FabSwingers.com forum: Instant turn off

By *aptain Caveman41 OP Man
over a year ago

Home

What stops you in your tracks

For me it's the term "daddy" it sends a Cold shiver down my spine

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Hairy... I get a shudder!!

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Hairy... I get a shudder!! "

I’m quite a fan of hairy!

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I just can't.. haha

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"I just can't.. haha"

Totally fair enough!

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Single guys sending messages as couples and sharing wife pictures, probably without consent, instead of having a genuine couple accounts.

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

The word LADY.

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Bad breath

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By *emma200Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Dirty fingernails… and if they message using the word lol

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By *udy3Man
over a year ago

Corby

Bad breath or a horrible accent . Also no sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The term daddy really does make me baulk

Bad breath is honestly awful and makes me not even want to talk to that person let alone anything else.

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By *heswanMan
over a year ago

Mansfield

Un hygienic people,

Dirty nails,

Clothes in the background of pics,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soz now but...............

F'Ugly Dick Pics Virtually Shoved In My Face

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By *overs4loversCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Anyone who describes themselves as a “bull” ewwwww. So many messages from guys who describe themselves as “strong bull” or “power bull” (actual recent message that one)….just ick ick ick

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

For me, it's sissies and everyone that assumes I am a sub.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Bad teeth

Dirty nails

Bad hygiene overall

Sometimes the way they dress too.

Mrs

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Aberdare

Being asked for Kik or Telegram 2 messages in

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By *anillaboyMan
over a year ago

london

Bad hygienic people and rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being asked lots of personal questions by a total random online stranger ....almost like an interrogation....

Also

A total random online stranger striking up sex talk when zero connection or spark or chemistry & expects me to take part....that's just creepy & freaky to me....

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By *ustyb555Couple
over a year ago

leeds

People who message who havn't read our profile

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By *erryGoldMan
over a year ago

Redditch

No sense of humor

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

Another one for the term Daddy. Just does not work. Instant switch off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoking.

Copulation pictures where socks are being worn.

Poor dental hygiene.

Poor grammar and punctuation.

Background pictures of unkempt houses.

Pictures of stained bed linen

To name but a few

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Calling me hun or baby or any similar pet name when we've never spoken.

Sending cock pics in messages.

Sending really graphic cringey messages.

Wuu2

U free

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"What stops you in your tracks

For me it's the term "daddy" it sends a Cold shiver down my spine "

Daddy, Alpha, Dom. Guys bragging on their profile about how big their cock size or how they can lick pussy for hours

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By *ayxWoman
over a year ago

brentwood

The term Daddy

Bad hygiene

Pushy and constant messages

One line pointless messages

Hairy privates men or women

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By *ttached_monkeyMan
over a year ago

Sale

Arsehole pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socks on especially on a loo shot.

Lack of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dramatic, Needy Women....They're About....

Wreck the heads they are

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By *antsanddorsetMan
over a year ago

southampton

bad breath - instant game over

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By *andd_bicoupleCouple
over a year ago

wilmslow

"Being asked for Kik or Telegram 2 messages in "

Same or whats app

Also people who want to meet straight away we r busy we can fit you in when we can we r very picky

If u like us you shud wait please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word dom and bull.

Chavs and the scouse accent

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

For me it's profiles that say 'hotwife',I personally tend to find that they're not as sexy as they think they are, or they're so far up themselves that I wouldn't want to meet them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being called a good girl

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By *oulou0974Woman
over a year ago

Inverness

Naughty, even worse if they spell it nawty

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

daddy... not good..

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

The word ick

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By *utieBootyPatootieWoman
over a year ago

Here or There abouts

"What stops you in your tracks

For me it's the term "daddy" it sends a Cold shiver down my spine "

* Vix changes knickers into something less offensive* lol

On a serious note though

*bad grammar

*poor hygiene

*being asked 1001 questions.

*wanting to swap numbers or socials after a few messages.

*Txt talk wuu2? Hru? Faf?

(Though I'm guilty of this too, I say lol far too much even when nothing is funny lol)

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

people trying to get us to sext with them when we just want to chat and get to know them,

People who use hahaha at the end of every message.

Bad breath/body odour

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By *9erloverMan
over a year ago

Sleepy Dorset

"Smoking.

Copulation pictures where socks are being worn.

Poor dental hygiene.

Poor grammar and punctuation.

Background pictures of unkempt houses.

Pictures of stained bed linen

To name but a few"

All of the above

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By *oxyLady200Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Women in school girl uniforms. Entry point for the register, instant vomit.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"people trying to get us to sext with them when we just want to chat and get to know them,

People who use hahaha at the end of every message.

Bad breath/body odour "

Or hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'hung'

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

When the message starts ‘hey gorgeous couple’. Don’t know why, it just gives me the ick!

