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By *inBridgend OP   Couple
over a year ago

Llanelli

So what do people understand by ‘soft swing’?

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By *dswingersCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

oral only for us

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Same room fun but no swaps

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

No W/S and no marking?

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Everything else stated as preference with penetration kept to own partners only. Well for us anyway.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

It can vary a little from couple to couple, but I think generally it refers to no intercourse.

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

The definition can be fluid depending on how the meet goes.

I had a threesome with a couple who said 'soft swing only' and we started off that way in the living room. We were clearly enjoying ourselves and they invited me upstairs to the bedroom for full on sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the foreplay type stuff but no penetrative sex.

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

For us it’s anything but penetration. So oral, toys etc but no fucking.

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By *as1373Couple
over a year ago

Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf

For us it's all but penetration of anyone except your own partner.

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By *hakespears SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Exactly this….but it’s worth saying that ‘soft’ play can still be fucking hot!!

I think some people get too obsessed with full sex as the goal and miss out on the fun to be had with soft play.

Mr.

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By *lirtyfuncplxCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

For us it’s everything (within both couples boundaries) except for penetrative sex with the other couple

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By *a1970Man
over a year ago

East cork

Well worth knowing

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

When we first started swinging it was soft swing only for the first three years,made meets more sensual but we gradually progressed into full then I ventured into the world of hotwifeing.

I do still enjoy meets without penetration but I couldn't do it all the time.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Exactly this….but it’s worth saying that ‘soft’ play can still be fucking hot!!

I think some people get too obsessed with full sex as the goal and miss out on the fun to be had with soft play.

Mr."

We love soft swing. When seen as something in its own right - e.g. not just half of what you really want to do - we find it is often just as good as full swing. Quite intimate and enjoyable!

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By *ittyjayCouple
over a year ago

essex

Being new this has confused us somewhat aswell, we've found people's definitions vary, from same room fun with own partner to everything but penetrative sex, we just check with any prospective people

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Being new this has confused us somewhat aswell, we've found people's definitions vary, from same room fun with own partner to everything but penetrative sex, we just check with any prospective people "

I think that's for the best. I'm pretty sure that the "official" definition is anything short of penetration. And I think it is down to those involved to make clear if they mean less than that (e.g. just playing with own partners in close proximity).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it as everything but penetrative.

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

Same room and non swapping. Which sounds pretty pointless in swinging.

It’s like trying a new restaurant and bringing your own food!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"I see it as everything but penetrative."

That's our take on it too.

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By *ie n MashCouple
over a year ago

Back in Malice


"I see it as everything but penetrative.

That's our take on it too."

And ours. As others have said, this can be incredibly hot.

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