reply if not interested."

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"No, we're a block if you don't take no for an answer type of couple "

^ This

LvM

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If I send a no thanks now, I block straight away so they can't come back with any why nots or abuse.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"If it’s a “not for us” and they message back asking why, we tell them why, in a very honest way.

Normally results in us being blocked !

I do the same. Maybe if they are the opposite to what you seek then they read profiles in the future.

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