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"What stops you in your tracks

For me it's the term "daddy" it sends a Cold shiver down my spine "

Too many to mention, but also hate this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting my hand shoved in sticky liquids on bars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of humour or thinking to highly of themselves

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

Pierced nipples and vaginas

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By *urganguyMan
over a year ago

around

Crocs

They're a passion killer of the highest order

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Random 3 word messages

Hairy

Straight profiles messaging me saying they are actually bi

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

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By *hatbiatchWoman
over a year ago

craigavon

"Crocs

They're a passion killer of the highest order "

Lmao!!!! I knew it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crocs

They're a passion killer of the highest order "

I use Crocs for slippers and another pair for the garden. I'm gutted.

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By *otfoot377Man
over a year ago

Chingford

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By *otfoot377Man
over a year ago

Chingford

"Crocs

They're a passion killer of the highest order "

Yes have to agree

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

People who say like every 2nd word yuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pushy men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath, poor hygiene and dodgy politics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young lads playing with their balls and taking to you

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Hairy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad breath, poor hygiene and dodgy politics "

Define dodgy politics?

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By *andy CanesWoman
over a year ago

candy cane lane

Fat stomachs you know the ones where the person probably can’t even see there private bits just no …. No need of it whether male or female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos that have gone through more filters than a 20 year old kenco coffee machine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pierced nipples and vaginas

Do you mean pierced labia? The vagina is the inner 'tube' that accommodates the penis, you can't pierce that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos in fluffy dressing gowns

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By *uriousBeastMan
over a year ago

London

Hygiene.

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By *hriscooperMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Definitely hygiene.. Followed by a shitty or boring attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pierced nipples and vaginas

Do you mean pierced labia? The vagina is the inner 'tube' that accommodates the penis, you can't pierce that

Men and female anatomy..........huh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Low libidos

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

Lancs

Messy bedroom

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

"Pierced nipples and vaginas

Do you mean pierced labia? The vagina is the inner 'tube' that accommodates the penis, you can't pierce that

Men and female anatomy..........huh"
pedantic people.

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Bad Hygiene.

Bad teeth.

Dick pics.

Fanny pics.

Guys who think we all want "50 Shades Of Grey" bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pierced nipples and vaginas

Do you mean pierced labia? The vagina is the inner 'tube' that accommodates the penis, you can't pierce that

Men and female anatomy..........huhpedantic people. "

If it's pedantry to encourage people to use the correct terminology for the body parts they wish to intimately interact with then I'm more than happy to be a pedantic. Not using the right name for the relevant parts could lead to all sorts of miscommunications in the bedroom, and find it worrying that some grown adults don't actually know the names of the parts they are referring to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread it's a miracle anyone ever meets!

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By *isterMushroomMan
over a year ago

Warrington

For me It’s when a woman with large boobs manages to take a pic whilst sucking her own nipple. Don’t know why but most I have seen instantly makes me hit the back button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike the word “horny”, but I have not yet found a suitable replacement for it. I think it needs to be another singular word in my opinion. Suggestions are appreciated!! X

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

"I dislike the word “horny”, but I have not yet found a suitable replacement for it. I think it needs to be another singular word in my opinion. Suggestions are appreciated!! X

Ravenous

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

"Crocs

They're a passion killer of the highest order

I use Crocs for slippers and another pair for the garden. I'm gutted."

I wear them at Kestrels because I trip wearing flip flops... although never ever worn in pics. Gosh I've just outed myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dislike the word “horny”, but I have not yet found a suitable replacement for it. I think it needs to be another singular word in my opinion. Suggestions are appreciated!! X

Ravenous

xx"

Nah that makes me think of food. Mmmn food….!!’

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

Piercings. I know many people like it. But it puts me off for some reason. I think it has something to do with my needle phobia. I am happy with tattoos though.

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

Lancs

When they aren't breathing, don't know why but always turns me off

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By *layisbetterwithLaughterMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge

When she ties me to the dais and all her friends begin chanting "with your life he will rise".

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By *isterMushroomMan
over a year ago

Warrington

"When they aren't breathing, don't know why but always turns me off "

That’s gotta be worse than when they start crying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they aren't breathing, don't know why but always turns me off "

Getting kinda fussy now aren’t you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love Island

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

Lancs

"When they aren't breathing, don't know why but always turns me off

Getting kinda fussy now aren’t you!

Haha I try not to be

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

Lancs

"When they aren't breathing, don't know why but always turns me off

That’s gotta be worse than when they start crying "

Haha deffinatly

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By *ualityNotQuantityUKCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

People who can't be bothered to string a coherent sentance together or/and people who send a generic messages which are obviously to everyone (trawling as opposed to fishing).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dislike the word “horny”, but I have not yet found a suitable replacement for it. I think it needs to be another singular word in my opinion. Suggestions are appreciated!! X

Aroused

Moist

Girded loins

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Silent sex

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"For me it's profiles that say 'hotwife',I personally tend to find that they're not as sexy as they think they are, or they're so far up themselves that I wouldn't want to meet them anyway. "

I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or not but "Hotwife" is a label used for Women who play with others with their Partner's full approval and encouragement (but not in a Cuckold-type way), it is not necessarily a Woman's opinion of her own physical attractiveness.

Although admittedly, I struggled to accept using this label as I thought the same and I don't consider myself "hot".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i breed you

Can i suckle your milk

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By *illain1Man
over a year ago

Basildon

"Women in school girl uniforms. Entry point for the register, instant vomit. "

Same here, just wrong.

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By *k12345Man
over a year ago

Canterbury

People who wear crocs...

Just no..

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

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"For me it's profiles that say 'hotwife',I personally tend to find that they're not as sexy as they think they are, or they're so far up themselves that I wouldn't want to meet them anyway.

Although admittedly, I struggled to accept using this label as I thought the same and I don't consider myself "hot"."
I mean it in the sense of their opinion. A quick name search shows a number of 'hotwife' singletons.

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

Guys that want to “push your boundaries”

Wtf does the word no mean to them?

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"For me it's profiles that say 'hotwife',I personally tend to find that they're not as sexy as they think they are, or they're so far up themselves that I wouldn't want to meet them anyway.

Although admittedly, I struggled to accept using this label as I thought the same and I don't consider myself "hot".I mean it in the sense of their opinion. A quick name search shows a number of 'hotwife' singletons. "

The ones I am seeing still describe a Hotwife scenario in their profile.

Many Hotwives will have single profiles as often you're meeting HER, not her Husband.

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Guys that want to “push your boundaries”

Wtf does the word no mean to them? "

Again, makes me think they've read too much 50 Shades Of Grey. x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Dom, sorry but just No.

Babe or Hun easily a close second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body odour , bad smell.. instant turn off for me…

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

I understand about the daddy thing is a real turn off for me too. X

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

"Women in school girl uniforms. Entry point for the register, instant vomit. "

Ive never understood this and find it strange that some people accept this as normal when it is sexualised.

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By *ilva69Man
over a year ago

stockport

Selfies with the toilet in the back shot

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By *iscreetMan_UKMan
over a year ago

nearby

Daddy is a boner killer.

If I’m browsing profiles and I see bloke wearing ladies underwear, a cock ring or some kind of cage, it’s an instant no for me too.

Each to their own.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"Selfies with the toilet in the back shot"

Oh god there's so many. Hiding from their partner

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

"Selfies with the toilet in the back shot

Oh god there's so many. Hiding from their partner

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Willie's over a toilet with pee in it

Babe ,slut, cumbitch ,daddy ,step-mum

Being asked what I like !!

Asking my fantasy!!

Being asked if I'm free from someone just joined ,no pics anything

Saturday night randoms

Oh and standing on lego

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Lack of cleanliness / hygiene.

Women who can't be bothered to speak properly. Ya know.

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By *oxy RedWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Being called a Queen or Princess!!!

Dirty nails

Bad breath

Messy rooms/backgrounds in photos

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By *ixenandStag69Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Pierced cocks instant turn off

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By *ophia_cdTV/TS
over a year ago

Dundee

Daddy does nothing for me.

Coffee, cigarette or beer breath.

Poor personal hygiene.

Hairy panty wearers.

People that don't read profiles and send random friends requests.

People that think the world revolves around them.

Ugly dick pics.

Etc, etc, etc.

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By *reeformMan
over a year ago

China

"Soz now but...............

F'Ugly Dick Pics Virtually Shoved In My Face

To be fair the majority of pussy pics make me heave, not many lovely looking ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women wearing socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dogs in profile pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages that consist of just..Hi

Also any of the following babe,bull,arse,hun,dom.

Just cock pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rotten teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone mention clingy whinging people?band self pity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who have toilets in there pictures. Why for god sakes

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By *isterMushroomMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Writing all over a woman’s body with a marker pen. What the fuck is that all about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Writing all over a woman’s body with a marker pen. What the fuck is that all about?"
ye that's straight up weird

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

"Anyone mention clingy whinging people?band self pity?

Isn't that an REM song?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Writing all over a woman’s body with a marker pen. What the fuck is that all about?"

What like a tattoo?

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

When you look at the pictures and in the back ground it looks like they live in squaller

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

For us the biggest is guys wearing lingerie. Instant deal breaker.

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Clothes laying around the room, pics taken next to the toilet,I could name a few ....

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By *accar305Man
over a year ago

Somerset

Gynaecological and urological rather than intimate and erotic……or is just me ??

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"For us the biggest is guys wearing lingerie. Instant deal breaker."

I agree plus also guys saying they want to eat me out. Yuck to both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're rude to the waiter, bloody hate that. It could make a 10 look like a -3 instantly.

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"For us the biggest is guys wearing lingerie. Instant deal breaker."

Yes - not our thing - and some of the user names people come up with…not sure when they thought they were a good idea / attractive in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A untidy home in the photo

Breed me messages knock me sick !

Bad manners !

Bad banter !

And in person I’d actually simply walk away if personal hygiene was lacking …..

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

Gynaecology style photos, multiple bareback pictures and signs of small mindedness or bigotry is my big turn offs

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By *neforutoMan
over a year ago

Fantasy land in the SW

Bad grammar, txt speak, profiles that read with a high level of self entitlement and close ups of peoples bits.

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By *ove2watchMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Bushy... Don't mind tidy trims

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Writing all over a woman’s body with a marker pen. What the fuck is that all about?"

The tattoo culture equivalent of vaping instead of smoking?

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By *eautifullyUnconventionalWoman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Messages that say, I love your photos. What, the photos you can't see because they are private.

Wanting numbers or photos on the 2nd message.

The bloke that keeps messaging to say he's won 15k or 10k and wants to celebrate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People leaving socks on during sex ! Just a complete turn off !

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By *isterMushroomMan
over a year ago

Warrington

couples or single women trying to sell used kecks. Wtf is that all about? I understand some folk need a side hustle, just go deliver pizzas or something and wash your underwear

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By *ove2watchMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath , bad teeth or missing teeth and people without any table manners!

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By *igtittedslut4uWoman
over a year ago

st.helens

"What stops you in your tracks

For me it's the term "daddy" it sends a Cold shiver down my spine "

Gives me the ick personally

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By *eacefulWizardMan
over a year ago

Champéry, Switzerland

Professional... I kind of understand if you run a swinger business, but other than that. Please, It's not a job, nor are we machines.

Men profiles yet they are couples or women.

Filters, or mega outdated pics.

No pics at all on profile, not even the main one. who cares if you're clothed,not,just, have a Pic, somehow, as we all know why we are here, let's face it.

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By *andJDubaiCouple
over a year ago

Dubai, with visits to Glasgow, Edinburgh and London

"I just can't.. haha

Totally fair enough!"

Don’t you mean “Totally hair enough”?

Hahaha

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By *xstevenxxMan
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Very Graphic pictures of people’s organs

Tasteful pics go a long waste be it semi clothed or fully dressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty fingernails. Photos with WC in them. Half eaten meals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mysteriously having a couples profile with model like pics of lady only and loads of profile updates about meeting with M only as away on business etc. Honestly it's so transparent just set up a M profile.

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By *istressRoxie93TV/TS
over a year ago

Wood Green

People that demand pics of you but have none of themselves!

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

"come suck me in my car"

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Anybody body shaming others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some accounts constantly posting the most pointless updates daily. I really couldn’t care if you’re leaving fab for a while, or you’re back or shaming the opposite sex. If you’re leaving fab or taking a break, do it and we know you still are always logging in lol. The site doesn’t need play by play of your day

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

Men wearing socks and nothing else lol

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Anybody body shaming others."

This

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

Arrogance and rudeness x

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laziness

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By *livepalmWoman
over a year ago

Town

Smokers. What’s worse is people that say they don’t smoke and when you meet them they vape. They say it’s not smoking.

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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

I was going to meet someone on here in a hotel nearby… and then she said, “get me some ciggies on your way over, or a vape”

Wasn’t for me…

I bave dated smokers where you can’t tell… but it’s just a turn off - sorry to offend anyone

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By *isterMushroomMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Smoking I get, but vapes? They don’t make people or their breath smell!

I hate turning up to a meet and they’re doing lines of . Instant and awkward turn off for me

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By *iscreetMan_UKMan
over a year ago

nearby

In my profile I have a note of 3 or 4 things that are just absolute “nos” for me.

If you message me and discuss any of the things that I have implicitly said I don’t like, you’re not even getting a response mate.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

A lot of comments in these forums

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By *winglow777Man
over a year ago

selkirk

Swearing during sex. Literally no need.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I’m a celebrity

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By *fnmdudeMan
over a year ago

St.Helier

Single men pretending to be a couple and asking for video tributes for their gf or wife so they can get off watching a video of you masturbating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Death breath.. Get the fuck outta here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the.. “What would you do to my wife?” Messages.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Drug or 420 references

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Smokers, an inability to wash themselves, vaping, drug use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who don't look like they wash before taking photos

Bad breath

And on a more general note - homes that smell like deep fat friers

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Swearing during sex. Literally no need. "

I can understand someone saying something like 'Fuck me hard' or 'Fuck me deep' during sex but what is with the constant use of 'the fuck', 'like fuck', 'as fuck' etc in profile statements or forum correspondence? It's worse than the constant inclusion of 'literally' and equally unnecessary.

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